Now, I've been with this guy before. For a month exactly, and then after we broke up we didn't talk for 6 months. Back in March we started talking and hanging out. We're on making-out terms right now. The past two weeks we haven't talked or hung out, he still insists that he wants to be more than friends and I say that I don't appreciate him dicking around. (Dicking around in a sense that he never calls.)

Actions speak louder than words, right? Anyway, I am done giving him chances and chances and more chances. There's one chance left, I dunno how that's going to blow over with him.

But, to the point, I am unsure how physically attracted I am to him. I love kissing him, but it's never gone farther than that, and I am in the mood to get laid. I have been for a month.

Is it bitchy to fuck him just to test how attracted I am to him? I don't know of any other way to find this out.

If you wanna screw him then do it, it's not bitchy or whatever.

But are the underlying intentions that of a bitch? I ain't doin it out of love, hate, or boredom. I'm doing it as a test.

It's more slutty than bitchy. If you want it, then go for it, as reject said.

Makes sense, I'm more cautious of being slutty than a bitch. Gawt it.

It's not slutty at all. If a guy were to ask this same question people would call him an idiot and tell him to just do it. So..."just do it".

QFT..

Sex is sex, as long as you don't tell him he'd just be glad he got laid.

This is the mentality of little girls people, soak it in...

But are the underlying intentions that of a bitch? I ain't doin it out of love, hate, or boredom. I'm doing it as a test.

As a test? You're an idiot. I would of at least accepted bored.

It's not slutty at all. If a guy were to ask this same question people would call him an idiot and tell him to just do it. So..."just do it".

Not really, because a guy would be saying, "I want to fuck her because she looks good, but not THAT good, advice?" Drink a six pack. As for stripped, she is thinking about sleeping with the guy for a very stupid reason, pretty much setting herself up to get hurt.

This thread is proof of how people are becoming more mechanical by the day.

Very true, no one has critical thinking ability.

Look at it this way...

He's probably going to dick you around anyways so I say just do the guy, try to enjoy it and wait for the shit to hit the fan.

If you think sex alone will be a determinant for attraction, there are bigger problems here.

*ObZ

You should do anal with him.

This is the mentality of little girls people, soak it in...



As a test? You're an idiot. I would of at least accepted bored.



Not really, because a guy would be saying, "I want to fuck her because she looks good, but not THAT good, advice?" Drink a six pack. As for stripped, she is thinking about sleeping with the guy for a very stupid reason, pretty much setting herself up to get hurt.

Look, CarbonB, your mind doesn't work the way mine does. I'm looking at this from a different perspective, and that does not make me a little girl. I am not setting myself up to be hurt, who said I had feelings for this guy?

I don't care what you do and don't accept, that's the reason, I asked if it was a bitchy thing, and you said it was idiotic. I wasn't asking if it was idiotic. Your advice fails, please read the question and then reply again if you feel like doing so/trying to bitch me out.

See, that is what I'm asking. And, to clarify, not just sex alone, but things of a sexual nature because I'm not sure how comfortable I'd feel fucking him/sucking his dick/things of that sort.

Look, CarbonB, your mind doesn't work the way mine does. I'm looking at this from a different perspective, and that does not make me a little girl. I am not setting myself up to be hurt, who said I had feelings for this guy?

I don't care what you do and don't accept, that's the reason, I asked if it was a bitchy thing, and you said it was idiotic. I wasn't asking if it was idiotic. Your advice fails, please read the question and then reply again if you feel like doing so/trying to bitch me out.

You are a little girl.

See, that is what I'm asking. And, to clarify, not just sex alone, but things of a sexual nature because I'm not sure how comfortable I'd feel fucking him/sucking his dick/things of that sort.

Idiotic little girl...

I have to say that I'm a bit confused here. You're done giving him chances, with the exception of this one chance where you find out by fucking him if he's someone you want to fuck?????

You should have sex with him if you want to but let him know you aren't serious if you aren't serious. As long as your honest he will just be happy to get laid.


Just out of curiosity, how old are you?

He wants a relationship with me, at one point I did too, but no longer do I feel that way. His chances there are done.

I am definitely going to let him know the terms: No strings attached.

I'm 16. A little girl in those terms, but.

He wants a relationship with me, at one point I did too, but no longer do I feel that way. His chances there are done.

He wants a relationship, yet you're upset because he hasn't called just because you're wanting to get laid?

I think that somewhere deep inside you're lying to yourself. Which lies they are, it's hard to tell.

I am definitely going to let him know the terms: No strings attached.

I'm 16. A little girl in those terms, but.

Holy fuck. I didn't realise that's how sixteen-year-olds think.

Have I mentioned lately that I love you?

I am definitely going to let him know the terms: No strings attached.

I'm 16. A little girl in those terms, but.

Tsk. Tsk. Tsk.....

He wants a relationship, yet you're upset because he hasn't called just because you're wanting to get laid?

I think that somewhere deep inside you're lying to yourself. Which lies they are, it's hard to tell.

:-)

He wants a relationship, yet you're upset because he hasn't called just because you're wanting to get laid?

I think that somewhere deep inside you're lying to yourself. Which lies they are, it's hard to tell.

I am not upset anymore, I was upset when I still had feelings for him, and wanted a relationship with him. I am over the emotional aspect.

Have I mentioned lately that I love you?



Tsk. Tsk. Tsk.....



:-)


This thread was not made so you could prove your point, if you're not going to be helpful, leave me alone. Now you're just bein real greasy and creepy.

You should do anal with him.

You should do anal with him.

QFT!!

Cornhole each other.

You should do anal with him.

How does it feel, first?

In my experience it's a shameful and degrading experience. But that's because I'm a male and I only used my finger.

As long as you don't lead the guy on its fine. Just make it clear to him that you don't want a relationship or he might get the wrong idea.

double team with jojoman

He's going to do what he wants to do. If he wanted to call you and be around you, he would.

Furthermore, he will only 'dick you around' if you show him that its okay. If you try to see him more seriously or have sex with him he will get the message that its okay not to call, and that its just dandy to treat you poorly to get sex.

Please don't let yourself be used, dear. He doesn't sound like he's worth your time, especially since you aren't even sure how attracted you are to him.

You should do anal with him.

You should do anal with him.

QFT.

Seriously though, this whole thing is fucking ridiculous.

Testing to see if you like a guy by having sex with him...?

Like ObsidianZ said... there are obviously bigger problems here.

I'm not sure how comfortable I'd feel fucking him/sucking his dick/things of that sort.

Ok, do all girls think like this???

This thread was not made so you could prove your point, if you're not going to be helpful, leave me alone. Now you're just bein real greasy and creepy.

Greasy and creepy is a 16 year old girl sleeping around so she can "find out" whether or not she likes someone. Idiotic, that is you.

Stupid shit.

Yes, you're a bitch. A materialistic bitch.

Yes, you're a bitch. A materialistic bitch.

Alright, I was asking if it was a bitchy thing to do, apparently it is, I just was looking for a second opinion. And, because it's bitchy, and because I am not a bitch, I ain't gonna do it.

You have bad judgement, by the way, as I am one of the least materialistic people here.

Damn, fuck you guys.

Alright, I was asking if it was a bitchy thing to do, apparently it is, I just was looking for a second opinion. And, because it's bitchy, and because I am not a bitch, I ain't gonna do it.

You have bad judgement, by the way, as I am one of the least materialistic people here.

Damn, fuck you guys.

It's just sex, stop making it like it's some big deal.

If you're up for it and he's up for it, go get laid.

I honestly don't understand you people.

It's just sex, stop making it like it's some big deal.

If you're up for it and he's up for it, go get laid.

I honestly don't understand you people.

Sex is a big deal to some people.

Maybe this guy that the OP is talking about fucking is the type of guy who see's sex as the ends to a mean, rather than the means to an end like the OP.

I still think you should have anal sex with him.

Alright, I was asking if it was a bitchy thing to do, apparently it is, I just was looking for a second opinion. And, because it's bitchy, and because I am not a bitch, I ain't gonna do it.

You have bad judgement, by the way, as I am one of the least materialistic people here.

Damn, fuck you guys.

What are you talking about? I don't think you know what being a bitch means, you are too stupid to have sex. Please, never open your retarded fucking limbs for anyone, let alone some douche who doesn't call.

This message is hidden because CarbonB is on your ignore list.

Ohhhh that feels good :) I highly recommend it!

Alright, I was asking if it was a bitchy thing to do, apparently it is, I just was looking for a second opinion. And, because it's bitchy, and because I am not a bitch, I ain't gonna do it.

You have bad judgement, by the way, as I am one of the least materialistic people here.

Damn, fuck you guys.

First of all having sex with someone to "figure out" if they're attractive or not is retarded, I couldn't give less of a fuck if that's not what you wanted to hear because it's the truth.

Yes it is a bitch thing to do, would you not be pissed off if you wanted a relationship with a guy and then he just decided to fuck you to see if you were hot, I'm sure he can figure that out with his eyes, and so can you.

Also do you not see how ridiculous you look saying "Alright, I was asking if it was a bitchy thing to do, apparently it is, I just was looking for a second opinion. And, because it's bitchy, and because I am not a bitch, I ain't gonna do it." If you weren't a bitch, wouldn't you know it's a bitchy thing to do in the first place? Not to mention your decision was entirely based on what a random internet forum thinks. Learn some common sense before you fuck up your life and probably someone elses too.

most guys don't mind a one night stand...unless they're a sentimental fag

From what you have told me about him, the nature of you guys breaking up the first time, and the fact it's already sketchy, this doesn't sound like it would work anyways.

Whatever your underlying reasons are, whether it be lust or some kind of closure/revenge, do what you think feels right.

You're a big girl and know what's up tangerine, whatever you do probably wont effect you too much in the long run.

See, the good thing about this situation, or possibly the worst thing, is that I have no feelings for this guy. His relationship is meaningless to me because I have learned how to let him go so fast, due to times in the past when he left abruptly and I've had to recover more than once.

It's already been fucked up too many times to even go back and try, but I'd rather get somethin' out of it than nothing.

Who knows, I really am not sure at this point, I'll just tell him I plan on being a swinger and if he'd like to take a swing, that's alright, as long as there's no feelings being put into the deed on his part as well as mine.

And if he ain't okay with that, alright.

I think you should have anal sex with him.

and if he'd like to take a swing, that's alright, as long as there's no feelings being put into the deed on his part as well as mine..

Oh my. You really are a trashy slut. I'm 15 and if I were your boyfriend and read this.. I would be afraid of the copious amounts of STDs I'd get, on the recieving end of this deed.

Just kidding. Give him anal, it's BETTER then sex and your stupid ass won't get pregnant in the process.

See, the good thing about this situation, or possibly the worst thing, is that I have no feelings for this guy. His relationship is meaningless to me because I have learned how to let him go so fast, due to times in the past when he left abruptly and I've had to recover more than once.

It's already been fucked up too many times to even go back and try, but I'd rather get somethin' out of it than nothing.

Who knows, I really am not sure at this point, I'll just tell him I plan on being a swinger and if he'd like to take a swing, that's alright, as long as there's no feelings being put into the deed on his part as well as mine.

And if he ain't okay with that, alright.

Lol, women this is why men treat you like shit. Do not blame us, blame yourselves.

Holy fuck. I didn't realise that's how sixteen-year-olds think.

Why do you think it's illegal to fuck them in the States? It's the emotional/mental equivalent of matching Bobby Fischer against a five year old in a chess match.

OP

do you live in london?