I don't know where to put this, I only use Sex and Affection on Totse and some times Rock N' Roll. If you want to move this fine. I just have so many worries, fears, emotions, and drama right now and this always happens when I come home for holidays and breaks from college. As soon as my car crosses into my hometown I am drenched with all of the memories and drama that highschool and middle school gave me. I hate going to Walmart to buy tampons and seeing the girl that called you a lesbian because you liked to "sniff her panties in the softball locker room" walk by you. I hate going to the local gym only to have to see the guy that won't talk to you because at one point that same girl above wrote a poem and gave it the guy saying that it was from me. It was all about cutting my wrists and shit because he wouldn't talk to me. *rolls eyes* I hate going to the gas station because I just felt like a fucking soda and getting eyed down for not buying Fuji water (my bad America, my bad). I hate the fact that the guy that cheated on me over the summer is still with that girl that lives 5 hours away. I wish he would just fall on his ass already. I hate how I keep going back to my ex over and over again only to get hurt.

How bad is it for a girl to not reciprocate foreplay? Because I just realized that I laid on my back for about a year now not doing anything. He wouldn't let me a year ago, and so I thought it was something with me so I stopped. And then all of a sudden, he NOW brings it up. Like now, he won't even have sex with me, he just wants to "fool around." I watched Juno today, and it reminded me so much of our relationship... minus the pregnant part, and the chair part. He's like the popular nerdy kid on the sports team, and I'm the girl that everyone wouldn't look twice at. Maybe that's why I keep going back, because I think that he's the only one that will make me be noticed to everyone else our age.

I go back to college on Sunday, and I'm not looking forward to it only for the simple fact of having my bad roommate. I'm 90lbs and she's probably near 300, so there's not much I can do. But if this semester is anything like last night, I think I will die. She has like 75% of the room, and I have what remains of the 25% minus the bed, she sleep talks and has nightmares about spiders to where she wakes up screaming her head off, she heats up the most nastiest TV dinners, I think she skipped class more then she went last semester, she never leaves the room (she brings her dinner from the dining hall back to the room), and she doesn't shower or clean or take out the trash. This semester she doesn't have classes on Tuesday's or Thursdays, so I am thinking it's going to be rougher on the situation and I just don't think I can handle it. I need my time, I need my space, I need my sanity, how do you defeat a 300 pound ugly chick?

Alright I'll stop there. I am so sick of crying...

Be smart and get a cheap room in a nice house owned by menopausal empty nester who may go insane soon.

It's bad not to reciprocate foreplay. I am guessing you were too insecure/not comfortable enough about the guy.

Pics?

300lb chick...Hmmmm...Throw a cupcake out the window and watch her arse splat when she reaches the ground?
Or beat her over the head with the trash and go psycho on her. Tell her to move her fat fucking arse or you're going to stick a knife up it and twist.
Make her shower...Bring the water to her if need be, in a bucket and throw it on her and start scrubbing her with the toilet brush...She should get the idea that she stinks.
Throw her food stuffs out and replace them with fruit and vegetables...And if she says anything, smack her with a hammer and tell her to move her shit out of your living space!

Or just talk to her. Could work.

For someone with as many problems as you have. why would you call your roommate names? "I'm the girl that everyone wouldn't look twice at".. so you are ugly? i bet no one ever had problems like you you dont think you are better then your roommate do you? someone with your kinda shitty life should be on the lookout for as many friends as possible. doesn't it get annoying when you cant figure out your own problems and have to ask others for help. weak.


oh and "I hate going to Walmart to buy tampons and seeing the girl that called you a lesbian because you liked to "sniff her panties in the softball locker room"

what the fuck did YOU think would happen?

you have to be a troll.

I never said I wasn't pretty, I actually think I look pretty good. It's just that I was an outcast in highschool because I was the shy girl who was easy to pick on and it just stuck. I have a ton of friends at college, but when I come home its the same old feelings of highschool. And isn't this a site where you come and ask people for help and advice? So why are you here then? Exactly, for the same reasons as me.

http://s4.photobucket.com/albums/y115/inimitableballerina/Me/?action=view&current=n686419244_203177_8231.jpg

Everybody gets shaken sometimes. You'll pull things together.

If he's only "fooling around", then maybe he doesn't consider it cheating on his girlfriend.

Applying for a room change could help with the bad roommate; talk to them about your issues with things. Don't be afraid to be honest.

Best wishes and good luck.

Last year, it was the same for me. My roomate said about 250 words to me during the entire time i was there, I did too much coke (which I got kicked out for), and basically hated being there. Coming home was a mixture of glee and anguish: I got to see my old friends, but also face the fact that my x was now fucking my best friend.

Sooner or later, all that bullshit highschool drama is gonna melt away. People forget--trust me, if you were the one they used to pick on, they're not gonna reserve a great deal of their mental space to remember past hurts visited on you. You should take a lessen from that and let old things go.

As for your roomate, don't spend time in the room if she sucks. Study in the library, hang out with friends, etc etc. Sleep there, and do everything else other places! There's a lot of places you can go.

Foreplay... The point of it is that you're both supposed to be working each other up, as far as I'm concerened, so you really should get into it. But that's the fun part, right? And if you know this x of yours is fucking someone else who he CHEATED ON YOU WITH and you know he keeps hurting you, why keep going back to him? You're gorgeous, go find someone worth your time.

Don't worry. You'll get through it, but it will take some time.

I hate to say it girl but...

You're NORMAL!.

Yeah its terminal I'm afraid. You'll just have to try and live with it.

For some reason I just didn't quite buy this.........Then I looked at your pic, wondered why you posted it and then thought.......For some reason I just don't quite buy this!

Sniffing panties was a nice touch though (supprised Ketch missed that!)

*Rummages through old Laundry basket*

Totse is the worst place to come for sympathy, but you have mine.

Not missed dear, SAVOURING!

The mental image...the nubile fresh teenage girl who sneaks off rounders early so she can a few private naughty moments alone in the girl's changing rooms....how she strokes that pair of panties, rubbing the stained gusset over her cheek while her hand goes up her own pleated sport skirt to find the moistness of her own still almost hairless cunny...how she imagines being caught while doing it, the gym slipper comng down on her bare bum infront of her classmates.

Ahhhh schooldays :)

So why are you here then? Exactly, for the same reasons as me.

http://s4.photobucket.com/albums/y115/inimitableballerina/Me/?action=view&current=n686419244_203177_8231.jpg

actually im here for the Weapons and combat forum. and spurious cracks me up. so why do you need to prove to me that your ok looking? you will get no approval from me.
and if you are a real person and not making shit up maybe you can explain to me why you felt the need to sniff your classmates underwear? thats fucked.

You are just as stupid as my classmates. The whole point of a rumor is that most of the time it isn't true, so therefore I don't get highs off of sniffing girls underwear. And obviously you are very immature if SG can entertain you. Secondly, the whole point of my argument wasn't that you go specifically to Sex and Affection, but rather Totse in general for advice. But if you would like to keep twisting my words, go right ahead. You really do fit into the SG crowd.

Secondly, I know I feel really bad for the foreplay thing. It was just that a year ago everytime I tried to give him foreplay he would push my hand away and say no. It happened more than once so I just stopped trying and then never tried again for fear of rejection. It just bothers me that he would now say something about it, like it was a problem for a while. Why didn't he just say something?

And my roommate is a dip shit. However, I pay for half of the room and to not be able to be in it more then the few hours I sleep is a waste of money. That's why I need to say something, but I don't want to be killed.

You are just as stupid as my classmates.

The guys name is 'chrislol'. Maybe he was trolling?:)

And my roommate is a dip shit. However, I pay for half of the room and to not be able to be in it more then the few hours I sleep is a waste of money. That's why I need to say something, but I don't want to be killed.

I wasn't joking about my accomodation advice.

I don't get highs off of sniffing girls underwear awww I was looking forward to more details on that, damn you girl! :P

Why didn't he just say something? Because he has the problem not you.

Am I right in thinking all he needed to do was whisper in ear something like 'I'd really love for you to kiss it' ? You aren't supposed to be telepathic, he needs to be mature enough to talk to you about his needs.

Ok you could have occaisionally asked or even better said something "Please may I suck your cock?" but that comes with more experience with men.

So stop beating yourself up about it.

Not missed dear, SAVOURING!

The mental image...the nubile fresh teenage girl who sneaks off rounders early so she can a few private naughty moments alone in the girl's changing rooms....how she strokes that pair of panties, rubbing the stained gusset over her cheek while her hand goes up her own pleated sport skirt to find the moistness of her own still almost hairless cunny...how she imagines being caught while doing it, the gym slipper comng down on her bare bum infront of her classmates.

Ahhhh schooldays :)

I cracked one out mate! :p

Fucking rounders...They don't play that...They call it baseball!

I hate it when I go to the chemist and I see a couple I know and they see me and we really didn't get along in high school and I'm buying condoms and cold sore cream and they're shopping for contraception and we stand there awkwardly, looking at each other after they catch me trying to hide in an isle after I saw them walking into the store.

I had to walk into the one isle they were going to...

Oh... and sympathy for your cause...

The guys name is 'chrislol'. Maybe he was trolling?:)

sometimes you just have to make your own fun. and i figure my name suits me, since its chris and i "lol" alot. get it?

and whats wrong with spurious? you are on a forum famous for bomb making texts and is populated by wannabe anarchists, so by your reasoning what might that make you? just because someone laughs at something you don't find funny doesn't make them immature, but its sunday now and i don't really wanna argue throughout the week, and i have stuff to do today so ill give you some advice.

I don't think i addressed you on your "bf" being shitty, the only advice i could give you on that is to stop going back, there are plenty of guys who would love to have a good looking gf just like you, hang around and check out S&A once in a while, lots of guys who are looking for love and would treat a girl properly and only wish they had the chance. and even if a guy isn't popular or rich or is even borderline retarded, if he really loves you and you love him back he can make you feel like a million bucks everyday of the week and thats what you should be looking for, because they are looking for you.

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(holy fuck look at that wall of text!)

Not missed dear, SAVOURING!


Ahhhh schooldays :)


Once again you fail to disappoint.

On topic.....Maybe the boy had some kind of medical issue he didn't wish to discuss or perhaps he was just not quite ready!

I spent most of my fourteenth year slapping wandering hands until Satan showed me the error of my ways.

I hate the fact that the guy that cheated on me over the summer is still with that girl that lives 5 hours away. I wish he would just fall on his ass already. I hate how I keep going back to my ex over and over again only to get hurt.

There's your fucking problem. Stop fucking around with your ex. He has a girlfriend, leave him be. God, how fucking stupid can you get? He cheated on you with his now girlfriend, and now he's cheating on her with you. He gets the best of both worlds between the two of you, and the best part is, he gets off in less than 5 minutes, leaving you unfulfilled.

There's your fucking problem. Stop fucking around with your ex. He has a girlfriend, leave him be. God, how fucking stupid can you get? He cheated on you with his now girlfriend, and now he's cheating on her with you. He gets the best of both worlds between the two of you, and the best part is, he gets off in less than 5 minutes, leaving you unfulfilled.

Woah woah woah woah, two different guys. Two different guys.

And thank you chrislol and rabbitweed, I will take the roommate advice lol

Woah woah woah woah, two different guys. Two different guys.

And thank you chrislol and rabbitweed, I will take the roommate advice lol

you are welcome. see i thought i said some nice things.

:)

*hug*

its ok.

All those shitty memories and dregs of your inadequate past melt away when you realize the better person you've become or at least, the better person that you can be. Don't worry. You're ex is a loser. Stop talking to him. You're roomates is gross and inconsiderate. Talk to her. And meanwhile shake up a smile or two. Things always get better honey.

*starts to reminisce*
...I remember back in middle school there was this one kid when I was in 6th grade who kinda picked on me. He was an eighth grader at the time and I was practically the least popular kid in the school (dad being the principal and all...). I maintain memories of him pushing me and insulting me and all that jazz.

Flash forward to this year and I see him standing in Barnes and Noble. Being my fully realized self, I walked up to the guy with genuine gladness to see a mark of my past. I said hey, smiled, conversed for a bit, projected utter confidence, shook his hand, and he seemed really taken aback and impressed.

So its not who you were, its who you want to be.

I never said I wasn't pretty, I actually think I look pretty good. It's just that I was an outcast in highschool because I was the shy girl who was easy to pick on and it just stuck. I have a ton of friends at college, but when I come home its the same old feelings of highschool. And isn't this a site where you come and ask people for help and advice? So why are you here then? Exactly, for the same reasons as me.

http://s4.photobucket.com/albums/y115/inimitableballerina/Me/?action=view&current=n686419244_203177_8231.jpg

If that picture is real, the people in your highschool are fucking retarded or all blind. Unless your hiding something then this seems like a perfectly normal problem. Dump the faggot and find a guy who some decent respect. Deal with that bitch who screwed you over by just being better then that, dont worry about her and her problems. And as for fat ass, the best way to deal with fat people is put a treadmill in your room and watch her leave faster then a fat bitch after a whole cake

I too hate going back to college. Means another 4 months without my girlfriend. The first 2 weeks are always the hardest.

I'm in Syracuse. So is jojoman, stripped and a couple other people. You should come up from Rochester for a weekend.

I'm in Syracuse. So is jojoman, stripped and a couple other people. You should come up from Rochester for a weekend.

right on! a rapevitation lol,