Has anyone been in a situation where your gf has gone off to college? My girl is going about an hour and a half drive..I hear all the stories of how she will find a smarter guy or just find another guy in general, or fuck a guy while drunk and cheat. It has all worried me, what should I do? We have been on and off for a year but have been consitently dating for about 6 months and yes I do love this girl and she is the best fuck ever for me.

Should I just live my life and wonder if she is fucking at a drunk college party? she will be at a dorm..what are the chances of this working?..I won't be able to come see her much, she wants me to move out there but thats is far-fetched at best..

I just gave her a ring too(nothing fancy but still)..I want this to work but I have my doubts.

You've got far too many problems to deal with at once. Seriously.

Have an open relationship. It's the only way it will work. All people get lonely, yourself included.

Too Jealous of a person to let that happen, it's just not me seriously.

Sarcasm? Did I say I had all the problems in the world? Earth!!!??

Sarcasm? Did I say I had all the problems in the world? Earth!!!??

Don't mind him, he's just drunk. :-P

Long distance stuff, especially involving college/uni is tough as hell, as me how. You need insane trust in each other under any circumstances, and by your worry I can tell that's a little wavering with you, which is gonna stress you to no end and back again. If you two really, really, really wanna give it a shot, prepare to have to talk/see each other decently often, fight sometimes, and know that it may (by all odds will, sad to say) end up badly. I almost want to say that it's not worth it and you should break it off now to save the hardship, but.. I more or less survived 8 months of a long distance relationship, and it was incredibly hard. Broke it off a few times because it got so stressful, but reconciled shortly after, and we both stayed faithful.

So yeah, chances are realistically very, very slim, but if you're BOTH willing to put every bit of effort into it knowing those odds without a second thought, by all means give it a try, but I can't tell you it'll ever be easy. To summarize...

Fire!

Sarcasm? Did I say I had all the problems in the world? Earth!!!??

Wind!!!??? (damnit orange)

You're 17, you'll find better. Trust me. Just move on, cuz you'll just be disappointed in the long (or not so long) run.

Wind!!!??? (damnit orange)

You're 17, you'll find better. Trust me. Just move on, cuz you'll just be disappointed in the long (or not so long) run.

Nono... I had it right, refer to this easy guide:


How hard is it people, really. Lets review.



Earth!
Fire!
Wind!
Water!
Heart!
(Optional)Go Planet.

By your powers combined, I am Captain Planet.

I loled through the flood of this in totse about a year ago, the order (alphabetic elements, then heart, then usually just the 'I R CAPTN PLNT' bit) is permanently pressed into my mind, except if I get no sleep or I'm very very drunk.

But yeah, OP, likely to be one of the hardest things your relationship will see or has seen for a good long while, srsly. Needs complete and total trust, faithfulness, and 110% effort from both of you or else it's more or less (99% of cases, mine partially excluded somehow) screwed from the start.

Nono... I had it right, refer to this easy guide:
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I know you had it right. But I said fire too, I just posted right after you so I had to edit mine

I know you had it right. But I said fire too, I just posted right after you so I had to edit mine

Ah in that case, lulz^5

As a university student myself, I'm often not bothered whether a girl has a boyfriend or not. Usually, I'm put off by it, but sometimes I'm passed caring. A man can only go for a dry spell for so long because the girls he always likes have boyfriends back home.

If you can't work an open relationship, then chances are some asshole like myself will probably do stuff with her anyway and you'll get a dear John letter if you don't go up and see her every weekend. Problem is those partying nights in the week when she and that asshole have drank an awful lot of "jungle juice"..

Thanks, assholes like yourself have ruined many relationships.

FUCK YOU.

It happens, dude. :/

Thanks, assholes like yourself have ruined many relationships.

FUCK YOU.

You're naive to think it wouldn't happen. Girl goes to college... Obviously, there's going to be drinking, obviously she's going to meet attractive dudes, obviously she's going to get lonely.

Do the math.

It's going to be the same for you without your partner there anyway. Open relationship that you don't talk about other people with when together. That way you won't feel bad about it when you fuck up either.

I guess you have three options:

1. Trust her. Forget your paranoid delusions and get on with missing her.

2. Break up. Admit defeat.

3. Cheat on her first. This one will only appeal to certain people, as the large majority of us would feel incredibly guilty were we to do this, but it may work for you...

I managed to get in real good with a girl that wasnt going to be residing in my area but for only a few weeks. Sort of had a time restriction on the situation which i realized, knowing that i wouldnt be able to establish anything with her since she would be going back to school 3 hrs away.

I wouldnt trust them if they are away like that. Id honestly tell a girl, no matter her level of attractiveness, that if she was going away like that, that we temporarly call off any ties between us until she returns. Girls will do stuff when they get lonely like that, especially if your far away, and especially if they are drinking.....

Water!!!

You can't really trust her imo. Just kind of let it go, even though yall might be still 'dating'. It's easier that way when she hooks up with someone there

your only an hour and a half away Jesus Christ its not that far. But if it will make you feel my buddy is in the marines and he has kept his high school girlfriend. They met senior year he went to the marines and she went to BC. They have been together for 3 years and when she graduates there gonna get married.

Its gonna be hard, and unless youre up there I would worry a lot. It depends on the girl and her HEART! but seriously i know how you must feel, im a jealous guy too and i dont know if i could deal with that :(

The first girl I dated did that and broke up with me the first week of college. Fucked one of her friends and after he wouldnt talk to her anymore, cried about it to me.

If she isnt that attached to you then break it off. I was happy when people told me it would work out but if shes not that attached it wouldn't

However, my current girlfriend goes to college 2 hours away and we have been together for 6 monthes now. Shes very attached to me, this is why it works out, shes not much of a party person but we do have fun some nights. I get jealous sometimes when shes out having a good time and im home with my dick in my hand, but I do trust her.

Yes, this is true that girls are surrounded by older more mature guys and kick ass parties. I've studied speed seduction and have read the game. I would suggest that the best course of action is to create feelings of jealousy within said girl. At first it sounds like suicide but when the girl sees a man as in high demand by other women, she will fight to keep her position. Remember, we are the prize, not the women. The girl may have won the title, but when she see's a contender fighting for her postiion, she'll do anything to keep it.

Live your life, visit, call, don't let things become one-sided.

you missed option 4

Move to where shes going to college
Get a job / apartment near the campus
Have her move in with you
See her everyday

If you're really worried and love her as much as you say you do, it shouldn't be too much to ask

That said, you're 17 and this is probably you're first real relationship. Get over it.

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a hour and a half is nothing. People drive that twice a day just to get work and back. Go up an see her on the weekends you fuck

True that, but unless he has alot of girls after him she may see take it the wrong way.....especially if shes away at the time at college, she may say fuck it and just move on to another guy.

She'll contend to keep him for sure if she remained local in. I keep my status with certain girls when other random guys come into the picture myself, so that little thing SKS described goes both ways... Depends id talk to her, ask some questions and see how she responds/reacts then id make a decision from there. Its tough really, alot of girls you can trust, whether you can manage to believe that past your paranoid delusions or not. Even the party type girls. But when distance is involved, that makes people think they can get away with stuff....

I went to university 3 hours away from my boyfriend, and we stayed together. It really just depends if she's truly commited to you.

This is an easy one.

Pretend to maintain relationship for both of your sake.

When she leaves, fuck the first broad you can.

See her on the weekends and fuck.

Fuck local bitches on weekdays.

Call/message the bitch goin off to college every week or something, and fuck other girls when you have the chance.

Long distance relationships are great, you are pretty much garunteed pussy when you meet up, and you don't have to worry at all about gettin caught for it cuz shes so far away.

Use distance to your advantage, grasshoppa.

Every single person I knew at my college who went into school in a long distance relationship had that relationship COLLAPSE within two semesters. Literally every single one. There was no exception. I repeat: every long-distance relationship I have personally known in this circumstance has ended within two semesters--and I knew a lot of them, some of whom were even engaged to be married and crap like that.

That said, good luck!

Just drop her dude...i just seen proof yet again leaning towards the truth of girls always fooling around with distance being involved. Some girl had her guy go off to school 1000+ miles away, and shes fooling around on him, HAVING FUN as she calls it. Luckly for the girls sake i have no way of notifying the guy that shes pulling some shit like this on.

If their guy/BF is out of town or gone for a period of time, they will cheat/fool around...its a god damn given. Get past your disbelief of it not being possible and just drink a beer, get mad/sad and get over it.

Wheres all the LQ totse girls that are going to come in here and rag on me saying i dont trust females? Its the fucking truth, from both ends even. Whos to say some girls wont be hawking mikehunt's ass whilst they know that your GF is out of town?

Worse enemy= Distance.

But but but if this isnt your only girl.....MAINTAIN your position with her and continue your game back up with fresh girls locally. That way knowing that she'll probably fool around its no loss to you since you have a fresh girl to mess around with. Then when she returns home(as toastman was saying) you can have your fun with her like nothing ever went wrong...thats if shes still interested in you.

In this case:
Advantage/convenience/Profit= Distance

It's over. Sorry to be the one to tell you this.

I assume you met in high school, right? So, out of the people in your high school, she picked you. Now, college is gonna be like high school, except all the undesirables will be taken out. So, instead of having a bunch of shitty people around to make you look good, she's gonna be surrounded by people who are in every possible way better than you. Women have no problem leaving you to rot if they feel they're "trading up" to a better boyfriend. It's over.

I'm in college a plane flight away from my girlfriend. Luckily, she's not in school (dancer) and she basically hangs out with my friends who are out of college anyways. She cheated on me once, when she went up with her friend to college for a night, but called me immediately. I cheated on her two, twice. We both felt horrible.

I'm not worried, though. No one's treated her as well as I have, and she's dedicated to me. I let her know that she's the most beautiful person to me, but also that, being at college, if she cheats on me again I'll drop her in an instant and be dating someone else.

I think it's a good balance.