I met this girl I have seen at church before at this party and I noticed her checking me out and giggling at all my jokes (I made quite a few cause I was extremely high). I didn't get her number cause my phone was broke so I found her on myspace the next day and she was happy I found her and invited me to go to a bon fire the next night. I didn't get the message in time so I didn't go.

The following week it seemed as if she wasn't interested in me anymore. I got my new phone in the mail and asked her for her number regardless. She didn't seem enthusiastic anymore so I kind of just dropped it. I did txt the number just to see if it was the rejection hotline and it really was her number. She kept txting me and calling me seeing who it was, cause I never picked up and when I did I just said "hey I'm busy" and hung up so she didn't know who was calling.

Well she found out from one of her girl friends that had my number and messaged me over myspace and said she is pissed at me and is going to castrate me. I joked around with her and she gave some sarcastically crude comments back then said "hey baby I'm just trying to make you laugh" then she replied "well I can't laugh cause you creep me out".

That made me feel pretty bad. I asked my girl friend to talk to her and see whats up so she did and she said that the girl doesn't hate me she just doesn't want a bf right now. The girl still talks to me over myspace too, I wonder why she hasn't blocked me yet. I put a =[ in a message and she asked whats wrong so I don't think she really hates me.

Also at church last week one of my friends, that knew her for a year and went to some jesus conference with her, called her over to our group standing in the hallway but she just looked and saw me then hurried off upstairs. That night I felt like making her uncomfortable so I took a seat right infront of her eyesight and faced her the whole time. I noticed that everytime the youth minister said something funny she would laugh then look at me. Then after it was over she was walking downstairs with her sister and friends and I was walking behind them. I heard them talking about me referring to "that guy she talks to on myspace" and they were giggling.

At first I didn't give a shit cause she was just another girl checking me out at a party that I figured I'd just fuck and whatever. But she's actually being quite a challenge and it's fun. But I never really had to work a girl like this so I'm not sure what to do......what do I do to get her to hook up with me?

Just walk up to her and talk, and say you'll kill her if she doesn't.

Sounds like you lost this one man.
It doesn't even matter if she really did like you now because her friends and her have probably all established you as a creep. Even if it's not true that's just how girls are.

Who says hes done? Hes still in contact with her, and to me that means you have chances yet. Otherwise if she stopped talking to him completely, id sign that one off then.

Id start talking to her again, joke with her as u were to make her laugh...see if you can end up going somewhere to hang out, like to the mall or at a party or something.

Sounds like you just lagged your chances with her, like you were unsure, and you didnt reel in on the 1st phase now your just not her center of attention at the moment.

Since it seems you have played just about an equal amount of silly games as she has, then your only next logical step in all of this would be to purchase a ladder. Ya know...... for peeking in her window at night or some other similar creepy stalkerish behavior. Obviously you are too scared/weird/childish to just have a normal conversation with her (like *gasp* FACE TO FACE) so your only recourse is to continue the logical chain of events what most creepy stalker people do. I think Home Depot is having some decent holiday sales on ladders........GOOD LUCK!

It's hard to talk to her face to face when she has said that to me. I guess my next move will be just to apologize and just say I was trying to just make her laugh and have fun and then ask her for her number again cause I don't have it anymore (which is true). If she says no, then it's over. If she says yes, then I won't be afraid of talking to her anymore

How's that sound? I'm no fuckin stalker but you can't deny its akward talking to someone to their face after they call you creepy.

I did txt the number just to see if it was the rejection hotline and it really was her number. She kept txting me and calling me seeing who it was, cause I never picked up and when I did I just said "hey I'm busy" and hung up so she didn't know who was calling.


I'm no fuckin stalker but you can't deny its akward talking to someone to their face after they call you creepy.

Well then......don't do creepy things, and then they wouldn't consider you creepy or call you creepy. Problem solved.

well she can't think I'm creepy really or she wouldn't still be talking to me and ask me whats wrong when I act down so....

If you define "talking" as....exchanging text back and forth on MySpace within the safety and comfort of both of your homes......then I don't know what else to say to you.

All I got out of that was
"........church......myspace.....myspace...... castrate...."

I meant talking as speaking to each other. Not talking like getting together. Would you like to help me or just ridicule me? Come on please?

Uh. I hate being pigeonholed as the creepy guy. It's happened to me before with girls and their friends. I've never won, but that doesn't mean you can't. Just get high and be funny again...

can't I just apologize and try to explain the situation?