My girlfriend says we never DO anything, but she won't tell me what she wants to DO... It is my opinion that there is nothing to DO, so I have no idea what she wants...

I also got yelled at for sleeping in till 7PM (what else am I supposed to do?) if that has anything to do with it.

Not a troll, just tired and looking for some clarity in the situation.

shes horny, fuck her

dates,sex.

Actually, my girlfriend has been saying the same thing. We've been going out almost a year, and in the past few weeks shes been saying she feels like we're in a rut and that everything is just routine now. We're still doing the exact same stuff we used to do (except less sex :(), and we go out at least once a week, i dont know what the hell she wants! I'll be broke (moreso) if we go out anymore, and i cant handle her saying she's bored either! ahhh!

you mean like APART from sex? by joe, i never knew there was anything else to a relationship...

but seriously, even if you just do really random and lame shit it's still fun... you could always be asian and go play some DDR or something... or go window shopping lol... and by window shopping i mean get you're GF to model some sexy lingerie in some shop... coz actually buying it is stupid

have you tried asking her what she wants to do?

Iv been there and believe me you dont have long left if you dont do somthing, do something spontanious, different and romantic or you can start enjoying single life.

Personally I would pick single life... Its a lot easier...

My girlfriend always seems to want to play more halo 3 than we do.

Wow.. ok:

Go to a park
Go to an amusement park
Go window shopping
Go out to a restaurant
Go to an arcade
Take her to the movies
etc.. etc..

And if she's getting tired of routine, start doing new things. Surprise her with stuff. You know, like when you guys first began? Surprise her with flowers, or a box of chocolates. If you guys live together make breakfast for her, etc.. etc..

Just devote time to her and your relationship, dude. :)

Picnic.

That'll buy you a month.

Picnic = two weeks
Picnic and then fuck the shit out of her while she's eating the sandwich you made her under a tree = month and a fucking half, baby.

An ex-girlfriend of mine complained one time that we never do anything... so I took her to the pub with my mates, ended up forgetting she was there and lost her. Ended up at a party that night and landed at her house just as the sun was rising. She wasn't overly impressed, but didn't complain of lack of activities any more.

Wow.. ok:

And if she's getting tired of routine, start doing new things. Surprise her with stuff. You know, like when you guys first began? Surprise her with flowers, or a box of chocolates. If you guys live together make breakfast for her, etc.. etc..

Just devote time to her and your relationship, dude. :)

That is the lamest fucking shit I have ever read. If I was a chick and my boyfriend bought home flowers for no good reason I would laugh and dump his ass for being a fucking whipped faggot like yourself.

That is the lamest fucking shit I have ever read. If I was a chick and my boyfriend bought home flowers for no good reason I would laugh and dump his ass for being a fucking whipped faggot like yourself.

You're not a girl, if you were you would be a dike, discerning from that attitude. girls love romantic, even cheesy romantic shit. Keep in mind that girls are a lot diferent from guys besides the fact that they have tits & a pussy.

That is the lamest fucking shit I have ever read. If I was a chick and my boyfriend bought home flowers for no good reason I would laugh and dump his ass for being a fucking whipped faggot like yourself.

I've never done it but I think a girl would appreciate getting flowers for no reason. I don't think it neccessarily means your whipped or anything but that it just shows you were thinking of her. Flowers/little gifts don't always have to be for an occassion or when you did something wrong.

Eat out, go for days out, shit like that, beats sitting in doing fuck all all day.

make her feel special for a second, fuck her brains out, repeat.

all i know

lucky bastard

My boyfriend is practically like a best friend who fucks me. We don't really have a problem finding things to do that aren't boring because "we enjoy hanging out with each other".

*Typical Saturday morning*
-wake up
-have sex
-"so what do you want to do"
-"I'm hungover. Breakfast, coffee, super smash bros?"
-"Fuck yeah"

Girls get bored easily, you can't just sit around with them and expect them to be happy with that. You have to actually make an effort to come up with ideas and new activities for you two to do. Take her to the beach, take her shopping (it will suck for you but earn you major points), just take her places and she'll be less bored with you.

Yea i mean come on im in a shit town and if the situation calls for it(running out of ideas) i can easily create new things to do....

Take her paintballing.

Take her paintballing.

My boyfriend does. He's bitter I'm a better shot than he is.

Wow you sound like a really cool GF to have.

you have a lucky boyfriend

goddamn me.

I'll need you to supply me with a list of everyone like you.

Relationships are too much work

Well that sucks because we're both broke right now. Just moved to a new state, and there is seriously nothing to do...

I guess we're going to the mall today to "look" at stuff, which to me seems like the dumbest thing imaginable but whatever...

And now that I'm more awake, let me also note that she was genuinely pissed the fuck off at me for the first time yesterday. We've apologized, made up, etc but still DAMN you don't want to make her mad...

And yes I love her and everything etc, it's just rough right now I guess... But I suppose I could try doing something "suprise"ish or something...

Anyway, I'm just rambling now... thanks for the help.

Try smacking her in the face for giving you sass. That should be new and exciting for her.

That is the lamest fucking shit I have ever read. If I was a chick and my boyfriend bought home flowers for no good reason I would laugh and dump his ass for being a fucking whipped faggot like yourself.

You obviously know shit about women, and yes, Im making a huge generalization because a lot of women love getting small gifts like that. Nothing fancy, just things to show her that you were thinking about her.

EDIT: You got me wrong if you think that you need to spend money, man.

I'm not sure where you are, but if you're in the states, autumn can be very romantic. Again, I don't know if she is, but I think all girls have a little bit of a romantic inside of them. Just go to a park somewhere, sit underneath a tree(or whereever) and just talk. Have a good time, just spend time together. :)

Put your dick in a box?

Shave her vagina!

That is the lamest fucking shit I have ever read. If I was a chick and my boyfriend bought home flowers for no good reason I would laugh and dump his ass for being a fucking whipped faggot like yourself.

And that's why nobody would love you. :)

You guys can smoke together... may i recommend some marijuana.....mhhh mhhh good times :) --o0o0o0

Put your dick in a box?

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0_F8CcdF304


Really now, this is a difficult situation bud. Well look...the key here is not being a lazy, useless, idle, complacent little shit and taking incentive and being assertive. Being a man in other words.

Ok, so just take a normal situation, lets say your sitting inside with nothing to do, ask her to walk outside with you and sit down and watch the sky and hold hands. Be like, "hey let me get us some drinks. Are you hungry?" and fix both of you a sandwich.

Or just make dinner for her tonight and do something cool as fuck. Rent a movie shes been mentioning, if shes a party type tell her about a party youve heard about and tell her "lets go".

Does she like video games? Just randomly rent some cool 2 player game that she'll be able to pick up quickly and have fun.

Ask her if she wants you to eat her out while shes in the shower. Be seductive and teasing of course.

Spend some time cuddling on something comfortable and just having a cool conversation.

Fucking make your lives something other than boring. You can do it. Man up.

Sure it is a girl? If She is then check her birth records, she could be master cheif's wife!

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0_F8CcdF304


Really now, this is a difficult situation bud. Well look...the key here is not being a lazy, useless, idle, complacent little shit and taking incentive and being assertive. Being a man in other words.

Ok, so just take a normal situation, lets say your sitting inside with nothing to do, ask her to walk outside with you and sit down and watch the sky and hold hands. Be like, "hey let me get us some drinks. Are you hungry?" and fix both of you a sandwich.

Or just make dinner for her tonight and do something cool as fuck. Rent a movie shes been mentioning, if shes a party type tell her about a party youve heard about and tell her "lets go".

Does she like video games? Just randomly rent some cool 2 player game that she'll be able to pick up quickly and have fun.

Ask her if she wants you to eat her out while shes in the shower. Be seductive and teasing of course.

Spend some time cuddling on something comfortable and just having a cool conversation.

Fucking make your lives something other than boring. You can do it. Man up.

You say man up far too often. It reeks of insecurity.

You say man up far too often. It reeks of insecurity.

Insecurity! Gasp! Yeah...thats kinda true. Honestly though, I felt I should add it. It was just like "damn, more emphasis!" but then it doesnt help and sounds dickish. Especially on this matter.

OP I say "man up" because with my last g/f I didnt do all that as much and I regret it. Showing that you care and doing all the little things, they make a relationship. I blame it on all the hesitation, nervousness, and general cowardliness.If you guys are still talking to each other in the next several years those are the things you'll bring up and probably laugh or smile about while you recount the times. Or cry, depends. Just dont want you to make the same mistakes, no offense toward your manliness intended.

Just be spontaneous. I have always found it fun to have fun first and worry about everything else later. Just be like, lets go to the mall and while your there mess around. Play tag, mess with the people that work there, stuff that you would do with your normal friends while bored.

As for the guy who said send flowers randomly. One of my favorite lines to go with that is, "Just cause its Thursday" or whatever day you get them.

God says you should marry her.

It's fairly easy.

Take her out to eat.
Fuck her.
Go shoot bows.(some girls like this)
Smoke marijuana in a new place (car preferred)
Get drunk again and again(MY ALLTIME FAVORITE!!!)
It's halloween time, go to a haunted house, corn maze(your cheapest option)

Buy her a piece of jewelry. This will make up for a few nights out.

Ladies, am I wrong?

(waits to be burned)

Sounds a bit cheap and a bit boring.

Just do some crazy shit and have fun. Maybe break some a few "laws", e.g. play tag in the mall like the guy above suggested. As long as you are being creative and you two are having fun, that'll do.

Sounds a bit cheap and a bit boring.

Just do some crazy shit and have fun. Maybe break some a few "laws", e.g. play tag in the mall like the guy above suggested. As long as you are being creative and you two are having fun, that'll do.

sounds cheap?

nothin made my ex happier then a sudden picknick in the forest or just a walk in the forest in general to name something

There's millions of things you can go do with you gf that are cheap... it just depends what she's into, and if she's only into expensive stuff.....get a less high maintance gf

sounds cheap?

nothin made my ex happier then a sudden picknick in the forest or just a walk in the forest in general to name something


Fuck send your ex my way!

sounds cheap?

nothin made my ex happier then a sudden picknick in the forest or just a walk in the forest in general to name something

There's millions of things you can go do with you gf that are cheap... it just depends what she's into, and if she's only into expensive stuff.....get a less high maintance gf

Sorry, I didn't mean "cheap" literally.;KriminalMinded's advice seemed to me too much like trying to "buy" her attention, and I find that "cheap". As opposed to actually being creative and having some fun together without spending much (if any) money on the whole deal.

Dinner, movie, coffee, sex, games, eat food, cruise around, go to parties TOGETHER, talk about shit, yknow, stuff.
And chances are you can live in the middle of fucking nowhere and still be able to do every one of those things.

It's almost halloween, take her to a damn haunted house:
Look at it this way, you both can have fun and she has an excuse to be close to you. It's win win.

My girlfriend knows that she has no right to complain about having nothing to do. We live in a tiny ass hick town. She knows if I had any ideas, we'd be doing them. So basically, unless she can think of something to do, she doesn't whine about it. We go to the next town over and terrorize the movie theater, then roam around town at night every few weeks. I cook dinner whenever I'm at her place. If we are really desperate, we go rent a shit ton of movies and video games, stock up on junk food, and spend a day or two playing xbox, watching movies, and fornicating when we get bored. If she is discontent, I'll give her a massage. That girl will do ANYthing for a back rub(because apparently I am good at it).

Sure, being spontaneous is good, but a guy can only be so spontaneous. Either let her know that this is how things are, and there isn't anything either of you can do about it.

Or get a girlfriend that can accept that it isn't your sole responsibility to keep her amused and happy. You aren't a fucking jester after all.

My girlfriend likes taking me to strange forbidden places for a blowjob.

She's the one complaining, so if she can't come up with something to do, then either tell her to stfu, dump her, punch her in the face or all three.

Sounds like the perfect morning to me. :)

Maybe with more sex too.