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| Sex and Affection Anything and everything about sex and relations. Please try to keep this forum on-topic, since things tend to wander a bit. Search through old topics before posting a new one, as questions get repeated a lot here. |
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#1
 2007-09-15, 02:24
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gadzooks 
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How Long Should Sex Last? (Penetration to Ejaculation)
This question has plagued my mind for years. In nearly every sexual conversation amongst guys, you will ALWAYS hear at least one say "that's it?" to whoever said the longest time.
Someone says 20 minutes... "that's it?"
Someone says 45 minutes... "that's it!?"
Someone says 3 hours... "that's it!!??"
From initial penetration, without switching positions, I usually take an average of, probably... 15 minutes? Never more than half an hour, unless I'm absolutely wasted.
I don't understand the point of going any longer in one session...
To the females of totse, do you enjoy being ploughed away at for upwards of a half an hour?
Keep in mind: foreplay isn't included.
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#2
 2007-09-15, 02:31
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Re: How Long Should Sex Last? (Penetration to Ejaculation)
5 minutes max get yours and GTFO
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#3
 2007-09-15, 02:42
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Re: How Long Should Sex Last? (Penetration to Ejaculation)
depends... 10 minutes is usually the minimum. maybe 30-45 minutes if it's a good long fuck session. after an hour it just gets annoying.
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#4
 2007-09-15, 02:48
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Re: How Long Should Sex Last? (Penetration to Ejaculation)
ur not a real man unless u can last 3 years in the sack
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#5
 2007-09-15, 02:58
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Re: How Long Should Sex Last? (Penetration to Ejaculation)
I've basically been inside a woman for the entire time I've posted on totse. It's made it really hard to get a job.
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#6
 2007-09-15, 03:09
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angri 
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Re: How Long Should Sex Last? (Penetration to Ejaculation)
min:10 max:40
Depends of you both feel
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#7
 2007-09-15, 03:15
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Re: How Long Should Sex Last? (Penetration to Ejaculation)
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Originally Posted by angri
min:10 max:40
Depends of you both feel
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this!
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#8
 2007-09-15, 05:51
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Re: How Long Should Sex Last? (Penetration to Ejaculation)
It really doesn't matter as long as the sex is passionate, varied, interesting and pleasurable.
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#9
 2007-09-15, 06:29
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Re: How Long Should Sex Last? (Penetration to Ejaculation)
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Originally Posted by CatharticWeek
It really doesn't matter as long as the sex is passionate, varied, interesting and pleasurable.
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This.
Usually 10-30 min 1st time.
40-hour something 2nd.
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#10
 2007-09-15, 06:32
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LavaRed 
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Re: How Long Should Sex Last? (Penetration to Ejaculation)
This.
Usually 10-30 min 1st time.
40-hour something 2nd.
40 hours!!!  . OMG, I think I'd die of hunger first!
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#11
 2007-09-15, 06:48
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Lotek 
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Re: How Long Should Sex Last? (Penetration to Ejaculation)
40min to an hour fuckstick.
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#12
 2007-09-15, 06:55
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Re: How Long Should Sex Last? (Penetration to Ejaculation)
In my experience, it's variable. I've been with a chick who faked it after a half hour (she'd never cum from being fucked); I've been with a chick who could be fucked for an hour and a half and keep cumming; I've been with a chick who'd cum so hard in half an hour that she couldn't feel shit under her waist. It depdnds on the girl, man.
If she's horny enough, even six minutes can make her cum twice.
Edit: I've been fucking a girl sober and she's asked me if "i was anywhere close to cumming." Seriously, some girls like it hard and fast, some girls want it to last.
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#13
 2007-09-15, 07:32
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Re: How Long Should Sex Last? (Penetration to Ejaculation)
Penetration: Half time.
Ejaculation: Start of the second half.
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#14
 2007-09-15, 13:27
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Re: How Long Should Sex Last? (Penetration to Ejaculation)
Pfff, I'd fuck for more than 15 mins if my dick could stay up for any longer than that, so I'm just gonna say any longer is boring and overrated and that sex should be short, sweet and explosive.
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#15
 2007-09-15, 14:49
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Khepri 
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Re: How Long Should Sex Last? (Penetration to Ejaculation)
I'd rather have shorter sessions many times a day. Anywhere from 10 - 30 minutes, but at least 3 times a day.
The whole 2 hour thing sounds like bullshit to me, why would you even want to fuck that long?
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#16
 2007-09-15, 15:10
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Re: How Long Should Sex Last? (Penetration to Ejaculation)
Somewhere between 28 minutes and 14 seconds and 28 minutes and 22 seconds. Anything outside this is unacceptable.
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#17
 2007-09-15, 15:45
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Re: How Long Should Sex Last? (Penetration to Ejaculation)
Anything over an hour to me sounds like total bullshit. Even after 45 minutes it would just get tiring, and the bitch has gotta get pretty sore at some point. Mine does.
I'd say 30 at the most and 10 minimum.
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#18
 2007-09-15, 17:03
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Re: How Long Should Sex Last? (Penetration to Ejaculation)
I'd say try to get in and out in 60 seconds.
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#19
 2007-09-15, 19:20
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Nathaniel 
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Re: How Long Should Sex Last? (Penetration to Ejaculation)
Personally I think all these guys claiming to go for half an hour and more are full of shit.
I normally last a few minutes and always do my best to make her cum in that time. The key is the foreplay beforehand. If she's hot enough then you can make her cum in minutes with your cock.
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#20
 2007-09-15, 19:26
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Re: How Long Should Sex Last? (Penetration to Ejaculation)
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Originally Posted by Nathaniel
Personally I think all these guys claiming to go for half an hour and more are full of shit.
I normally last a few minutes and always do my best to make her cum in that time. The key is the foreplay beforehand. If she's hot enough then you can make her cum in minutes with your cock.
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i feel bad for your girlfriend.
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#21
 2007-09-15, 19:26
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Re: How Long Should Sex Last? (Penetration to Ejaculation)
I normally last a few minutes and always do my best to make her cum in that time. The key is the foreplay beforehand. If she's hot enough then you can make her cum in minutes with your cock.
I bet you're a wild animal in the sack! :p
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#22
 2007-09-15, 19:47
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Re: How Long Should Sex Last? (Penetration to Ejaculation)
I honestly never understood how guys say they last half an hour or whatever. That goes against all that makes us human. You don't see other species going at it for half an hour. Intercourse is what feels best, it's what your cock is for, it's what you're for, yet you can have sex .. and not orgasm? Do you go into a totally different zone, thinking about some other shit, so you don't think about having sex at all? It just seems .... dysfunctional to go at it for half an hour and not orgasm. It's only societies current viewpoint that men should last for a while, physically, all that's required is that you get in and get out.
So explain to me how when you're having sex, which is what you were made to do, which is the sole purpose of your cock, which the only outcome is for you to orgasm, it's biologically programmed into you to do so and ......... you don't. For half an hour. Share the secret I don't seem to know, I don't last too long at all.
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#23
 2007-09-15, 20:25
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missing_cipher 
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Re: How Long Should Sex Last? (Penetration to Ejaculation)
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Originally Posted by TheGrim
I honestly never understood how guys say they last half an hour or whatever. That goes against all that makes us human. You don't see other species going at it for half an hour. Intercourse is what feels best, it's what your cock is for, it's what you're for, yet you can have sex .. and not orgasm? Do you go into a totally different zone, thinking about some other shit, so you don't think about having sex at all? It just seems .... dysfunctional to go at it for half an hour and not orgasm. It's only societies current viewpoint that men should last for a while, physically, all that's required is that you get in and get out.
So explain to me how when you're having sex, which is what you were made to do, which is the sole purpose of your cock, which the only outcome is for you to orgasm, it's biologically programmed into you to do so and ......... you don't. For half an hour. Share the secret I don't seem to know, I don't last too long at all.
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Learn to control yourself?
And you last longer the second round because your cock is already pretty desentisized...
PS. Your cocks 'sole purpose' isn't just for sex....
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#24
 2007-09-15, 20:31
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Re: How Long Should Sex Last? (Penetration to Ejaculation)
PS. Your cocks 'sole purpose' isn't just for sex....
You can make pee pee with it too.
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#25
 2007-09-15, 22:22
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Re: How Long Should Sex Last? (Penetration to Ejaculation)
Depends, if its the middle of the day or I have to be up early the next day, about 30min. If we can be up till 4am doing it, then about 1-2hours
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#26
 2007-09-15, 22:44
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Re: How Long Should Sex Last? (Penetration to Ejaculation)
hum, 10-30, without moving, but probbaly do that twice or maybe three times, depends on the before?
gosh i don't know for sure, i don't watch the clock then
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#27
 2007-09-15, 22:53
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Re: How Long Should Sex Last? (Penetration to Ejaculation)
You don't see other species going at it for half an hour.
You also don't see other species that surgically remove their foreskins at birth. Or even have brains that work like ours.
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#28
 2007-09-15, 23:11
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Re: How Long Should Sex Last? (Penetration to Ejaculation)
I honestly went for one and a half hour once. Never want to do it that long ever again. I was tired, sore, covered in sweat, my bed was drenched in sweat, girlfriend was sore/tired/sweaty too, and I when I finally did cum, it wasn't anything spectacular. It was better than usual, but that was probably because I was glad to get to stop having sex.
And pretty much the whole time my mind was wandering because if I focused on the moment I was going to cum in like a second.
By the way this all spawned from pretty much an unofficial fucking contest. My girlfriend and I could hear my brother fucking his gf in the other room, and it was keeping us from sleeping. So when he finished we decided to see if we could keep him awake for as long as possible.
Ended up going through half a box of condoms too.
I average around 15 minutes in a normal session.
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#29
 2007-09-16, 04:23
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Re: How Long Should Sex Last? (Penetration to Ejaculation)
10 hours with 15 minute breaks every half hour
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#30
 2007-09-16, 04:32
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Re: How Long Should Sex Last? (Penetration to Ejaculation)
Learn to control yourself?
And you last longer the second round because your cock is already pretty desentisized...
PS. Your cocks 'sole purpose' isn't just for sex....
It's for peeing too =D!!!
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#31
 2007-09-16, 05:09
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gadzooks 
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Re: How Long Should Sex Last? (Penetration to Ejaculation)
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Originally Posted by TheGrim
I honestly never understood how guys say they last half an hour or whatever. That goes against all that makes us human. You don't see other species going at it for half an hour. Intercourse is what feels best, it's what your cock is for, it's what you're for, yet you can have sex .. and not orgasm? Do you go into a totally different zone, thinking about some other shit, so you don't think about having sex at all? It just seems .... dysfunctional to go at it for half an hour and not orgasm. It's only societies current viewpoint that men should last for a while, physically, all that's required is that you get in and get out.
So explain to me how when you're having sex, which is what you were made to do, which is the sole purpose of your cock, which the only outcome is for you to orgasm, it's biologically programmed into you to do so and ......... you don't. For half an hour. Share the secret I don't seem to know, I don't last too long at all.
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Actually, that is a very interesting point.
Evolutionarily speaking, coming to orgasm as quickly as possible would be the most beneficial in terms of furthering the human race.
Next time I have a case of premature ejaculation, I'm springing that one on her.
(Actually, come to think of it, premature ejaculation doesn't even make sense. The quicker the better. Unless of course it happens before penetration... :p )
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#32
 2007-09-16, 05:11
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Re: How Long Should Sex Last? (Penetration to Ejaculation)
Actually, that is a very interesting point.
Evolutionarily speaking, coming to orgasm as quickly as possible would be the most beneficial in terms of furthering the human race.
Next time I have a case of premature ejaculation, I'm springing that one on her.
(Actually, come to think of it, premature ejaculation doesn't even make sense. The quicker the better. Unless of course it happens before penetration... :p )
You miss out the fact that we don't have sex JUST to reproduce. You know, being one of the only species that does it recreationaly....
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#33
 2007-09-16, 05:18
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Re: How Long Should Sex Last? (Penetration to Ejaculation)
You miss out the fact that we don't have sex JUST to reproduce. You know, being one of the few species that does it recreationaly....
Fixed, can't forget Bonobos and Dolphins!
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#34
 2007-09-16, 05:21
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Re: How Long Should Sex Last? (Penetration to Ejaculation)
You miss out the fact that we don't have sex JUST to reproduce. You know, being one of the only species that does it recreationaly....
I know, I was semi-joking.
However... There is nothing inherently wrong with ejaculating quickly. It is nothing to be ashamed of if it happens. It's not like you have a problem, or that there is something wrong with you as a human being. In fact it's the opposite. You're an effective human being, just not necessarily the best love-maker.
It's actually kind of ironic that we are supposed to defy our very biological nature in order to make more pleasurable an activity that is meant to help us further our species.
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#35
 2007-09-16, 05:25
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missing_cipher 
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Re: How Long Should Sex Last? (Penetration to Ejaculation)
I know, I was semi-joking.
However... There is nothing inherently wrong with ejaculating quickly. It is nothing to be ashamed of if it happens from time to time.
It's actually kind of ironic that we are supposed to defy our very biological nature in order to make more pleasurable an activity that is meant to help us further our species.
That's because we aren't very biological. We're more of a sum of cultures. You know, clothes instead of fur... etc...
But yeah, I guess if you're trying to have a kid ejaculating quickly wouldn't necesarily be a BAD thing, but It'd be better to have more fun in the process.
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#36
 2007-09-16, 05:58
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Re: How Long Should Sex Last? (Penetration to Ejaculation)
if it lasts you longer than 30 minutes, your probly doing something wrong.
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#37
 2007-09-16, 10:55
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Re: How Long Should Sex Last? (Penetration to Ejaculation)
i feel bad for your girlfriend.
I feel bad for your mum.
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#38
 2007-09-16, 14:53
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Re: How Long Should Sex Last? (Penetration to Ejaculation)
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Originally Posted by psycho_8b
Penetration: Half time.
Ejaculation: Start of the second half.
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I love this idea!
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#39
 2007-09-16, 17:05
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D!cks are for my friends
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Re: How Long Should Sex Last? (Penetration to Ejaculation)
Most people time the sex from when they start the kissing and shit. They will look at the clock "oh its 3:35". Start kissing and feeling, then they do this, then that, then this again, then penetrate, then done, then get dressed, then get drink, then look at clock. "OH!! Its 4:45!!! Im fuckin cool! Im a MAN!!!"
Dont believe shit you read on the INTERNET, especially totse. It doesnt fuckin matter if its 2 minutes or 20 minutes, as long as both partners are satisfied, its all peachy.
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#40
 2007-09-16, 23:14
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DONT WORRY ABOUT IT.
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Re: How Long Should Sex Last? (Penetration to Ejaculation)
^^^ fucking agreed.
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#41
 2007-09-16, 23:49
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Re: How Long Should Sex Last? (Penetration to Ejaculation)
ive had anywhere from a few thrusts (really horny) to just gettin bored and callin it quits...yea it has been HOURS theres no secret to it just wear a condom
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#42
 2007-09-17, 00:36
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Re: How Long Should Sex Last? (Penetration to Ejaculation)
It all really depends. I mean if its the first sexual encounter of the day it can range from 1-10miniutes. If ive gotten off already that day and masterbated that week almost every day it can be from 10-30miniutes. Recently I fucked this bitch for 35minutes. She wasn't the best looking gal so my mind kept wandering during the sex and I kept checking the clock. I wasn't even horny really only reason I came over and fucked her and got my dick sucked was because I been upset with offically getting my ex out of my life so I needed an ego boost. Well the ego boost lasted a good 30miniutes and wasn't even close to coming it took her another 10miniutes sucking my dick, and there was a good 5 miniute BJ before the sex. But I also jerked off twice that morning to.
The very longest ive gone in one fuck session was 45 minutes, the whole thing took about an hour and 15 because we fucked first got off in about 10-15 minutes switched condoms immediatly started fucking right again came in another 10-15minutes and then fucked again for another 45 till we both came. That was a very awesome fuck session both of us were sore and sweaty as hell but it was some damn good hot fast rough sex. But I tend to like sex to last only 10-15 minutes.
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