I've been in a relationship for about 7 months as of the 14th. My partner and I are both virgins, and we both love each other dearly.

sex is a open topic and as time passes, we both get closer and closer. I really want this relationship to last..

so my question is:

Does sex ruin a relationship? why or why not

haha i understand exactly what you're feeling. sex wont ruin it really as long as you keep loving him/her and neither of you change dramatically.

what you're probably worried about most is if the relationship becomes just sex for the other person but you still love them romantically.

If you focus the whole relationship around sex and end up doing it everytime you meet then i would say yes it does ruin it. You start to appriciate the sex more than the woman herself.

Not if you do it right

Always remember why you're with her and that sex, whilst being a pretty important part of any relationship, is not the most important part.

Normal answer:
The only way to see is it to try it and find out.

Before you do, there's no way to gauge how she'll feel afterwards, or how you will.

Totse answer:
Post pics then I'll tell you.

Be sure to apply the 'anti blur' patch first!

Be sure to apply the 'anti blur' patch first!

Not again! Ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh

It could, I doubt it though.

The whole point of being with a chick is to fuck her stupid. If you just want a friend, go get one that will play video games and such. The only way sex will fuck shit up, is if you suck, and you most likely will on your first time, lol. This is why teen romances are fucking ridiculous and and leave you emotionally scarred and bitter later. I say, just nail her, and if sex ruins your relationship, it was just shitty puppy love and meant nothing.

Bad sex, yes can ruin a relationship if both of you aren't virgins and dont do it often. Good sex can make things better. What really ruins a relationship is compatibility. If you guys cant see yourself happy in 10 years from now think about 20.

if sex ruins your relationship, it was just shitty puppy love and meant nothing.

Not if you do it right

Hahaha that was lulworthy. +1

if sex ruins your relationship, it was just shitty puppy love and meant nothing.

what exactly is puppy love?

what exactly is puppy love?

Google mother fucker. Do you use it?

After seven months, I can't see how losing your virginity to your partner is going to ruin your relationship... unless you suck at it, of course!!

If both are virgins your both not going to last (guy) and your definitally going to suck (girl lawlz)