ok so i have back acne, its not terrible, but its there and it bugs me a lot. like i rarely take my shirt off cuz of it. it is one of the few things that i am embarrassed about.

and in about a week im going to this girls house for a party because her mom is going out of town and im sleeping over there with another girl who likes me and keeps asking if ill do stuff with her.

so im thinking that it would be sweet if we could shower together in the morning, but idk cuz of this acne. idk it really ticks me off.

should i even try or would it be too big of a turn off? and how would i like say it? tell her before i even take my shirt off or let her find out on her own when she sees it?

Just do it, shes gonna see it eventually man. Personally, I like a chick to know how shitty I am before I get to comfortable. If she deals with the shit, shes a total keeper. I dont know if this makes sense. Blame the drugs.

hey man. unless your bacne is fucking gnarly, you dont have a problem. as long as shes not an incredibly prissy bitch and/or she has a little thing for you and/or she thinks you're cute you're in the clear.

and i suggest you take off your shirt more often and get out in the sun (sun causes body to create vitamin d, kills acne). more oxygen as well. just go around every nekkid, its healthier.

Don't worry about it. It's normal. You should be worrying about her laughing at your small dick instead.

I had a pilonidal cyst for as long as I can remember. (Thats a cyst(wart) right on the very top of your ass crack) and I dated this girl for over a year. We had sex regularly, slept naked together, showered together, etc...She never saw it. I always kept my back away from her. I wouldn't recommend it though.

I just had surgery to have it removed, and now i've got a gaping hole there until it heals, but i'm dating a nurse and i told her straight up. I still try to keep it out of view, but she's cool with it and if she sees it, it's no big deal. At the beggining, she used to beg me to let her change my dressing and inspect it for infection. I wasn't quite that comfortable, but still. It's much easier not having to hide it.

If she gets pissy about that, then she's not worth being with anyway.

As long as you guys do "stuff" a couple times the night before, I'd say fuck it...Let her see and run away screaming at the oozing crap coming out your back...You got laid right?

All good.

Honestly, if you're both fucked up enough, she won't care while you're fucking her. For showering, fuck that. If I'm hungover, I'm not gonna wanna shower with anyone else. Fuck people.

Sleep on your side, use salyic acid on your back, but everyone else is right, she shouldn't care. Even if she does mention something, I'd give her some shit about even bringing it up.

Why would your back be to her in the shower?

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dude just go for it. Even if she does see it and its not that bad everyone has acne once in there life even if its just like 1 little zit. If its not as bad as u say it is just do it. Your gettin laid dont let some pimples stop you. try and post a picture of your back or something that would help more.

No i dont have a pimple fetish.

I promise that penises are just as odd looking as zits. If you have sex with her, and she's alright with you enough to shower with you, then unless you look like you have some sort of full body rash, it's no problem.

Just try not to think about it, it's nothing, she'll probably not even notice.

I promise that penises are just as odd looking as zits.

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Just try not to think about it, it's nothing, she'll probably not even notice.

What, his penis?

Dammit, try to be supportive people. We're trying to cure him of his insecurity, not make him insecure about his penis.

Don't worry friend, the back acne question pops up alot.
think of it this way....
Back acne is fairly normal, and acne in general. It's not unusual or even unexpected.
To lay it out on the table,
If she is 'doing stuff' with you, and is secure enough with you to shower with you in the morning... seriously, back acne is about the last thing you have to worry about.
If the girl is into you enough to have sex with you, do whatever and shower with you in the morning. Then she won't care in the slightest. Back acne is not an important thing.
To sum it up, if she's attracted to you enough to get in the shower with you, she will certainly not give a damn.