Shes horny as fuck, a slut for me and me only. head over heels in love, theres no way she would ever cheat (just trust me) has a great body and is hot to top it off. We have been going out for 8 months but im still not in love. The only reason I get sex multiple times whenever and however I want is because I lie to her and tell her I love her (which I am starting to feel bad about). Oh and shes also a pretty big airhead, which means I can get away with alot more. But at the same time one of the sweetest girls ive ever met.

My friends keep telling me to "milk it" but im seriously starting to feel bad because I have been lying to her for a long time. I think if were still dating in a year or two and im still not feeling the love well break it.

so should I keep milking the cow?

Damn right you should feel bad.

Wouldnt you rather be with someone who you genuinely love?
You'll find that getting regular sex from someone you really love will feel sweeter than getting it from someone you're duping.


Do you think you're going to dump her?

I think my advice on this would differ depending on what age you are. If you're under 20 then fuckin' milk it. Enjoy it. Don't make life plans, though...

Hit that shit man. I was in almost the same position until I actually did fall in love with the girl. Long fuckin story but it was worth it. Give it time and fuck her until A. you find someone better, B. you get bored, C. you love her. :)

Yea I really would like to be with someone I love, but she is seriously a good catch, were both going on 19 and lost our virginity to each other. I keep thinking that ill start to fall in love with her.. Anyway no im not thinking about dumping her as of now, but in the future and im still not feeling the love then i guess it must be done.

dude.......milk that shit

Sex can be gotten very easily if you're nice or attractive. You shouldnt have to lie to get it.


But whatever, if you're happy there's not much totse can advise you to do.
However, if you do break up with her eventually because you dont love her, please please please dont tell her the real reason. It will really hurt her if she finds you've never loved her.


And I hope she doesent post on Totse.

Sex can be gotten very easily if you're nice or attractive.

I don't know about this one. There are lots of people that are very nice and attractive, but don't come by sex that easily. Take me, I'm pretty attractive, smart, and fairly nice, but there will be times I hit dry spells for months. But, then again, my standards are fairly high, and I don't go for one night deals very often. Quality sex is rare.

I don't know about this one. There are lots of people that are very nice and attractive, but don't come by sex that easily. Take me, I'm pretty attractive, smart, and fairly nice, but there will be times I hit dry spells for months. But, then again, my standards are fairly high, and I don't go for one night deals very often. Quality sex is rare.

QFT, even if you are all those things it's still pretty hard if you're not a desperate bastard lookin for the nearest cum dumpster

That's really dishonest dude. And kinda cruel.

I could never do that. Although, in your place, I would have convinced myself that I loved her, regardless of whether I did or not.

Dude, you really shouldn't keep doing this to her. The damage is done, though, you're just committing yourself to a lie you've already made. If she never finds out, I don't see how it could hurt her... but even stupid people won't be fooled forever.

Your a jackass.

I agree with yoyo, you don't need to lie to have sex. Nor do all girls need you to be in love with them to have sex. I think you should break it off and find a sex buddy who doesn't need love to fuck.

I was in the same position for a while. Then I finally decided, fuck it...and straight up told her I didnt love her or want to be in a relationship. Strangely enough, I still got sex regularly.

Milk it until you find a girl you like more.

post pics

Edit: didn't read title or post before. I've done similar things before. Depending on how many relationships shes had she might catch on. If not keep milking til you get bored posting naked pics of her on here periodically...

:p

Same here. I was 21, she was 19, we were in the same college. She was totally hot and totally in love. After I told her, she asked if I still wanted to fuck her! The sex got even better; no-limits throat fucking rules!

Has it got anything to do with the fact you lost your virginity to eachother? I remember the girl I lost my virginity too, I hated her and wanted to end it almost immediately just because I hated the idea that if I gave it a go, I could go through my life only ever having one woman.

I would regret feeling like that now if I believed in regret.

Dude, first, you shouldn't have lied to begin with. It's up to you what to do, I won't make any suggestion but I hope you feel like shit for what you've done.

In other news.
When I told my ex I didn't love her anymore and that I was breaking up with her she asked if we could still be fuck buddies. I would have said yes, but she was way to in love with me and attached and I knew it would have only been torture to her.

The fuck buddy situation can often be a dangerous thing.
What is casual sex to one person, may be the last desperate attempt to win that person back by the other.
If a girl really loves you, she'll do whatever she has to to have you in any way she can. Even if that means stooping to become a 'fuck buddy'.
It's not allways healthy and someone allways ends up getting hurt, and cant grasp the fact that a casual sex relationship is just that.

Your a jackass.

*cough*

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Damn right you should feel bad.

However, if you do break up with her eventually because you dont love her, please please please dont tell her the real reason. It will really hurt her if she finds you've never loved her.

That's really dishonest dude. And kinda cruel.

Your a jackass.

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quit while your ahead