You guys I'm fat, with acne.

I happen to be good with girls though, which is strange. Maybe I have a likeable personality. I have a lot of friends.

But I have no motivation to do anything :(. I spent four weeks learning french in France, which my parents paid for, but I didnt really attend classes because I felt too depressed to do shit. The class was too advanced for me, and I couldnt concentrate.

The school told my parents, who started calling me a selfish disappointment, as if I didn't feel guilty enough already.

I feel like whenever someone makes an effort to help me, I screw it up.

Sorry you guys, I need to tell someone.

Way to go your parents, not fucking you up psychologically at all



But, they're only annoyed (and quite rightly) because they paid good money for you on something you didnt really even bother with.
They'll get over it.
And really, it may feel bad now, but they're not really dissapointed in you. If they thought you were a fuck up they wouldnt have paid for you to go to a horrendously difficult class in the first place.


If you're good with girls, then yay. Having a likeable personaility may not get you a swarm of hot vapid pussy but it will get you a hell of alot of friends.

I think you need to work on your self esteem, if you can.

You dont sound like a fuck up, I very much doubt you are.

If you got a good personality, you're pretty much there dude. I've seen girls with fat ugly guys plenty of times and think to myself "Either he's got a good personality or a wang like this!" *holds hands about a foot apart*!

Concerning your motivational issues...Well...Not much I can say there. You have to want to do things or you'll never get up.
If you feel like a disappointment go do something that makes you feel like you've achieved something. If your weight and/or skin bothers you that much, go do something about it.

As my old grandad used to say "If you want something bad enough you'll get it" which is just another way I was indoctrinated into the belief that one must work hard and always try their best.

Hope that gives you something to think about mate.

Murder/Suicide

Its alrite chief, we all have these moments in our life...How old are you by the way?

I'm fat, and I don't got no godsdamned girlfriend. Or any other friends for that matter.





Minions Attack!

Man, I'm skinny with acne, but it don't matter no way no how. My baby loves me just th'same. :) As for French... not your fault, it's too advanced, it's just one little course anyway. Don't let it bother you.

The school told my parents, who started calling me a selfish disappointment, as if I didn't feel guilty enough already.

Don't worry about them dude...The French hate everybody. And everybody hates them...So it's kinda balanced I guess.

They especially hate those who don't become fluent in French in one day!

Fuck 'em!

hey since the origional poster complained, i want to too.

Way to go your parents, not fucking you up psychologically at all




my parents think that they help me when they constantly criticize me and tell me that i'm a fuck up and a failure. i accidently left a lamp on that set my house on fire.. and now if i do something wrong like forget to shut the door on my way in the house, they'll yell "YOU BURNT OUR HOUSE DOWN AND NOW WERE IN SO MUCH DEBT THAT WE'LL HAVE TO TAKE A THIRD MORTGAGE ON THE HOUSE!!!

I don't even have minions :(

Zaknafein.

You guys I'm fat, with acne.


I didn't read past that. I have NO sympathy whatsoever towards fat people with acne, I used to be one of them. Both of those things are changable, and if you feel that they are bringing you down, change them.

I didn't read past that. I have NO sympathy whatsoever towards fat people with acne, I used to be one of them. Both of those things are changable, and if you feel that they are bringing you down, change them.

^^ Pics or it didn't happen.


OP, you just need to get off your butt and do things that make you happy. Trust me, I was the same way for the past two years.

Maybe you should ask yourself why you feel that way, then go and do something about it. Its not the end of the world, you just need to figure yourself out.

I didn't read past that. I have NO sympathy whatsoever towards fat people with acne, I used to be one of them. Both of those things are changable, and if you feel that they are bringing you down, change them.

If you dont have any sympathy for other people, why should they have any for you and your current problem? that's not very nice, really.

Fat is..yeah, easy enough to deal with. But the insecurities and uncomfortableness live on. I used to be fat and lost weight, but I still dress like a fat girl and tend to fall over alot because I got used to having to use more energy to move.

^^ Pics or it didn't happen.


October 20, 2006
http://i13.tinypic.com/67fpcoo.jpg

August 20, 2007
http://a740.ac-images.myspacecdn.com/images01/90/m_1fe5bb66c6f7076914261d5c58bf874b.jpg

http://a616.ac-images.myspacecdn.com/images01/107/m_02cd1e28962f1a0a8bf6db45c8898a7f.jpg

And I didn't mean for my previous post to sound as harsh as it did. I was trying to say that if you are indeed, fat, to the point where it's causing problems (as the OP stated) then it's probably worth getting up and doing something about it.

October 20, 2006
http://i13.tinypic.com/67fpcoo.jpg

August 20, 2007
http://a740.ac-images.myspacecdn.com/images01/90/m_1fe5bb66c6f7076914261d5c58bf874b.jpg

http://a616.ac-images.myspacecdn.com/images01/107/m_02cd1e28962f1a0a8bf6db45c8898a7f.jpg

And I didn't mean for my previous post to sound as harsh as it did. I was trying to say that if you are indeed, fat, to the point where it's causing problems (as the OP stated) then it's probably worth getting up and doing something about it.

I can't honestly tell the difference between 06 and 07.

I don't even have minions :(

Zaknafein.

Well technically they are catbert's minions. I am just "borrowing" them [or in other words pretend to be him].






Minions Attack!

I can't honestly tell the difference between 06 and 07.

whether you can see it in the pictures or not, there's a big difference IRL

If you're bothered by it, lose some weight, get some prescription acne cream, whatever it takes to make you feel better about your self image.

Might sound inconsiderate, but I've never had sympathy for fat people either, even though I've never been overweight. Frankly it's all mind over matter and self-control. If it was so hard to have an athletic physique then I sure as hell wouldn't be able to keep one...

Acne is another thing though, I guess it's more genetic, but I know some people that can't even get rid of it with the meds, so I won't say much there.

whether you can see it in the pictures or not, there's a big difference IRL

If you say so, I see nothing.

whether you can see it in the pictures or not, there's a big difference IRL

Big difference between 06 and 07. Don't see why nobody else can find it...

Pretty hott, btw

Big difference between 06 and 07. Don't see why nobody else can find it...

Pretty hott, btw

The only difference I see is that she matured, not to say that maturity doesn't bring along weight loss. And yes she is a very attractive young lady.

Kudos for posting those pics, most wouldn’t post pics that they find unflattering.

The only difference I see is that she matured, not to say that maturity doesn't bring along weight loss. And yes she is a very attractive young lady.

Kudos for posting those pics, most wouldn’t post pics that they find unflattering.

Meh I'm not ashamed. More proud than anything. Anywho, this thread is not about me and my improvements, rather the OP's.

I was in a simular predicament. I changed all that by focusing on personal hygene (it was never bad, but now I always make sure that I'm in tip top shape) it adds to confidence. I found a prescription that cleared up my face. Work on loosing wait. And I realized that I have a personaliy that helps attracting women. It all adds up to boost self motivation. Looks like you (the thread starter) can improve yourself the same way.

wambulance?

people hate people who self-pity
i mean yeah we all do it
but seriously
pick yourself up! *slap*
we all have problems!! sometimes yours will be more than others
or others will be more than yours
chillax, focus on things that make you feel good about yourself, try to change yourself if your unhappy

self-pity is a deadly spiral

but I know some people that can't even get rid of it with the meds, so I won't say much there.
:( ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎

Meh I'm not ashamed. More proud than anything. Anywho, this thread is not about me and my improvements, rather the OP's.

Dont listen to this asshole, theres a very noticible difference.

Dont listen to this asshole, theres a very noticible difference.

Seriously though, you look a LOT better then before, I know internet compliments don't usually mean much but I bet there are a lot more guys after you now then before.

To the OP working out and eating right will boost your self confidence ridiculously even if you haven't really noticed a difference yet.
Plus don't feel too bad about the French thing, they should get over it, I know how you felt when you were there.