Personally I would have the urge to fuck both the guy and my GF up physically as much as possible. Call me sick but if my GF was tainted by another guy I would want her dead, and him dead too. Also another question, my GF had sex with 5 other guys before me and she is 17. This makes her a major slut right? Would you stand for this? Could you ever love this without thinking about the other 5 guys who have been inside of her? I know I sound like a big dick but I just said what my primal instinct says.

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quote:Originally posted by nownl8ter:

Personally I would have the urge to fuck both the guy and my GF up physically as much as possible. Call me sick but if my GF was tainted by another guy I would want her dead, and him dead too. Also another question, my GF had sex with 5 other guys before me and she is 17. This makes her a major slut right? Would you stand for this? Could you ever love this without thinking about the other 5 guys who have been inside of her? I know I sound like a big dick but I just said what my primal instinct says.



When that shit happened to me, although she kept saying she was sorry, and that it was an accident, I dropped that bitch right then and there.

There's no fucking excuse for that shit.

if my girl cheated on me...

i wouldn't give 2 shits about it, cuz they'd be dead.

but really, its not that big of a deal, teenagers are horny, and the ones already exposed to sex tend to have a lot of it

Is this speculative, or did she cheat on you?

If it is, then she shouldn't be your girlfriend. You clearly can't handle her having been with guys before you.

all the girls I'ved been with in high school have cheated on me with my "friends" I feel like killing all of them but they always get away. well at least I know my fiance is faithful to me and the only guy she's been with is me.

I'd simply dump her, and not want to talk to her again.

Her loss.

no lol she hasnt cheated on me, she is qute faithful. But it always fucking bothers me that she has had so many other dudes fuck her. I mean it really fucking PISSES me off alot, an thats an understatement. My forehead is getting hot now that im concentrating on it. Some shitty primal instinct.

How many girls have you been with?

5 guys at 17 is a slut?

Oh boy, you have major issues to get over before you can be a normal half of a relationship.

This happened to me with my last girlfriend, we actually came through it (but the only reason I didn't dump her on the spot was because it was long distance).

#1. Get really pissed off, make her tell me every detail. Take pleasure from her discomfort, not knowing wether she's going to lose you or not.

#2. Cheat on her. I can't stand the feeling I've 'been played'. Monogamy doesn't come naturally for me and it gives me a sick feeling of being in control again.

#3. Forgive and forget. Underneath the hatred there's still love there.

quote:Originally posted by CatharticWeek:



This happened to me with my last girlfriend, we actually came through it (but the only reason I didn't dump her on the spot was because it was long distance).

#1. Get really pissed off, make her tell me every detail. Take pleasure from her discomfort, not knowing wether she's going to lose you or not.

#2. Cheat on her. I can't stand the feeling I've 'been played'. Monogamy doesn't come naturally for me and it gives me a sick feeling of being in control again.

#3. Forgive and forget. Underneath the hatred there's still love there.

Total mod material.

Dude, people have sex. Get over it. You're past the age where you can expect every girl to be a virgin. Women have sex too. Don't be an asshole about it, and don't let it get to you. It's not your body, and it's not your concern.

I always told guys I was in a relationship with how many men I had slept with before them. Then, after the split with one of the more recent boyfriends that I had, we discussed that. He said how he would rather not have known. So, I didn't do that after him.

It might be better not to tell as long as you've been checked for std's. Some people don't really want to know.



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This thread is an amazing example of teenage male INSECURITY.

It's amazing how different your frame of mind will be in a matter of a few years.

get over it, your girl is a hoe

and you will soon be one of her partners in her past (reality, dont deny it fuckface)

Cheating isn't cool. I'd probably want to hurt the guy and find out what led to the cheating taking place.

Who cares how many guys she has slept with? That's life, people have sex. Why would you want to deprive her of that part of her life?

Once upon a time I would try to talk it out and salvage the relationship. Painful experience has taught me the error my ways.

I'd say 5 girls at 17 is a bit slutty.

You know, I was like you once, but then I fell for a girl who was a slut. She told me to not even ask her about the number of guys she'd been with... But you know she'd been clean for ages and really distance herself from her old life so it didn't bother me.

Worry about how your girlfriend is now, not how she was. If she was acting slutty right before she met you, nothing much will have changed. If not, then just relax, we all make mistakes the important thing is learning from them.

If you guys are serious, I doubt the other guys have anything on you.

Yes. I'd really like to know why they think that way. Either times have really changed, or I just dated guys who liked me enough not to care one way or another.

Break up with her. And kick the guys ass.....



Good old fashion tradition. WTF is a matter with you people? Hurt the girl? Stay with her and forgive her?



I swear some people are morons

If I liked them enough I would respect their decision.

Dump the bitch and knock the guy out on his ass.

You wont have this problem if you follow the 3F rule! Find them, Fuck them and Forget them!

Repeat

if the guy didn't know she was involved i would shake his hand and say good job, if he did know i'd proceed to fuck his sister/mother and mail him a tape, and do the same thing to the girl

Dump the girl, no exceptions. I would then proceed to bust every tooth of the guy she was fucking.

quote:Originally posted by a fucking idiot:

Dump the girl, no exceptions. I would then proceed to bust every tooth of the guy she was fucking.

Why is it his fault? He might not even know she was cheating.

quote:Originally posted by Drefetr:

Why is it his fault? He might not even know she was cheating.



exactly why you go by my plan

i would be beyond fucking devastated. probably ruin both of their lives, make him sterile, etc.

Murder/suicide. Seriously.

I never get mad at the guy. The guy is just being a guy.

I think you really need to think long and hard about that one. I am convinced if it happens once, it CAN, and probably will happen again. You have to decide if you can live with this thought, because this thought WILL always remain in your head.

I am not saying punt the bitch, I'm saying, is the payoff of staying with her greater than the angst you will feel for some time. If the answer is yes, you will need to learn to deal with this mentally.

I'll tell all you guys who are trying to be gangster saying they wouldd kill him and her,(because we all know your being testosterone dickwads) what happened when my last girlfriend told me she cheated on me:

She said it, and I told her I hope your happy with him -we are done. END of CONVERSATION.

She broe up with him a few years later after cheating on him with another guy, and he tried to kill hisself in her room.

Emo-pussy.

I would hardly blame the guy unless I knew him.

Exactly, just ask yourself if you'd screw her in his situation. Unless it's your friend what oath does he have to you not to fool around with his girl. On the other hand if a guy tried to kick my ass for bein' the other guy, I would totally forgive it.

I wouldnt care how many guys she had been with in the past as long as she was then on devoted to me.

If a girl kisses[back], flirts with a guy too much, fucks, or does any sex act, I will dump her. No questions asked, no taking her back, just dump her.

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I hope that I would have enough dignity to dump the bastard.

I would be devastated and extremely saddened by it, but if that where to happen and I 1: found out or 2: she told me, it would end right then and there, no questions, nothing, the end. Yeah, it would be hard, but I don't think she'd cheat on me.. so doubt this will ever happen. But ya never know eh?

I'd arange for a three some. Plus she's bi, so it could work out great.

quote:Originally posted by Chinese Food52:

I'd simply dump her, and not want to talk to her again.

Her loss.

What else could you do?

My girlfriend... I honestly don't know. As for the guy, if he knew that she was with me I would break him. If not I couldn't justify doing him any harm... I've been in those boots before and I was almost as pissed off as the girl's boyfriend.

I'd be devastated.

I wouldnt hurt the guy who cheated on me, but I certainly wouldnt continue the relationship.



But the girl.. She'd regret her existence by the time I was done with her.

i agree with yoyo up there same deal

OP, simply... you're fucked up and living in a fake relationship/world.

"This makes her a major slut right?"

You're pretty much calling your girlfriend a slut already, that really makes me sick that people treat their partners like absolute shit. Your primal instincts is a load of shit, you're just a selfish prick, thats all I think about you.

quote:Ballin Wrote:i wouldn't give 2 shits about it, cuz they'd be dead.

Thats also pathetic.

There are so many fake relationships.

quote:Chinese Food52 said

I'd simply dump her, and not want to talk to her again.

Her loss.

You see, I couldn't do that, she's the most important person in the world to me and I couldnt' lose her again, I know she wouldn't cheat on me... but this is something that I would want to work through, its not working "dumping" her and never talking to her again.

Depends how close we were..

If they were doing it in my house (or me and the gf lived together) I'd tell them to get the fuck out of there, my house now.

Probably try and sleep/cry myself to sleep.

Next day I'm using the house to non-stop house party for about a week.

NOBODY CHEATS ON FORGOTTEN!!...

Nobody...

Threesome.

http://tinyurl.com/38nu8g

It has happened to me and I got a little violent...I don't think I acted out of the ordinary. Fuck her.

quote:Originally posted by Chinese Food52:

I'd simply dump her, and not want to talk to her again.

Her loss.



quote:Originally posted by MrMojoRisin:

5 guys at 17 is a slut?

Oh boy, you have major issues to get over before you can be a normal half of a relationship.



quote:Originally posted by ethical_digger:

I wouldnt care how many guys she had been with in the past as long as she was then on devoted to me.



I agree with all of the above.

This happened to me once and I took her back because I'm a complete tool. It was just a kiss and the guy kissed her but she shouldn't have been in the situation in the first place. That and I appreciated that she told me and I forgave her. It was a huge mistake though. I will never talk to a girl after that happens again.

Now what I don't understand why people get so mad at the guy that the girl did this with. That didn't enter my mind at all when it happened to me. If anything that guy is showing you how much of a stupid slut she really is. Or how much of a stupid douche bag your boyfriend really is.

I'd dump the slut and bash the guy. But if he didn't know she was in a relationship, he would just get off with a fairly monor beating.

And no she's not a major slut for having rooted 5 guys by the time shes 17.

Why the fuck would you do anything to the guy, it's not his fault she cheated.

Personally, I'd dump her ass like a ton of rocks, no exception, explaination, or question. Then I'd shake the guy's hand, and thank him for showing me that skank's true nature. There's no accidents with cheating, it doesn't just happen, and it can't be excused in my book, end of story. Whether I love the person or not, I can't continue a relationship if I've been cheated on.

Humans aren't instinctually monogamistic (sp?). Sure i would be hurt, but i would just wish her a happy life and move on.

People get very worked up over these things.

Um my ex gfs number was pretty fucking high like in the 60's high this is one reason shes an ex now. My current gf of the same age has been with 2. But if she cheated on me I'd more then likely say she was dead to me and then my friends would want to fuck her up and the guy. My best friend who is a girl would probably hospitalize her(she did this to the girl who did cheat on me). So yes plus I wouldn't care and just go back to using women for sex

quote:Originally posted by MrMojoRisin:

5 guys at 17 is a slut?

Oh boy, you have major issues to get over before you can be a normal half of a relationship.

WTF? Have a whole lot of 17 year old chicks fucked 5+ guys already?

in my relationship, neither of us can cheat, because both of us are cool with the other one doing whatever they want as long as they use a condom [it opens they door to threesomes]

I'd kick him in the balls until he was on the floor coughing up blood.

quote:Originally posted by Orange_Crusader:

Why the fuck would you do anything to the guy, it's not his fault she cheated.

Personally, I'd dump her ass like a ton of rocks, no exception, explaination, or question. Then I'd shake the guy's hand, and thank him for showing me that skank's true nature. There's no accidents with cheating, it doesn't just happen, and it can't be excused in my book, end of story. Whether I love the person or not, I can't continue a relationship if I've been cheated on.

Hell yeah, man. That's exactly what I'll do if, science forbid, that happens to me again. Last time I didn't because I loved her so much and I guess I'm just that much of a pussy.

quote:Originally posted by Fascismo:

WTF? Have a whole lot of 17 year old chicks fucked 5+ guys already?

Maybe not in Butt-Fuck, Idaho just because those towns are so small and so Christian those kids are totally fucked.

But I live in South Florida, I had been with 2 people at 16 and 4 at 17. And that was pretty conservative compared to the other girls around me. I was in a 2 year relationship in high school

If it bothers you THAT much, go kick his ass and tell her you never want to see her again.

She did last night... we kind of talked about having an open relationship but

I don't know I tried fucking her but then spazzed out. And then she masturbated and then I called her a slut kind of.

Hmm yea... i'm going to fuck some guy in revenge. But my best prospect is too needy so i don't want to complicate my life with him.

So.... yea... I'm calm now but I'll explode later

Say mean things, maybe start a fight. It's alright though just a normal day in the life of me

I would definatly kill her, or do something so she could never cheat on a guy ever again.

If he didn't know she had a boyfriend (the cheater) then i would let him off, it's not his fault is it. If he did know, but didn't know me, then i'd cut off his winky, if he did know me, i'd kill him.

quote:Originally posted by MrMojoRisin:

Maybe not in Butt-Fuck, Idaho just because those towns are so small and so Christian those kids are totally fucked.

But I live in South Florida, I had been with 2 people at 16 and 4 at 17. And that was pretty conservative compared to the other girls around me. I was in a 2 year relationship in high school

South Florida eh? Same here.

Frankly, and this is irrelevant to the thread, I dont find how many people a persons slept with or the power of their sex drive to be a direct indicator of their sluttiness.

What would I do if my girlfriend cheated on me? I would find out who the guy was and if he knew that my gf was in a relationship. If so I would confront him and beat the daylights out of his stupid ass simply to the point of regret. I wouldnt want to hospitalize or kill him. If he had no idea I would tell him she was obliged to someone and simply let him be.

Then I would talk to my gf and have her explain. If Im not 100 percent satisfied with her explanation then she is no longermy girlfriend.

Yeah some people take this too far. Killing people? Geez.

She did

If they cheated on me. Well depends in cheated how.

In most cases i would talk...in my experience cheatin has a reason. People don't just cheat for the sex most of the time. And even if so.. you might be lackin there in that case.

Course nowadays i'm a reasonable person. Last time a girl cheated on me i had sex with her best friend... and someone pretty high on the friends ladder too....but that was then. Ohw and the guy.. well... did nothin directly.. but he still walks around me if he sees me in a at least 10 m circle.. so..

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t-1000

If my boyfriend cheated on me I'd probably just leave him and not ever talk to him again. His loss. I wouldn't be THAT angry, just hurt mostly. We haven't been dating long at all (2 months) so it wouldn't be a huge emotional blow... it would just suck.

Tell them I know after a good fuck.

1.grab yourself some poptarts and a drink.

2. catch them in the act

3. When they see you walk in the room act like its nothing. Say something like:"Oh please don't mind me, go ahead and continue, please".

4. After saying this, stare at them coolly and intently while slowly bringing the raw pop tart to your mouth, taking slow and sensual bites of the delicious pastry. Take a sip of drink afterward munching on this delicious snack.

5. They should be thoroughly uncomfortable, but if they continue, start moving closer and closer to them, when inquired say "I just needed a better view".

6. When they are finished, congratulate the man on fucking the town slut, aka your whore girlfriend and wish him on his way.

7. Politely inform your whore of a girlfriend that this doesn't vex you, due to the fact that you have in fact already been doing several other women behind her back due to her lack of sexual skill. Calmly and politely dismiss her from the premise all the while with a slight smile on your face.

cut my hand off. filthy whore. touching someone else without me knowing...

now, if i did have a g/f, i would probably end things.

One word: BEATING.

Both of them, not mortally though (I pretty know where it goes). I, in the past, would still reconsider about if the guy had know about the relationship or I wouldn't touch her, etc...

But as I grow tired, irascible and in dire need of psychological help, I'd break with her, and after a time passes up...

To the guy: Stab the asscheeks. Additional curbstomp might ensue, but I'd discard it. Don't want to kill the fucker.

To the ex: I'd BRITNEY hear. Yep, that's right. I'd shave her bald and carve a 666 on her forehead.

quote:Originally posted by dark-easterbunny:

If they cheated on me. Well depends in cheated how.

In most cases i would talk...in my experience cheatin has a reason. People don't just cheat for the sex most of the time. And even if so.. you might be lackin there in that case.



This man speaks the truth. If everything was 100% peachy, neither partner would cheat.

First, you need to find the reason. The forgive them, dump them, beat them, or whatever it is you feel you have to do.

But at least find out why it happened first.

MURDER/SUICIDE

murder/murder

You should only be worried if her previous partners had bigger penises than you. If so you have a problem there as she's probably fantasising over her ex's 10 incher touching her cervix every time you poke her with your pencil dick 5-6 average incher.

Also if those 5 guys were a while before you, her pussy has probably had time time to heal, or not. What a slut.

If she cheated on you, butt fuck her AND the guy she cheated on you with. Leave and never talk to her again, tell people she has STDs.

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quote:Originally posted by SeventhSon:

When that shit happened to me, although she kept saying she was sorry, and that it was an accident, I dropped that bitch right then and there.

There's no fucking excuse for that shit.

I completly agree.

quote:Originally posted by Fascismo:

WTF? Have a whole lot of 17 year old chicks fucked 5+ guys already?

I'm 18 and have only been with 2 guys, so not all of us have.

I'd be a bit confused, seeing as I'm single.

i loaded my gun....

and went and shot a stop sign

then i took her back =(

quote:Originally posted by MrMojoRisin:

Maybe not in Butt-Fuck, Idaho just because those towns are so small and so Christian those kids are totally fucked.

But I live in South Florida, I had been with 2 people at 16 and 4 at 17. And that was pretty conservative compared to the other girls around me. I was in a 2 year relationship in high school

Indeed, people down here are pretty open to following their natural urges instead of denying them and only causing themselves frustration.

Anyway, unless you want a complete virgin(in which case you are looking for a girl about 14 these days) you are just going to have to deal with the fact that she's had prior sexual partners, it really doesn't matter how many. And unless you are(or were before her) a virgin yourself you have absolutely no right to expect her to be, get upset about it, or let it bother you. And even if you were a virgin before her you have no right to get upset about it, either deal with it she was just following her instincts and it's not her fault you denied yours for so long. It really doesn't matter as long as you two love each other and are devoted to each other. And no it doesn't make her a slut.

Regarding the question of what I would do if someone cheated on me, I honestly don't know and hope to never find out. At the very least the relationship would be over. I might get violent(and would almost certainly have the impulse/desire to), I need to tone that part of me down a bit sometimes, I seem to be better about it now.

Now that I think of it, I'd just accept it. Drop her like a sack of hot potatoes, and fuck her friends.

After I'm done doing that, I'd establish a relationship with the cute one who thinks I'm good looking. This would piss her off more than her cheating on me pissed me off, since it really wouldn't phase me anymore.

It would depend on the situation. If he had a relationship with another girl, it would be over like that. But if it was a drunken mistake or whatever, I would forgive him. So I guess emotional cheating is more of a big deal for me.

I don't understand all these people who would want to hurt the other person though. It's no one's job but your own to be faithful, you can't go around blaming other people for your indiscretions...

quote:Originally posted by nownl8ter:

Personally I would have the urge to fuck both the guy and my GF up physically as much as possible. Call me sick but if my GF was tainted by another guy I would want her dead, and him dead too. Also another question, my GF had sex with 5 other guys before me and she is 17. This makes her a major slut right? Would you stand for this? Could you ever love this without thinking about the other 5 guys who have been inside of her? I know I sound like a big dick but I just said what my primal instinct says.



I'm the same way

quote:Originally posted by nownl8ter:

Personally I would have the urge to fuck both the guy and my GF up physically as much as possible. Call me sick but if my GF was tainted by another guy I would want her dead, and him dead too. Also another question, my GF had sex with 5 other guys before me and she is 17. This makes her a major slut right? Would you stand for this? Could you ever love this without thinking about the other 5 guys who have been inside of her? I know I sound like a big dick but I just said what my primal instinct says.



Why don't you grow up a bit first before getting in a real relationship? If she cheated on you, you obviously weren't doing something right, and you need to think about YOUR problems first, then hers.

I'd probably try and talk her into some degradeing sex act with her, then dump her afterwords.

In reality I be more pissed at her. The guy just did what 75% or more of sexaully active dudes would. It sucks that that's how it is but whatever. She the cunt that fucked around on me, not him.

i'd hit the bottle like it owed me money. yep .

I just came of off a relationship where my girlfriend was a lying skank. Thinking about it now, I was too nice. I think I handled it well, but now I am wishing that I threatened her with death if I found out she was lying to me, or maybe slap her around a little bit. Oh well, she was merely swapping boyfriends instead of getting a prescription for zoloft. She needed anti-depressants. Mind games are fun too, thats the worst that I did. We are away at college together and she really missed her dogs. I had given her a stuffed dog and she would sleep with it. Well I kept it after I found out she was lying to me, and used it as leverage to find out what was going on. When it was my time to hold up my end of the deal (giving her the dog) I told her, "Fuck you, you lied and cheated, now its my turn" I reveled in her tears, I struggled so hard to hide a smile. I am wishing I cut it into pieces and mailed it to her bit by bit.

I would flood the entire world and escape to my lunar base

quote:Originally posted by SeventhSon:

There's no fucking excuse for that shit.

Ive only ever fucked one girl. Shes only ever fucked one guy. Its just me and her, and if anyone changed that I would see to it they suffer the worst death imaginable before I go on a murder/suicide spree. Yes I care for her that much. Not many guys would go on a murderous rampage in the name of their beloved.