Not a relationship but my fucking life, Im 18 now and I have never had a girlfriend or a date, I fucking SUCK with girls and clearly I am not gonna get better because I have been trying as hard as I can and still nothing, at this point I know im gonna die alone anyway so it might as well happen now I cant take these bouts of depression anymore either I cant even describe how lonley and how much pain I am in. Im sorry I know there are too many threads about not having a girlfriend and this prolly belongs in B&M but I have to get this shit off my chest, plus im gonna leave this page open if I do go through with it so my parents arent totaly confused why I did it.

Im sorry.

You shouldn't kill yourself. Life lasts a long time and is fluid. It changes, and usually for the better.

Bro.. I have a short bit of advice, but it may be helpful.

There's more to life than women, and getting laid. I know your lonely, but can't you be happy with yourself even then?

Think about ALL that life has to offer- and then realize how minute the idea of a partner is.

One last thing.. if you give up now, then you'll never know if you were meant to find that 'someone'.

Good luck, think about it man.

Edit: One last thing, at your age its completely normal to have never had a girlfriend , and to have had no sexual relations.. Alot of people are experiencing it for thier first time at your age. Most probably wouldn't admit it.



[This message has been edited by truorion (edited 10-11-2006).]

Yo man Im 20 and never had a girlfriend. Ive had one night stands and all, but look I kind of know what youre going through. Ive been depressed about that shit and just sit back and chill. Think about it. Its lonely and shit, but It gets better hang around your friends and have a good time dont think about all the bullshit. What if your first girlfriend walks into your life tomorrow?

Everybody goes through some shit. Your life is what you make it, not everything can be handed to you. You can make it better. You can find a girl, its not that you suck with chicks, its cause you haven’t meet one you can have a relationship with yet.

And dude, your 18, you have a lot of time to find a chick. Really girls aren’t the most important thing in life. Trust me girls bring problems too and I personally believe everything happens for a reason.

quote:Originally posted by roll2daspot:

Not a relationship but my fucking life, Im 18 now and I have never had a girlfriend or a date, I fucking SUCK with girls and clearly I am not gonna get better because I have been trying as hard as I can and still nothing, at this point I know im gonna die alone anyway so it might as well happen now I cant take these bouts of depression anymore either I cant even describe how lonley and how much pain I am in. Im sorry I know there are too many threads about not having a girlfriend and this prolly belongs in B&M but I have to get this shit off my chest, plus im gonna leave this page open if I do go through with it so my parents arent totaly confused why I did it.

Im sorry.

I am 19 never had a gf, dated, kissed, etc. The closest I ever got was holding hands during a couples skate.

I am just coming out of chronic hatred for myself. I hate being single. I hate not having anyone to talk to.

I'm pretty sure she liked me. Somehow I fucked up and now she barely talks to me anymore. This is about a year and a half later. You have no idea how much I hated myself for whatever I did.

I cant think of anyone better than her, and thats what really burned me up inside. I hated living without her. I kept thinking about how much nicer it would be to no longer live. Sometimes I still fantasize about it, but its still petty. I love people too much to make them clean me up, and I'm too lazy to make sure there won't be a cleanup process.

I got a car and a hobby. It really helped take my mind away from being depressed. I ended up buying my red 84 Fiero and then rebuilt the motor.

I have resigned myself to just coasting and trying not to seppuku until someone pities me enough to initiate courtship. I sure as hell am too shy and have too little experience to be confident about making the first move.

I do have confidence, though. I am good with physics and in my lab my partner seems to like me. I can still carry a conversation and wow her with my prowess.

You probably have something you are good at that is impressive to others. Musicians sing, smart people know math, bikers have beer, etc.

Dont do it.

Dont even trip man. The question i want to ask you is, what do you think your main setback for not having a relationship is?

Bad looks? No game? Let us know man so we can help you out.

peace

Uhh, you still alive?

Pal, with an attitude like that, you'll never get a girl and your own prophecy will come to pass.

Cheer up and move on man...Life gets better.

Concentrate on things you like to do and forget about women...As my dad taught me, if you want them you'll never have them...When you become comfortable and happy with your life, one will come along.

Just relax and don't do anything stupid!

My cousin is 20 and he ain't had fuck all either...He seems to be doing just fine for himself...And so can you.

The guy above me just gave the best advice.

Just take some chances man.

WHO GIVES A FUCK.? Your one out of billions, go for it .

Get your prostate and testes removed, it'll all work out for the better in the end...no more hormonal urges...except that lonliness issue...meh, try religion...

Remember, for every guy alone, is a girl alone. You'll find someone eventually.

quote:Originally posted by ArgonPlasma2000:

Musicians sing, smart people know math, bikers have beer, etc.

All I've ever been my whole life is the "smart person"... but I hate math. Great. Now I'm not even a Smart Person. No one cares about philosophy and language.

just join the navy and fuck hookers all around the world.

quote:Originally posted by ArgonPlasma2000:

I do have confidence, though. I am good with physics and in my lab my partner seems to like me. I can still carry a conversation and wow her with my prowess.

Think of it this way, if you ask her out on a date..whats the worst that can happen? Get shot down? Gay. Oh well, atleast you gave it a shot, and aren't walking out of class saying "fuck, what if she would have said yes?".

Go for it, nig.



Oh and for the suicidal kid. Dude, theres so much more chronic you could smoke, when you put that bullet in your head..or pills in your stomach or WHATEVER, your wasting those lungs. Fill them with something that will drown all your sorrows, and lull your mind.

quote:Originally posted by Twisted_Ferret:

Originally posted by ArgonPlasma2000:

Musicians sing, smart people know math, bikers have beer, etc.

All I've ever been my whole life is the "smart person"... but I hate math. Great. Now I'm not even a Smart Person. No one cares about philosophy and language.

No they don't, they care aboot how fat a hit you can take on a bong. Well the hot ones atleast.

quote:Originally posted by Ketamine:

Think of it this way, if you ask her out on a date..whats the worst that can happen? Get shot down? Gay. Oh well, atleast you gave it a shot, and aren't walking out of class saying "fuck, what if she would have said yes?".

Go for it, nig.



Oh and for the suicidal kid. Dude, theres so much more chronic you could smoke, when you put that bullet in your head..or pills in your stomach or WHATEVER, your wasting those lungs. Fill them with something that will drown all your sorrows, and lull your mind.

I want your Totse name, House ftw

Oh and try playing WoW...I hear it ruins lives, but maybe since you consider your already ruined, maybe it will do the opposite

GHB.

I really hope he does not kill himself if he is serious. (bitches aint shit)

Every one you ever love is going to die or leave you.

It's a sad fact of life. Deal with it.

Seriously, you just need to get a good wakeup call. But I'm happy you've made a thread about it, it means you're not going to do it.

People who truly plan to kill them selves live like they're above the law, because it doesn't apply to them any more. What does 25 years in jail mean if you'll be dead in 7 days? Exactly.

So either stop bitching, get on with life. Or go have a heap of fun knowing you wont have to live for the consequences.

quote:Originally posted by arquin:

Every one you ever love is going to die or leave you.

It's a sad fact of life. Deal with it.

Seriously, you just need to get a good wakeup call. But I'm happy you've made a thread about it, it means you're not going to do it.

People who truly plan to kill them selves live like they're above the law, because it doesn't apply to them any more. What does 25 years in jail mean if you'll be dead in 7 days? Exactly.

So either stop bitching, get on with life. Or go have a heap of fun knowing you wont have to live for the consequences.

The kid who committed suicide because his runescape account was hacked posted first...

Dude, girls aren't worth your life. They're fuckheads who make it difficult because they can. Concentrate on something else, something that actually makes you happy. If you're happy, girls will come to you.

quote:Originally posted by Ziggurat:

I want your Totse name, House ftw

Oh and try playing WoW...I hear it ruins lives, but maybe since you consider your already ruined, maybe it will do the opposite



Thats funny, I play WoW so much I think I see Night Elfs running around my basement.

Yes, House FTW.

AH SHIT I SHOULD OF BEEN ON LAST NIGHT!

if you have offed urself (i hope you do)

SEE YA LATER ASSHOLE!

Hmm yeah I don't know, I didn't read any posts here and I don't know if you've offed yourself or not but dude...

I was in your situation when I was your age. I am now 20 and a half, and things have changed a whole lot. I just lost my virginity, I have an easy time with girls, they like me and yadayada.

You just need a little help dude, that's all. Some David Deangelo, a little working out, some styling tips. It's way too early to give up pal, believe me. I was a huge huge pansy wussy loser, but things can change.

I don't think I'm ever gonna get a gf either but unfortunately I could never kill myself. More so than I just don't have it in me, I'm not sure what happends when we die I mean yeah it would be great to start a new life and all but is it going to happen I don't know. Before you kill yourself ask yourself what next, when you are poor and alone wandering the streets at night then kill yourself but if youuuuuuuuuu're not just try to live a little bit longer.

quote:Originally posted by Twisted_Ferret:

All I've ever been my whole life is the "smart person"... but I hate math. Great. Now I'm not even a Smart Person. No one cares about philosophy and language.

Same here, until philosophical ability took me to great conclusions regarding math.

Got MSN? I'll make you love it(math, I mean).

[This message has been edited by Local Hero (edited 10-12-2006).]

If you can't be happy in your life, you can always find happiness in your dreams.

And you will find neither if you're dead.

Goddamn it! Killing yourself just because you've not yet had a girlfriend is really really bad!

And remember the not YET part.

What, are you gonna be a monk when you hit 20 or something? Is there some hidden time limit, so that if you havent had a girlfriend by a certain date it means you never will!?!



I cant give you any good reason not to kill yourself. But killing yourself and ending your future before you've even had a fucking chance to get with a girl is gay.

quote:Originally posted by arquin:

Every one you ever love is going to die or leave you.

It's a sad fact of life. Deal with it.



Well no. Perhaps that's fact for you, but not for everyone.

Just because you've had shit happen and you seem to see fucking around whilst dating a girl as okay, doesent mean everyone is like you.

And it's kind of ignorant to base what must happen to 'everyone' based simply on your experience alone.

A lot of people go a lot longer without girls. I personally hadn't kissed anyone untill I was 17. If it's not too late, you should reflect a bit before thinking of suicide. Life can be great if you let it be. You've got maybe another EIGHTY YEARS to spend happy, it would be stupid to end your life now, miss out on all that great sex you're going to have, and maybe see your kids grow up (assuming you want childre). I urge you to seriously reconsider, and remember with a big of practice, being a ladies man can be much easier than you think.

Oh, and local hero, can you post your MSN address? I wouldn't mind someone to share the joy of maths with. I've been out of touch since school.

ricardocarvalho87 AT hotmail DOT com

If you kill yourself today, you die a virgin.

quote:Originally posted by genericwittyusername:

If you kill yourself today, you die a virgin.



This guy is wise. And has a very good point. Damnit man, do you want to die a virgin?!?!

Ahh!!



Anyawy, it's silly to kill yourself because of something you've never had.



I mean, I've never driven a BMW, but I'm not going to kill myself because of that fact.



Face it, you may not have felt that horsepower beneath you or that silky upholstery, but trust me, some day your BMW will come.

Awww dude, don't kill youself!

Keep your head up, and life will get better.

Come back to totse for huggles!

Tnink he's had enough attention yet?

quote:Originally posted by Pilsu:

Tnink he's had enough attention yet?

lol

Don't compare yourself to other people. Be happy with what you have. Become the person you want to be. Then you won't have any desire to die. It worked for me, although to be fair, while I fantasized, I didn't actually consider it.

quote:Originally posted by Pilsu:

Tnink he's had enough attention yet?

Ha, he probably killed himself already.

Don't strive for the best looking chicks. Don't try cheerleaders and popular chicks man.

Get with loner chicks. They're easy to please and get. They're usually the most unique too, if they're off on their own and not sacrificing themselves to fit in.

Anyway, Keep your chin up. If anything, run away or get your own place or something.

quote:Originally posted by Influx:

Ha, he probably killed himself already.

That'd be amusing

Poor thing, thinking his life turns magically better if he gets laid

quote:Originally posted by Ankhd:

Remember, for every guy alone, is a girl alone. You'll find someone eventually.

No man dont do it! TOTSE NEEDS YOU!

http://www.totse.com/bbs/Forum4/HTML/024208.html

^^ Read it. There's a reason I wrote it.

is it possible for guys to live without girls and vice versa?! Why do people get all depressed about it, Relationships fuck up peoples lives more then the non-existace of a relationship.. Theres more to life then relationships dont be a pussy death is the easy way out.. Also you would die a virgin, Wana die a virgin?

quote:Originally posted by roll2daspot:

Not a relationship but my fucking life, Im 18 now and I have never had a girlfriend or a date, I fucking SUCK with girls and clearly I am not gonna get better because I have been trying as hard as I can and still nothing, at this point I know im gonna die alone anyway so it might as well happen now I cant take these bouts of depression anymore either I cant even describe how lonley and how much pain I am in. Im sorry I know there are too many threads about not having a girlfriend and this prolly belongs in B&M but I have to get this shit off my chest, plus im gonna leave this page open if I do go through with it so my parents arent totaly confused why I did it.

Im sorry.

dude... it's not you, it's that whole issue with trying.

What I find funny is how everybody makes such a big deal out of everything until they do it. Like getting a driver's license, getting laid, getting drunk, etc.

Chill out. It's the best thing to do.

quote:Originally posted by yoyobek:

Well no. Perhaps that's fact for you, but not for everyone.

Just because you've had shit happen and you seem to see fucking around whilst dating a girl as okay, doesent mean everyone is like you.

And it's kind of ignorant to base what must happen to 'everyone' based simply on your experience alone.

Are you stupid? Do you live outside the rules that govern the universe? Living things die. Every one dies. People also leave you. But if they decide to stay with you, cool, but remember, they're still going to die. The only exception is if you die first. But how much fun is that, honestly?

FACT: Every one you ever love, will die, or leave you.

Don't fucking argue it, because you're god damn wrong.

*edit*

P.S. Fuck you. I've never 'fucked around on a girl'. Ever. Never will either. I'm the most loyal guy you'll ever meet.

P.P.S. Fuck you again.



[This message has been edited by arquin (edited 10-14-2006).]

Suicide is a perminant "solution" to a temporary problem. Think it through.

The only reason to commit suicide is being bored with life.

What do you do if something bores you? Stop doing it.

If you're doing it because of some small/big issues, sort them out. But if you've truly become bored with life...meh.

http://tinyurl.com/yk3n6b

JUMP.

Yeah, I knew you wouldn't.

quote:Originally posted by arquin:

Are you stupid? Do you live outside the rules that govern the universe? Living things die. Every one dies. People also leave you. But if they decide to stay with you, cool, but remember, they're still going to die. The only exception is if you die first. But how much fun is that, honestly?

FACT: Every one you ever love, will die, or leave you.

Don't fucking argue it, because you're god damn wrong.

*edit*

P.S. Fuck you. I've never 'fucked around on a girl'. Ever. Never will either. I'm the most loyal guy you'll ever meet.

P.P.S. Fuck you again.



I started reading the thread backwards for some reason so I have no idea what you're referring to, but that little rant was a goddamn gold-medal taker.