Just making general conversation and i was woundering which methods do you use to remotely connect to a computer i know theres telnet ect. I was just wondering of what ways you connect to a computer

You can techincally connect to any port that is listening for a connection. Typically you would use a port scanner to find ports that are listening for a connection. This is very important tool used for security and hacking. If you are interested in either it is a very usefull tool.

Now that you can do at that port depends on what service is listening there. In the case of telnet, a server/daemon is listening on port 23 (most of the time). This server will allow you to communicate using the telnet protocal, which is very basic in nature. Connection to port 25 should yeild an SMTP server for email.

Ports are a way to bind an end point to a program. Depending on the program behind the port, will be what services you can access.

If i didn't answer you question could you be more exact in asking it?

I wasnt askin a question i was just wondering of what techniques different people used beacuse differnet hackers have different ways of doing things. BTW what port scanner would you recommend to use

I think you should find the one YOU prefer the best. Just search for em.

The one i use just because im lazy is nmap which came with my linux distrubtion.