ok,
I feel kind of dumb, im really not the type to post stupid shit but im going to anywayz because what im doing, apparently isnt working. I'm into this guy I hang out with him sometimes. We're both really shy, i just want to let him know I like him, i mean is there anyhting i can say or do that tells him i like him, but that i can totally shrug off later?? what lets you know a chick likes you?



[This message has been edited by cheezzdipp (edited 01-31-2003).]

Short skirt, no panties.

I was going to make a post about chicks needing to be more aggressive

grab at his shaboinker in a non jokingly way or if he's still slow you'll have to resort to just coming out and saying you want to go to the next level or whatever

there's no way to tell someone definitively you like them but still be able to shrug off later.

Just bite the bullet.. Tell him you like him, and that you just wanted him to know that.

people are just so god damn confusing, one minute u think thet like u and the next they show no intrest i mean wtf, if i like someone im all bout them hittin on them till they spread there legs or shoot me down either way it works. be aggressive and show no mercy, i like it when girls do that, unless they are ugly then u have to get mean and tell them whats up. but if u really like someone dont be coy about just go for it the worse thing that will happen is they will turn u down. and rejection is part of life

You are the female. You have an advantage. If you just say you like him, maybe ask him out, and he says no, 50 to 1 says he says ok, whatever, and keeps being your friend. The only dilemma you'll face is your own sense of being rejected. You have a lot of leeway to play with as far as being able to tell him something like that without scaring him away permanently.

Even if he does get a little flipped out, all you need to do is be his friend again, and it'll be all good. Unlike girls, who in many cases get tired of being hit on by their guy friends, this doesn't happen to guys. Therefore, he won't be thinking, "Christ, another girl that's gonna be all over my jock.. fuck that.."

I am yet to here of a guy that said 'no' to a chick [unless she was fat and disgusting]. Go for it! like jump on his lap or some shit, bend over, etc...revealing tops work well

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Originally posted by Wintermute:
there's no way to tell someone definitively you like them but still be able to shrug off later.

Just bite the bullet.. Tell him you like him, and that you just wanted him to know that.

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i dont know, just all serious like that? i DID say i was shy, i just need a reaction...any raction, it realls sucks not knowing