alright here it is. from many years of failures and experimenting. my conclusions are don't act all childish, dont be urself!! dont tell anyone until u accutally ask her out. dont get ur friends to ask shit for u. just ask her out! simple, if she says no then u can prolly goto the bad ideas section and get some revenge from there but the point is that the only way you are gonna get her is to ask her out, and dont do anything gay or crap like sending her a note or something. lol last time i sent a email to the chick i liked and she ended up showing it all her friends and all laughed, god i think im just starting to get over that.

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true so true

One problem though... I found being yourself is better

being urself only works for some people, for me it doesn't work, my life is just too complex and wierd and frankly scaring for a girl that i like to understand.

"be yourself" that's such a cliche and even if it wasn't I'd be really stupid advice. How the hell do I "be myself"? I AM my fucking self. And we are all actors to some degree in everything we do. Tell someone to do their best not "be yourself"


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point?

i think it means don't act like someone else. don't try to be something you have no hope of being just to impress some chick. if you are too diffrent, let it go, don't fake it.

It doesn't matter who you pretend to be... Once you land the broad you are going to have to evolve and/or adjust to what she wants anyways if you want to get some steady poon...

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Originally posted by RAOVQ:
i think it means don't act like someone else. don't try to be something you have no hope of being just to impress some chick. if you are too diffrent, let it go, don't fake it.

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be yourself unless you are a boring/creepy fuck

You cant not be yourself. You have to act all the time and then finally she will find out as you cant keep it up all the time.

I am a boring creepy fuck.

I find I act "cuter" (as she describes it) around my girl friend. Most of the time I act myself but not as edgy. I'd have to definitly say im lighter when im around her.

Ya telling your friend about it just makes you sound obsessed, and if you keep thinking about it you will probbly put it off till tomorow (tomorow meaning never). And don't do it via e-mail. AIM/ICQ/YIM/WM is all good. If she says no its better that she has no record of it.

Phew thank fuck for me reading this post. I was JUST about to send an e-mail to a girl asking her out.LRL! Well,ok i think i'll phone her although she is ignoring my calls(see post in General forum)'cos of something i have done but she wont tell me what! Why do they never tell you what it is you have done wrong?Argh