Last saturday I was at club ( I'm 17 so it was a teen night.) I got there at 8pm and went in. It was hiphop/ reagee, so anyway, I see this girl from school I really liked. Well she is the shy type , she was leaning against the bar so I say hi to her friend which I knew. So I wait a while and ask the girl to dance, and she says no. Would this indicate that she just doesn't like me? or are there any other varients?

[This message has been edited by Blaire (edited 12-23-2002).]

Does she know you?

your pretty retarded, arnt you?

I suggest you try your chance again but in a different format, maybe dancing isn't her thing.

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Originally posted by NAAGAL:
your pretty retarded, arnt you?

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Well, no I just haven't been in this situation before.

she didnt wanna dance..... thats it
doesnt mean anything

Naagel was harsh but true, so she dont dance well she dont want to dance. If you take this in you are taking advice on girls from a person 2 years younger dont you think thats sad. Just say sorry and ask her on a date. Then if she says no go home and relise its all good.

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Originally posted by Painkillers:
[B]Naagel was harsh but trueB]

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NAAGAL! is always right.

Dont listen to them, its a possibilty that since she is shy she probably think shes a crap dancer even if she isnt, therefore not wanting to look like a fool infront of you, refuses to dance. To find if she likes you just talk and try another approach such as the cinema or sky-diving....probably not the latter

it depends on how the girl said "no." it could have just been "no" or it could have been like "i don't feel like it" or something else. think of the tone of how she said it....then put it all together, there is your answer!

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Originally posted by CS1400:
it depends on how the girl said "no." it could have just been "no" or it could have been like "i don't feel like it" or something else. think of the tone of how she said it....then put it all together, there is your answer!

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Well it might be kind of difficult to remember everything, seeing as to how i was X-ing that night.

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Originally posted by Nitz:
Does she know you?

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No she doesn't really know me. She has seen me in school before, I have her in two classes.

Well if shes shy shes not going to dance with someone she doesen't know. I guess sometimes women go to clubs with their friends just to go. Get to know her and maybe next time.

She said no. She didn't say anything else, I presume? Let it go, man. If she saw something the least bit interesting in you, she'd have either said yes or come up with some reason not to dance that didn't involve you.

Guaranteed correct? No. Odds on? Yeah.

if someone askes me to dance (not that i would ever show my face where dancing would be a likley option) i would say no. i just don't have a thing for humiliating myself in public, at least not sober. its not a judgement on the person who asks. don't take every knockback so personally, there is a million reasons that she did not want to dance at that time, but don't stress about it.

Thankyou, u people are helpful. ( yes this is another one of those teenage "problems" , but hey where else do i go to get so much advice. )

It don't mean nuthin'.

Occam's Razor. The simplest answer would be that she finds you physically repulsive.

If dancing is your thing, find a chick that likes to dance. There's alot of us out there. Use that chick for homework help or something geeky like that. She might be more into it. What I wanna know is why she'd be there if she just wanted to stand there like a farm aminal. I'd go for her friend and make her jealous.
Feel free not to give a shit about my opinion and go for the stuck up little bitch.
...I'm bitchy; I need to get high.

ask her out in a comfortable setting and if she says no,say fuck you bitch and tea bag her with your cojones!