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Sex and Affection Anything and everything about sex and relations. Please try to keep this forum on-topic, since things tend to wander a bit. Search through old topics before posting a new one, as questions get repeated a lot here.

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 #1 
Old 2002-12-17, 04:28
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Default friends, friendships and relationships

great, for another time a new girl brings trouble into a friendship. She�s the new girl of a good friend of me, but they�re not already at the relationship status, just friends. And it looks like, as if they won�t have a relationship, because this friend told this girl so many good things about me, that she seems to be more interested into me, than him. It sucks to fuck things up just with your presence.
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Old 2002-12-17, 04:58
Spiffy McBang Spiffy McBang is offline
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So? Do you wanna get with her? If she knew your friend first, and there was mutual interest there, they'd probably have hooked up. If there's not, then why should it be a problem if you and her get together? No reason for him to be pissed if it just didn't happen between the two of them.
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Old 2002-12-17, 12:22
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no, I don�t want her. But he likes her a lot. I would really like to see that they become a happy couple. And I would also like to see that it won�t change our friendship, and that he still trusts me the way he does now.
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Old 2002-12-17, 16:04
Wintermute Wintermute is offline
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Just ignore her interest in you, hopefully when you make it clear you're not into her, she'll revert back to the other guy..

Under no circumstances should you ever mention this to your friend, either.

Oh, and if all else fails, pretend you're gay.. shouldn't be too hard for you
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Old 2002-12-17, 18:49
Spiffy McBang Spiffy McBang is offline
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Doh..

Yeah, if you're not interested, she'll figure it out. Don't worry about it.
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Old 2002-12-17, 18:55
reaverX reaverX is offline
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Happens all the time. Fly casual. It'll blow over as long as you don't do anything to encourage her. With my friends I'd be able to (and have) talked to them about such things w/ no ill effects, but my friends are well different than most people.
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Old 2002-12-17, 19:42
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quote:
Originally posted by Wintermute:
Oh, and if all else fails, pretend you're gay.. shouldn't be too hard for you


*rapes Suze to prove that he�s not*

 #8 
Old 2002-12-17, 19:45
reaverX reaverX is offline
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*rapes Suze to prove that he�s not*

Doesn't prove anything. You could still be bi
:P
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Old 2002-12-17, 20:10
Wintermute Wintermute is offline
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or just acting out to pretend that you're not..
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Old 2002-12-17, 20:41
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I'm going with Spiffy...If she wanted your friend, she'd have already gotten with him. Apparently, there's nothing between her and your friend, but a friendship. Do you like her? Follow your heart.
 
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