to the ladies and guys if they have tips...

how do you like it? any tricks you picked up over the years with kissing and any other foreplay? thanks alot

They hate beards.

Why don't you go learn yourself? its a trial and error thing.

i agree with falcon, its more of a trial and error type of thing, because what one girl may like, another might not. its just one of those go see for yourself. sorry dude.

Dm


*edit errr... didnt see the last part about foreplay... ears... go for the ears, and the neck,collarbone, and if you get the chance to go down on her, kiss the inside of the thigh. nipples dont hurt much either, they can help.

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Whatever you do, tease them.

First off it is a trial an error thing but there are multiple things u can try. first nuzzle her or his nose with with yours very gently..unless its pimple ridden of course and if it is i question what your kissing. 2nd always use chapstick. make sure lips are soft and moist.. 3rd. suckle his or her bottom or top lip. 4th. don't use tounges of saliva just a little bit so it isn't bone dry. 5th when using tounge you shouldn't jam it down her throat instead you should slightly massage it and circle your lovers tounge with your own. and for a special suprise put some pop rocks on your tounge and lips

It's really not that tough. Don't jam your tongue down her throat. Don't try to swallow her face. Basically, don't try too hard. Just kiss her.

i agree with spiffy DONT TRY TO HARD dont be to hard on your self if she says your crap

the more you do it the better you will become. young skywalker

Try to not drool all over her. That is especialy likely to catch you off gaurd if you are realy going at it.

do what you feel: read her intimately, respond to that.... give her the pleasure she desires, its all about coming together ... just feel her and you at the same time, and you wont even have to worry about any tips and tricks ...


ScorpiEn

(1) Trying to suck someone's tongue out completely hurts. If you don't believe me, have someone do it to you some time. This is my number one kissing tip, since it's a pet peeve of mine

(2) Do what you do, but do it mindfully. Don't switch off when you kiss, just pay attention to all the things you could be doing to their mouth.. lick the inside of their lips, suck gently on one lip or the other, kiss the side of the mouth, flick your tongue close to theirs, etc..

(3) Too much slobber=bad.. Anytime I have to wipe my face after I kiss is really not that much fun.. slobber within reason..

(4) Don't use your tongue to rape someone's mouth.. if you find the person backing away from you as you kiss, that's generally a sign that you're cutting off oxygen or just doing something far too invasive..

(5) Relax.. it's not rocket science.. Be gentle, unless the person demands otherwise.. Presume that they like to be kissed romantically, rather than sadomasochistically..

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Originally posted by rockfan_24:
i agree with spiffy DONT TRY TO HARD dont be to hard on your self if she says your crap

the more you do it the better you will become. young skywalker

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HAHAHAHAHA Think of it:
Girl: You suck at kissing
Me: Well we will just have to keep doing it till I get it right. hahahaha

if it's a kiss at the end of a first date try not to push your boner against her. it sends the wrong signals. unless, of course, she's that type of girl

Most common complaints Women give about how a men kiss have been:

1) Too much tongue.
2) Sucking too much face.

It never hurts to err on the side of caution and then up the ante until you get to the edge of their comfort zone. Things will change from situation to situation. Some days a woman just wants gently little chased kisses some days they want to tongue wrestle. Go with the mood.

When you are making out with the chick start nibbling everywhere u can for most girls this gets them going. Then go right below the collar bone. Lick and kiss all over. This usually works for me. If that doesn't get her going. Start dry fuckin her at first next thang you know she will have all her clothes off. THEN GO WILDED OUT!!

define "sucking too much face"

I assume your talking about my post.

Sucking too much face means you kiss like a lamprey trying to engulf your partners entire oral region in a huge open mouthed kiss involving way more pressure than is necessary. It's a kiss, not mouth to mouth resuscitation. A common complaint from women is that the kiss is just way too overwhelming and crude.

Have any of you noticed how badly some girls kiss? There was one girl who seemed like she was trying to ram her tounge as far down my throat as she could. Also remember that kissing is sensual. Its not a contest. Do whatever feels nicest.

Chris

when i was 16, i got home from snogging tihs guy i liked at a club... and my whole mouth, and like over a centimetre around my mouth was sore as hell. TOO MUCH TEETH! God... i guess that is sucking too much face... after that i wasnt so gutted when i he went off with a mate instead!
Just do what feels natural and use yer brain, think what the other person would like.
Oh, and dont use tongue like washing machine either

again all trial an error but...

upper part of the breast, below and behind the ear, the sides of the torso, inner thighs, backs of the knee's, temples, under the chin and throat.... ahh the list goes on.

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Originally posted by Frey Grimrod:
again all trial an error but...

upper part of the breast, below and behind the ear, the sides of the torso, inner thighs, backs of the knee's, temples, under the chin and throat.... ahh the list goes on.

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continue it please

eh I think peeps have gotten a pretty good brainstorm going here for us all and you especially. basically anywhere sensitive to touch. think not only dense gathering of nerves but also the amount their regularly excited/touched. Stomach is wonderfull IMO. Alotta people are tickleish so its kinda a game you can play if your going for a light almost not touching caress just barely brushing the hairs... or a soft breath.

DONT OVER THINK THOUGH!!!! You'll get yourself all messsed up busy thinking and not be paying attention too what really matters your partner! oh... try a soft bite where your teeth dont even come close to leaving a mark and go from there.

running your fingers though her hair, on the inside of her legs over her breast, remember to just run them SOFTLY over the skin.. in some women this is a big turn on..

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