I've never been entirely sure. I've always thought it was a nice thing but I'm sure that it's real easy to get a secret admirer note and think to yourself "Oh no... STALKER!"

It depends on how the person is secretly admiring them. If they send them stuff in a smothering fasion... STALKER :P

"Stalkers" are supposedly a big problem in my work. But most "notes" i've received were from just basically nice, but very bashful guys who would like to make a connection with me, but are too afraid of a face to face rejection (the usual "fearful" "guy problem" you are always reading about on the posts here on totse). Those who are a little bit braver than the rest will (I think purposely) give me some little clue or hint in their note about who they are---so then i can usually figure it out and take the initiative to get a conversation going with them that solves their shyness problem. Some, however, are so shy, they give no clue at all, leaving me forever wondering. I've had some who followed me around too much afterwards. But that's just a guy thing, and I have never had a true "stalker". I think the "stalker" thing is pretty overblown. Love, Venus.

I had a stalker..

creepy fucker.

I want a stocker.

But one that's pretty and is good in bed.