i don't want to give head just yet, but i do want to give him pleasure so what to do? jack him off? but i don't even know if guys like that and they have a hand- can't they do it themselves? what do you guys think about a girl givin you a handy?

The fact a girl is doing it makes a handjob better than boring old masturbation. Some guys like better than blowjobs, even.

Stop your whining and give him a handjob. Better yet, give him a blowjob. Either way you will pleasure him.

If either are no good, kill yourself.


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If you can give a good handjob then you shouldn't need to give oral. Oral may be pretty mind blowing but as far as i am concerned two womans hands wrapped around your cock is much better than oral because they can vary the technique and have each hand doing something different whereas the only varible with oral is the tongue.

Chunkmiester
The world would be a better place is woman knew how to give good hand jobs. Try Jackin World for pointers

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Originally posted by Chunkmiester:
If you can give a good handjob then you shouldn't need to give oral. Oral may be pretty mind blowing but as far as i am concerned two womans hands wrapped around your cock is much better than oral because they can vary the technique and have each hand doing something different whereas the only varible with oral is the tongue.

Chunkmiester
The world would be a better place is woman knew how to give good hand jobs. Try Jackin World for pointers

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No the world be a better place if woman gave handjobs more often.

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Originally posted by Chunkmiester:
If you can give a good handjob then you shouldn't need to give oral. Oral may be pretty mind blowing but as far as i am concerned two womans hands wrapped around your cock is much better than oral because they can vary the technique and have each hand doing something different whereas the only varible with oral is the tongue.

Chunkmiester
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umm... when blowing you they have two hands free for fondling or whatever. just give him the damn blowjob already

Two hands if they still have them, hehe. But yeah.. yep.


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Yea Id take a Bj with 2 hands over 2 hands anyday.
If you want to spank his monkey good.
Ask him what feels good because there isnt anything better than him not feeling good and you dont know wtf your going.
So ask him and say does it feel good when I spin my hand up and down or when I play with your balls.
Who knows maybe he wants you just stick your fingers in his ass and squeeze his nuts.
Everones different.
Ask.

A woman that doesn't give a blowjob? They still make those models?
ha ha ha ha I finally get to use that quote

Dear Ms. Alone: All I know is that i (oops, I) have NEVER, EVER, NOT EVEN ONCE had a guy ask me for a "handjob". BJs are definitely the flavor of this month, and last month (and for many before--and I think they have a big future too!!- hee hee). I don't mean to be preachy, but IF you are going to give him ANYTHING, why don't you just give him what HE wants? Just don't wimp out. If you DO IT ONCE, I can guaranty you that you will want to do it over and over and over again (UNLESS you don't like your guy totally adoring you and smiling all the time!! (hee hee). Love, Venus.

ive heared that the idea of a BJ can make some females utterly ill, let alone actually performing it. is this true of anyone you know?

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ive heared that the idea of a BJ can make some females utterly ill, let alone actually performing it. is this true of anyone you know?

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i know a few thousand pentacostals who would rather chew their own thighs off than stick a cock in their mouth.

Sucks to be them.

well ive given head before just the only thing that holds me back is i really like this guy and i don't want him thinkin im just gonna give it all away so soon- i want him to have something to wait for so when i do do it, he will really appreciate it..ya know??? haha well thanks everyone for writing* I will ask him what he wants

The only thing more fucked up than waiting because you like this guy is that, given the general mindset of Western culture, it makes complete sense.

Ugh. People fucking suck.

GO GIRL!!! You will be a happy man maker!!! However, I wouldn't ask him what he wants, 'cause you already know that one!!(hee hee). Just give it to him WHEN HE DOESN'T EXPECT IT!!! If you start being totally unpredictable it is better, because that will solve his "problem", AND YOURS (because if you establish your unpredictablility, he will not start taking you for granted---thinking he can get it any time he wants). Anyway, what you are giving him is a GIFT, and the most appreciated gift in the whole wide world is the SURPRISE ONE!!!Love, Venus.

yeah for once here i have to totaly agree with spiffy. i hope he reads this and breaks up with your dumbass if you seriously plan on doing that to him

I've got a friend who's sorta like that. She's still a virgin (technically... Personally, I wouldn't say she is...) and has been with her current boyfriend for several years... They're practically married. They've done just about everything but have sex, including anal and bdsm. She claims she doesn't want to have sex with him because she's afraid he'll think less of her or something... I'm inclined to believe her, because she's not particularly religious and doesn't have any of those wierd "synthetic" morals, and she's not just doing it to avoid pain, because she's told me that she's used dildos and in fact once broke a vibrator.

Women are probably the one thing stranger than life in general...

Oh, and to answer your question, I can't think of any guy who'd refuse any form of gential stimulation from someone he loved, and I know several that wouldn't turn it down from any random woman off the street...

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I dont see why the answer to this question isn't blatantly obvious. If you really want to make him feel good do it, but only if your willing to do it again. 'Cause he's going to want you to. If you do it once and never again that will make him upset. I can completely understand not wanting to have sex yet(and I am a guy too, we do understand these things too you know.). If your looking for something to do in the mean time pick one that your willing to do. It does feel different when a girl gives a guy a hand job then masterbating, but a blow job would obviously feel better. Its up to what your willing to do and keep doing. But, DONT just ask him. Your gonna confuse the poor guy, if not at first then in the future. and most importantly if you've done it for someone else in the past DONT let him find out if your not going to do it. If he really cares about you thats one hell of a mind job, trust me.

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Originally posted by Alone:
they have a hand- can't they do it themselves?

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They also have a mouth. So they can go blow themselves.