What do you guys, and girls think about the saying "bros before hoes". Untill recently i believed very strongly in this. Now that i have met the girl of my dreams, and she likes me. Im starting to gradually forget my friends, and i find myself always with her. Dont get me wrong, I like her ALOT, but these have been my freinds for going on 9 years now. Any advice from some more experienced in the love game would be great. And some opinions on that saying "bros before hoes".

Bros before hoes is a good saying- if you don't take "hoes" to mean all women, just the ones who are going to use and abuse you for what you can give them. If this girl isn't like that, then the phrase is irrelevant.

Still, I don't think anyone here would recommend not spending any time with your friends. For one thing, there are no guarantees- she may be the girl of your dreams now, but that may change, and where will your friends be when you need them if you ignore them? Even if things do work out for the best, you two will want to spend time apart now and again- would you rather have buddies to do stuff with or mope around at home and end up missing her presence?

Preferably- and this is for me personally- if I'm dating a girl, I hope like hell she's someone that can hang out with my friends comfortably. (If she's not, chances are we wouldn't be dating in the first place, but that's beside the point.) If you can do that in this case, so much the better- you can spend a lot of time with her and still be around your friends. But, if that's not a realistic option, see above.. don't ditch anyone who's not worth ditching.

Thanks for the advice Spiffy.