okay here is what i need help with. i am a bit on the freek side when it comes to sex but when it comes to asking i do not know what to ask for and how to ask for it some one help me please.
(i am a strait shick.)

What exactly is this 'freek' side? I find that most people don't think much stuff is 'freek'-y, really, so asking them to do it isn't very hard.

well i will go for any thing but i want my guy to get some toys and stuff like that and i want some ideas too anything goes pritty much

What about eating shit? Does anything still go?

Toys are no big deal at all, they can make things fun. Just talk to him. After all, if you can't even talk to him, why the hell are you having sex with him? It seems like it should be easy. He's a human with human urges probably similar to yours. You're not a pervert or anything, have some confidence in that.

well that is what i feel like a pervert

Bah if you two are fucking then he shouldn't be judging you. Just ask and if he says no then find someone else freaky or be content never to mention the freaky stuff again. If you like that sort of stuff I don't think you're a freak. Just different.

Ive always been into the dark side of sex myself. malaria's right, just talk about it. You could bring it up while you are actually having sex, like dirty talk. That always works for me, it doesnt have to be akward. Most guys would be totally into your free-spirited attitude.

$5 dollars says she has conservitive parents.

i'll drink to that

and i shall lay down another $5 on it

no my mom is cool she talks to me about sex every now and then we say shit just to get the shock value of it. my grandmother was the one wait till you are marryed and they both think that the same sex thing is cool hell i moved out of the house when i was 16 to live with the guy i am with now and i am 19 turning 20 soon. i really do not know why i feel like a perv but i do some times. and i do have low self out look.

You don't have a problem!!! Lilymunster's TOTALLY correct...."most guys would (gladly) be into your freespirited attitude"!!! If not, you should get out more, 'cause your guys are pretty weird!! Love, Venus.

sounds to me as if you are bored -
if bored with sex that bad -
if bored with the sex you are getting that can be changed -
if bored by the guy - he can be changed

have you ever thought about having a quick naughty adventure on the side - with
somebody who knows what to do and hos its done -
that can often spice up and improve a couple - also could build up your self estime a bit which it seems to need

Ditto.
Cheat on your man now.
And you guys will be better off.
Wtf.
I know if I was pleasing my girl in bed or she wanted something different. But didnt tell me what she wanted.
Went out and fucked someone who could please her. I would be happier with her.
Ok.

How about you talk to your boyfriend and tell him what you want. Dont feel dirty about it maybe he was thinking the same thing but didnt want to tell you it. Tell him everything that you want and if you have been toghter the 3 years or whatever im sure he wouldnt mind toys or you even eating his shit or whatever the fuck you want to do.

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Originally posted by malaria:
What about eating shit? Does anything still go?

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Ick. I'll never do that again.