what can i do to make it more interesting for my wife to want to blow me. its like my dick is gross or something. she does do it(when i ask a few hundred times) but it feels more like a pity thing and i lose interest?

Trim your hair. Make sure your clean, not sweaty and gross. Dont tell her to directly, just talk about how much you enjoyed it last time and let her decide if she wants to do it. that way, she doesnt feel as bad if she doesnt as she would if you asked her straight out, yet she still understands that you want it

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Originally posted by cueT:
Trim your hair. Make sure your clean, not sweaty and gross. Dont tell her to directly, just talk about how much you enjoyed it last time and let her decide if she wants to do it. that way, she doesnt feel as bad if she doesnt as she would if you asked her straight out, yet she still understands that you want it

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thank you for the info. it might help

Also realize that some women just flat don't like to do it. She obviously knows you love a good blowjob.. if cleaning yourself up doesn't get her to want to do it, it might be in both of your best interests to stop asking completely. It's less stress on her, and if she's cool, she'll probably thank you with a good blowjob one day.

Eat her out. You can't expect oral from her if you won't eat her out. If you already do then just live with it. It's not as important as her feelings.

Hey I LOVE Pussy more than i like sex. i eat her out every chance i get. she says that its just the thoght of it most times. i'd feel the same way if someone shoved a dick in my mouth. but at the same time i love to eat her so much , it baffles me sometimes why she wouldnt want me to feel the same pleasure. we've been married 12 yrs and if she never gave me another blow job that would be ok as long as she continues to give me her cum

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Originally posted by Kaka4Brains:
Hey I LOVE Pussy more than i like sex. i eat her out every chance i get. she says that its just the thoght of it most times. i'd feel the same way if someone shoved a dick in my mouth. but at the same time i love to eat her so much , it baffles me sometimes why she wouldnt want me to feel the same pleasure. we've been married 12 yrs and if she never gave me another blow job that would be ok as long as she continues to give me her cum

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ooooooooooooooooooooooooooookkkkkkkkkkkkkkk
tastes bad to me
i dont like eating pussy anymore

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Originally posted by Kaka4Brains:
she says that its just the thoght of it most times. i'd feel the same way if someone shoved a dick in my mouth..... it baffles me sometimes why she wouldnt want me to feel the same pleasure.

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Maybe because she doesn't like the thought of a dick in her mouth. I'll assume you have sex, which means it's very possible that, to her, is good enough.

Seriously, why do people think that if they do something for someone else, the other person is *expected* to reciprocate? Doesn't that more or less kill the entire point of doing something for someone else? If you're going down on a girl, thinking she should blow you because of it, or she should feel the need to pleasure you in the same way, etc., that negates the selflessness of the act, which is part of the allure in the first place.

i see this topic is over a month old - so perhaps you have solved your problem - or left home -
Seriously - you dont tell us what sort of blow job you want -
maybe you are insisting she take it in the mouth - or swallow it - like in the cheapo porn stories sections - but
most women have to be brought along slowly -
ask her to start just licking it - then take the head in the mouth - let her get used to it and she will come around -
I had a morocan girl who I started quite young (16) -
the first time she sucked me she insisted on a condom - two years latter she was gulping it down and asking for more