Alright I feel I'm just askin for a verbal abuse but what the hell, might as well ask here. Take into consideration that I'm only fourteen so I can take your verbal abuse, but I'm a real dumbass, so just keep that in mind.

Well, there's a chick from another skool, but it's not just that she's from another school, she goes to my old middle skool, while I'm a freshman right now. All my friends say it's not right, and that it'd be fucked up, but she is like obsessed with me, and I wanna go out with her. She's only a month younger than me, but she's from my middle skool and she's got a boyfriend. I dunno if she's jackin me around or what but she says that whenever i'm with her she like loves me more than her bf and shit like that. I just don't know what to do, cuz all my friends say it's a stupid thing to do but I don't give a shit as to what they say about it. I figured me, the dumbass, could get a bit of help from you old people, so what the hell do i do?

The hell? Shes got a boyfriend, yet shes flirting with you. Somethings up with that, be wary. slightly off, but what is the australian equivalent of a freshman?

The Austrailian equivilant of a freshman is a 9th grader, and she's an 8th grader, there's a skool change between those two. Oh, and she's been flirtin wit me like that since her last bf, and i've made out wit her a few times, so who knows. chicks, ya know?

Seriously man, relationships are fucked up like that. If she's willing to go out with you and break up with her b/f (that is, if she would), what will stop her from dumping you and getting someone else.

If you are willing to take the chance, ask her. If not, don't. Simple as that.

What school are you from? Sounds similar to a situation one of my friends is in....

Wheaton North High School

love.....

*smirks coldly and laughs sarcsaticly*

haha yeah. These 14 year olds shouldn't even be thinking about "love" yet. It's lust I tell you, lust! Plus the hormones are starting to kick in.

Ah you're probably right on the lust my friend, considering she's quite a temptress, but the hormones started up about two years ago.

Of course, there's nothing wrong with lust, as long as you remember that's what it is.

Thats exactly my point Spiffy. Half(maybe more) of the time these kids are going oh I love her oh she loves me etc etc.

It is lust, lol, Love hasn't happened yet, prolly won't for a while but it don't hurt to get some action from a chick at my age, just chicks are all about love and melodrama now.

I talked to a girl about this once. She refers to it as the dating game. Your supposed to (from her mouth, not mine) tell people you like them if you do, even if one of you is going out, possibly flirt with them if you have a chance of having them, and then when one of you break up, or if neither of you are dating, then you go out. There is no garuntee that they will stay with you. But if they leave you, and you go with someone else, they can't have you back.
...or something like that

As for middle school...if your in 9th and she's in 8th...well as long as she's hot and mature enough (mentally as well as physically) then sure, why not? It's not like there's gonna be much of a difference when she's a freshman and your a sophmore, because you'll be looking for cute freshman girls anyway that you could go out with, or at least get to know. It's when your in 11th grade with the ability to go out with a decent girl your age, and yet you're going out with a fat, ugly 7th grader that's the problem. Never do that.

Edit: Especially if it's a "feeder" school. She's more than likely going to your school next year. And you probably should know people in her grade. No problem man, just as long as she's worth it. If you have around the same chance of getting someone just as good your age though, I would think harder on it.

[This message has been edited by Mista Piccolo (edited 09-27-2002).]

who ever said that hormones are just starting to kick in when you are fourteen is wrong. I remember when i was 11 or 12 the hormones were flying and all i could think about was girls. and about dating this girl just go for it there is nothing you can lose. if you both go to diffrent schools then you won't have to deal with the daily humilliation(sp?) from your peers. your 14 if you go out with her it doesn't mean anything. it is not like you are going to marry her. all i can say is to take the chance.

Besides, when your 14, your cock is too small. Your girl wont like it .

not nescisseraly (!spelling)

Yeah, it might be small compared to you guys', but that's cuz it stops growin at about 15-16, but it ain't too small for the chicks my age.

The whole age/going to another school thing is completly inconcequential (read: doesn't matter).

The boyfriend is another issue altogether. If she likes you so much, she should be willing to dump his ass. If not, don't waste your time.