Well there is this girl Elaine and she lives next to me. I used to go out with her and i was the first to make out wit her but then i dumped her because i was being a jackass. Now were in high school and shes pretty experienced and im normal (just handjobs and fingering) but since were in high school she has a lot of friends that are popular and that think theyre too cool for me just cuz theyre jocks and im a biker. Well since were still friends i go over her house with some friends sometimes and shelike lays on me and (i think) flirts wit me. When im around my friends she comes up and hugs me and says youre so cool, but when shes around her friends i come up to say hi and shes like umm.... hi! like she hugs all her ex's but she talks to me and always hugs me and the occasional kisses on the cheek. is this just friendship or is this flirting? cuz i like her and am thinking of asking her out and am confident enough but im afraid what her friends would say to me or her and make her dump me, so please tell me if this sounds like flirting? sorry for the long letter!

If she lets her freinds tell her what to do she's not worth it anyway. And the worst that's gonna happen is that she wouldn't go out with you.

yeh but ill feel like a jackass and her jockish friends will come up and be like you got rejected and if i do then we wont be such friends anymore! they think theyre all cool wit theyre nextels just cuz theyre daddies drive bmw's but i mean she is hott and ive known her pretty good for 6 years and she gave my friend her first handjobs!

If she's so uncomfortable around you when her friends are there, then I hope you've got some sort of plan for getting her to only hang out with yours. Otherwise, you're gonna have mad friction to deal with (outside of the handjobs).

All that, but just ask her if you're unlcear. People can be amazingly reasonable when you ask them questions. In this case, she'll feel in the wrong for leading you on or not leading you on enough.

This is an easy situation. Ask.

Or ram your tounge down her face.

Well, peer pressure is the #1 factor in adolescent decision making. So having her friends not like you will probably have an effect on her opinion of you. Of course, if she is that nice around you, she either wants some cock or she genuinly thinks you are the shit.

My advice to you would be just to talk to her when you two are alone. Of course, if she gets around that much.... she may be too far along to be considered dating material (think about it). If that's the case, you might get a handjob out of it.

But seriously, just ask her damnit. That's all you have to do.