ok here is how it goes each time i have had sex with my girlfriend she always gets off before me and then i she wants to stop and i never get to get off so what am i supposed to do??

Is she capable of multiple orgasms? If you're not sure, ask. If she's not sure (perhaps because she's never tried), see if she'll be willing to give it a whirl.

Worst case- she's not at all- only thing I can suggest is to hone your technique, if you're determined to get off during sex. Otherwise, if she's constantly getting off and losing her desire before you, it'd be nice if she would give you a hand (literally or figuratively). If she won't, that's definitely not cool- both people should enjoy themselves, not just the guy, not just the girl. Lack of an acceptable middle ground will prove fatal to most any relationship.

Beat the meat, I believe this is going to become a "How many different words can we come up for masturbate" thread. lol

Better then you being a one pump chump

She could also just be humouring you.

can you go on after you got off?

That's a rather personal question.

more a rhetorical one.

So everyone knows I can go after I get off?

You could probably, too. It's just a matter of Will.

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Originally posted by BSK:
can [b]you go on after you got off?[/B]

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I can. Up until I finish again.

Ah, yes. The "Third Tourment." I cannot guide you. I won't guide you.

dont complain so much, at least your making HER happy. your probably taking so long not because your such a sex god, but because your too nervous and your not into it. just try different positions and be more mentally into it and if you cant orgasm with her than just have her suck your dick or else jack off afterwards.

Tell her to open them jaws, suck on them cannonballs, and after that it's down the chimney with Santa Claus.

If she won't give you head after she gets of and your still left hanging, then she is being pretty damn selfish, arrogant, and inconsiderate.

I've pleasured women and not myself. I'm a giver. A lover in the truest sense. Sexual release, while important, is not abosolute. The male idea of sex is of penetration and ejaculation. Somehow most men miss the whole foreplay in the confusion.

Sex isn't an act.

YOU MY FREIND ARE LUCKY, JUST TELL HER TO BLOW U TIL U CUM.

only if i could have her blow me till i cum but she wont she thinks its grose but yet i still go down on her i could always be an asshole and tell her that i wont go down on her until she goes down on me but im not that mean and the whol thing of trying different positions i would but she wont and i dont know why

then stop having sex with the bitch, you're not getting anything out of this. If she won't give you head and won't let you finish, tell her to fuck off and show her the door.

I'm going with Chem on this one. The lot of you are assholes.

Malaria, come back when your girlfriend never gets you off and won't finish the job.

You don't always have to get off, you can just please the partner sometimes. But for the most part, sex is like a Chinese dinner. It isn't over till' both of you get your cookie.

If you consider sex an act, yes. It must start and finish. Maybe if you lived it instead of playing in it, you'd have better luck.

Life is lived, you can't "live" an action.

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Originally posted by Z3m:
You could probably, too. It's just a matter of Will.

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this wasn�t directed at you, hey! I can go on, only when I�m using a condom I have to make a little break.

I still dont belive your over 12 let alone have a gf to fuck because of those idoitic posts about hacking, and giving us all your personal number, your dad's sell, asking stupit shit about hacking then giving us your AOL e-mail.....pffff......I find this post mindless because he just wants us think he's cool or something and thats pretty fucked if it was true and his GF got off before him, how long does it take her anyways? are you sure he's not hiding a dildo in there while you do it?

-Chibi

-BAH!

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Originally posted by Dark_Magneto:
[b]Life is lived, you can't "live" an action.[/B]

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Thank you for restating my point. WTF?

At least you can get her off. That's more than a lot of guys can do, despite their best efforts.

I'm sad.