Hi i'm an inexperienced male, and I've gone on a few dates with a girl i like. I'm shy and we havnt really moved forward or anything(no kiss yet). Anyone have any general advice? I dont want her to think I just want to be her friend.

Thanks!

Don't be too much of a pussy.

Don't be too much of an asshole.

Unless this girl is like the "preacher's daughter", ie. all weird about so much as kissing, you'll probably be getting to that point real soon. But that's about all I can tell you without getting into this long exposition about signals and feel and a bunch of other shit that probably won't make any sense anyway until you see it for yourself. As long as you follow one simple guideline- don't force it- you should be fine.

Unless you're clueless. That'll probably require a good bit of fucking up before you learn what to do.

Get real close, wait for a lull in the conversation, ram you tounge in her eye.

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Originally posted by Z3m:
Get real close, wait for a lull in the conversation, ram you tounge in her eye.

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...I promised myself never to take your advise again........

-Chibi

-[Insert funny remark here]

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Originally posted by Spiffy McBang:
Don't be too much of a pussy.

Don't be too much of an asshole.

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what about being yourself ...

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Originally posted by Z3m:
Get real close, wait for a lull in the conversation, ram you tounge in her eye.

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Her eye??? I say go for her mouth with your tongue. You won't get nearly as many stares with that approach. Nibble on her nose too. Nibble everywhere you can. EAT!

Oh. Just go with the previous advice. Don't be an ass. Be yourself as much as possible (as long as being yourself isn't being an ass). Make sure she knows the real you and that you know the real her.

[This message has been edited by xenosss (edited 07-24-2002).]

"[She] puts the lotion on her skin, [or] else she gets the hose again"
(That was Buffalo-Bill, right?)

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Originally posted by BSK:
what about being yourself ...

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I'm assuming he wants to get somewhere with this girl. If his natural state of being is extreme pussy or extreme asshole, nothing I say is gonna affect that much- he might fake it for a date or two, but it's not gonna hold up- but chances are there's probably some part of him that sits in the middle.

Besides, if all else fails, he can listen to Z3m.

"be yourself"

An oldie but goldie. it never fails.

Depending on whether your in it for short or long term, try to be friends first.

that always fails for me. maybe just because im a cynical and hatefull skater geek, but who knows really?