This is my first post so i'm a little shy I'm wondering if anyone could give me advice on finding a boyfriend. I've been trying, and have recieved several serious ass kickings (damn homophobic bastards!). Well does anyone have any pointers for me? I've only just "come out of the closet" so i don't really have very much experience.

Thanks in advance,
The Tooth Fairy

There's a dude that posts on here called 'Spirit of '22'. He might be able to help you. Tell him I sent you.

Ass kickings? idiots.

My only advice, being not gay myself, is to only approach a guy about it if you're absolutely sure. We have a few gay/bisexual guys at my school and it's really nota problem if they're open about it, I just ask that they realize that it's not for me. I know a lot of straight guys who just aren't secure enough in their manhood to take being asked out by a guy in stride. In short, look for guys who are open about it, don't bet that someone is, and end up alienating yourself.

On the other hand, I really haven't had time to devote significant time to thought on my position for this matter....

are you in my dreams tooth fairy? wow----haha--

Well...when a guy wants a woman, he goes somewhere he knows women will be, especially single and receptive ones. They dont have places like that for homos?

If your looking for a boyfriend, the sexier you make yourself look (and dont say your not sexy, EVERYONE HAS SOME SEX APPEAL). But then they would be goign for looks.

I'd suggest finding a guy who likes you, then simply telling him, and tell him he should ask you out sometime.

Stop trying.

Seriously dude, you're in a bad position. I'm guessing the ass-kickings opened your eyes to that a little bit, but you got two basic choices:

1. Go where other gay people are.
2. Be patient as hell.

Not being gay, I don't have firsthand experience with it, but the gay guys I know (girls have much less trouble) by and large wind up hanging out at gay bars just to make some friends, then take it from there. If you're not hold enough to hit the clubs, save yourself the pain and wait for someone to come along.

I agree with Spiffy.

Stop trying - it'll only make you look desperate, and somehow I doubt that's the effect you're looking for. It's not the sexiest thing in the world either.

My advice to you is to sit back, relax and let love come to you. Pushing love will only end up hurting you. Would you rather wait a while for the real thing and be happy with your single self, or stampede the homosexual battleground, heart in hand, resulting in TWO people being emotionally wounded? I can tell you what I'd rather do... Except not the homosexual bit. You know what I mean.

Patience is a virtue.

Good luck,
Poison.

OH SHIT!

Hes gay? My bad...sorry dude.