Well my boyfriend and I made this little game where we make little bets on different little things and then who ever wins gets a free sexual favor or fantsy...


Well he is finally cashing in all his fantsy for something I never thought about doing, or really had any interests in...but he wants me to have anal sex with him....


It seems really disgusting, but at the same time I am really up to trying new things and of course pleasing him....


So here is my question basically, for anyone who has had anal sex, what is the best way to do it and still remain "clean"? for a lack of better words. Does it hurt or feel really good? Is there any certain things we or I should do to perpair for this little experience?


Thank you to all who respond....In serious need of some help....

Go slow.

Use lube.

And do not let him forget that he's going in the out door. It's much easier for that to slip your mind when you're not the one whose ass has to take it.

shove a dildo up him first then he will know how it feels and he will be slow and use lotsa lube

anal sex can feel really good for a girl, or really bad..........but one thing you have to remember is too use lube!!! no matter what, if you want this to feel good you have to use lots of lubricant.....your asshole doesn't make natural lubricant like your pussy does.
Also, make sure you take a shit, 1-2 hours before hand....and make sure you eat healthy foods for a few days....I'm talking about like lots of vegetables, and in particular celery. I'm just saying this so all your shit sticks together in one big clump and there won't be much inside of your asshole.
Before having anal sex, have a shower and wash your asshole really good to get as much bacteria out of there as you can. Then after anal sex, you should adivise your boyfriend to clean himself.
You may or may not decide to use a condom. It's perfectly safe if you use all these precautions, and don't have aids or hepatitis. Just remember that your boyfriend has to clean himself after.
Oh and you won't have to worry about getting pregnent either!
This will probably feel better for you then vaginal sex, but of course, you need to stimulate your clit while he does this. Also tell him to go slow at first, and see how far up you ass he can go, but for the testing go slow at first, and if it can go all the way in without any pain, then let him do whatever he likes to, it shouldn't hurt you. I think that's about it. Have fun!

To Ms. original poster: I hope, after you have finished reading SNIPAH's narrative description that you will just ask your boyfriend to select a different sexual favor as his prize for winning!! With so many other options, why would you want to give him that one? The fact that all the creative forces of nature, over thousands of years, have given that opening no natural lubrication--but a lot of bacteria instead-- would tell anyone smarter than a door that it wasn't designed for sexual penetration. Also telling is the fact (per SNIPAH)that you need to diet for days before the grand experience, poop (or do an enema) before the "excitement" is to begin, clean the opening really good before (and after) (guess what you will be "cleaning"). All of this is per SNIPAH--an obvious supporter of that primitive act!!! And what wasn't mentioned was that once you let your BF into that "door", THAT ENDS THE OPTIONS FOR BOTH OF YOU. You definitely can't entertain him orally or vaginally after he has been in there!!! My advice is to LET HIM FLY YOU TO THE MOON, BUT DON'T LET HIM GO IN THERE!!! But if you do, I agree with SNIPAH'S advice to be sure you tell him to wash his d__k off afterwards. Of course, if he has to be told to do that, then BOTH he and you are as stupid as a door!! Love, Venus.

who is the one to receive?

I've had anal. I don't mind it, its not my favorite thing though. To stay clean tho, just make sure he doesn't try to fuck you normal after he fucks you in the ass, cuz thats not very healthy, you can get herpes that way. Use KY Jelly, or lubricant,whatever. And yes, go slow.

Unless my learning has been incredibly off-track all these years, I do believe the only way one can get herpes is if the person their fucking has it already. In that case, it doesn't particularly matter what orifices are used. But you're not going to spontaneously generate herpes due to the order of where the penis goes.

yer correct spiff, the reason not to go ass vagina is due to bacterial infection, not herpes.. Herpes is a virus, and as such can only be passed on, not spontaneously generated.

Yes true.

lol. That was funny Spiffy. Out of interst... how long have you been a moderator here ? (Obviously since you came back... but.. how long ago ?)

I seem to remember every one having a discussion along the lines of "why doesn't spiffy have moderator status ?" a while back... well done. Been a long time coming but you definitly deserve it.

Er.. a week? Maybe less.

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Originally posted by pretty pinay:
To Ms. original poster: I hope, after you have finished reading SNIPAH's narrative description that you will just ask your boyfriend to select a different sexual favor as his prize for winning!! With so many other options, why would you want to give him that one?

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Well, to begin with the idea of letting someone pick a sexual favor is that they get to pick, not what you want to give. apples & oranges

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The fact that all the creative forces of nature, over thousands of years, have given that opening no natural lubrication--but a lot of bacteria instead-- would tell anyone smarter than a door that it wasn't designed for sexual penetration.

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You just lost a whole lot of respect from me [as if you care].

I guess I should have expected such from a youngster.

First, technically, only the vagina is designed for sexual penetration.

Anything/place else is a matter of preference/choice/experimentation/etc.

Given that, the discussion of sex using anything but the penis & vagina is a discussion of peoples opinions of what they like & don't like as far as gratification goes [or something like that].

Thus your statement about 'smarter than a door' is nothing more than an insult towards anyone who doesn't agree with you, which has no real place in an adult discussion. Though, I admit, I've seen much worse here.

Just as much negativity could be used against oral sex [i.e.: "Put your mouth where someone urinates? Ug!"].
Anal is just as much an option for anyone with an open mind [even if it's not for you, you still should be open minded towards others likes/dislikes. How else can you expect yours to be respected?

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Also telling is the fact (per SNIPAH)that you need to diet for days before the grand experience, poop (or do an enema) before the "excitement" is to begin, clean the opening really good before (and after) (guess what you will be "cleaning").

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It's not really even necessary. My ex & I never went through 'preparation processes' and we never had any problems BTW, she requested anal almost on an equal par with me, so don't even think it].

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All of this is per SNIPAH--an obvious supporter of that primitive act!!! And what wasn't mentioned was that once you let your BF into that "door", THAT ENDS THE OPTIONS FOR BOTH OF YOU. You definitely can't entertain him orally or vaginally after he has been in there!!! My advice is to LET HIM FLY YOU TO THE MOON, BUT DON'T LET HIM GO IN THERE!!! But if you do, I agree with SNIPAH'S advice to be sure you tell him to wash his d__k off afterwards. Of course, if he has to be told to do that, then BOTH he and you are as stupid as a door!! Love, Venus.

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Uh, a condom would negate that whole problem.

Again, you found a need to insult. Just because you don't find it an option doesn't mean those who do deserve your contempt.

Grow up, get a little more experience in life.

[And, yes you are a youngster, to me]

Hi, Reverand Robb: Thank you for your thoughtful comments about mine. I DO respect everyone's opinion and freedom of choice, but the original poster asked about each of our views, so I just gave mine. And I am not a "youngster". I am almost 23, and (OMG) PLEASE BELIEVE ME, I don't need any more experience!! But I especially want to apologize about the "dumb as a door" words. They were wrong. They definitely do not apply to you. Thanks again. Love, Venus.

i dont know..i heard the herpes thing somewhere? or maybe i read it in a magazine? i dont know, just ignore that part then.

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Originally posted by pretty pinay:
I am not a "youngster". I am almost 23.

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Actually, I knew that.

But to a 38 year old, 23 is a youngster

Do it. You'll make him a very happy man.

yeah, i think you should do it too. Anal sex is just pure pleasure for a guy. Besides, if you use lube and everything, it won't hurt you at all. Also, what's wrong with a clean dick inside your ass? The risk is on him for infection, not you.

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Originally posted by snipah:
yeah, i think you should do it too. Anal sex is just pure pleasure for a guy.

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My [ex]wife would beg to differ.

why would your ex wife disagree with that statement, it was about pleasure for a GUY. wouldnt you have to be the one to disagree.

Wives think for you stupid

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Originally posted by Jacross:
why would your ex wife disagree with that statement, it was about pleasure for a GUY. wouldnt you have to be the one to disagree.

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Actually, I read it wrong; I read it as saying "Anal sex is pure pleasure just for the guy." Thus my statment.

My bad. What can I say? I'm dyslexic.

im a older m/ id say dont all the 18s l say go for it they wish they could n if they have they have no respect for the girl listen to honist responses n see

uh, no it is not degrading to the girl just because she decides to have anal sex.....if she decides that she will let her boyfriend have anal sex then let her......a guy obviously not have anal sex if her partner has not agreed on it.....but as long as both sides are okay with it, it's okay.....and by the way, it's actually more harmful to the guy to have anal sex then the girl. Think about it, the guys's dick is generally clean, compared to an asshole, which is filled with uncleanable bacteria and crap.....so the hazard is more towards the guy, but generally, it is worth it for the pleasure recieved.....as long as he remembers to clean afterwards he should be fine

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maybe you should invest in lots and lots and lots of squidgy slimey vaselineage.
or maybe, he is gay.