So, my boyfriend and I this past weekend got really close... if ya know what i mean, and just went, lets fuck waiting.. and well... fuck! We've talked about sex before, and had previously said that yea, we are going to lose our viginity to each other, but when we are married or something in the future... well, lust took over our reasoning, after him being tied up of course... but once he was untied and got the condom on, and he tried to go in... he couldn't. Well, no... i hurt so much i was crying in pain... crying out screaming and crying, and he was only in 1/2 inch...

How will i be able to overcome this? we are going to wait a little more, prolly until after 6 months... its 4 months right now... (mostly because he's at college right now)
but it hurt so much... and its getting me nerous as to whether i will just have to live with it and deal, do something so it won't hurt, or just take like 2 vikadin's or something and be drugged out so it doesn't hurt....

Any thoughts, ideas, comments????

it will hurt for awhile after the first few times you have sex, but if you can't even get it in you should probably just masterubate a whole hell of a lot just to get you used to things... thats what I would do but I can't say I've actually had that problem so I'm not sure.

Um, well I never had sex before. But I am assuming that'll hurt the first time, because it's a whole new feeling and such. But you should do lots of foreplay before. Get him to prep you up. So your nice and wet. That way it'll slide in easier. And try and relax, because as well all know the vagina is a muscle. And if you tense up, it'll hurt more! Good luck

Tell the guy to eat you out before you fuck him, so you cum and it should be a bit easier

Yeah, he shoulda thought about that already anyway. You sure you wanna marry this dude now? LoL

New problem then.... He had eaten me out already, and it was still too paintful... (i see that i didn't mention it...) Now what? i feel like a hopeless case... Maybe i should just drug myself out with painkillers and go for it (connect 4? hmm... guess i'm the only one who remembers that game...)

the first time hurts a bit right at the start, just grit yer teeth and bear it, the pain will recede rather rapidly after the first part, I promise..

Masterbate more. Or get him to finger you more just to loosen you up. Stick 2 fingers up there, and if that feels nice and good. Try 3. Use three til you feel you can stick 4 up. Then use four. Or, if you have a dildo use that. Basically, you just need to be more looser, and that should take some more pain away.

Are you shure it's the right hole?
You never know, this dude might be pokin in the wrong place .

quite sure...

hhhmmmmm,

try using vaseline! for extra pleasure mix vaseline with cocaine, the your cunt should be up in heaven afther that. Works always with my girlfriend.

Vaseline will break down the fibers of the condom, its something to do with its base element... And I'm not into hard drugs or anything...

I guess I should mention we were using extra lubricant, because the condom didn't really feel lubricated to me... so, yea, we were using this lubricant body oil... tastes like wild strawberries.. i reccoment it as a massage oil... but yea

well in that case do alot of forplay. thats all the advice i can give you. (are you 100% positivley sure it's the right hole )

110%

huhuh,

seriously, you shoud try that thing with the cocain. it isn't really doing drugs. it's just fun (we don't snort cocain either). i bet about 80% of married couples use cocaine, at least the ones who can afford it. and besides it probably won't hurt with the cocaine anymore.

[This message has been edited by XeNobiTe (edited 04-02-2002).]

Why, what's so special about cocaine? I never heard of people using it for sex

Cant say that i have either...

Anyways, its gonna hurt the first few times. It always hurts the first few times. However, I have heard of a medical condition where the hymen is unusually tough, and requires a visit to the doctor's office for a quick cut. Dont do the painkiller thing though. Sex should be fun not a chore

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Originally posted by Spirit of '22:
Yeah, he shoulda thought about that already anyway. You sure you wanna marry this dude now? LoL

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ok .. yeah .. they're BOTH virgins .. he prolly doesnt know much about all this .. give the lil man a break


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The problem is problably that you are both virgins and have a very little clue to what is going on.

And waiting in between times you try to have sex is a bad idea what you need to try to do is just grin and bear it as much as you can and then quit for awhiel maybe even a day but keep trying to do it when you stop feeling sore and eventualy it will happen.
If you wait long periods of time inbetween your muscles tighten up and it will be painful again possibly more painful if you haven't sealed the deal.

Maybe he has an unusually large cock...15 inches long and twice as fat...

In that case, i suggest you cut off his pecker..give it a little trim with a chainsaw, until it will glide in painfree (for you, at least).