OK, OK im not a stupid fuck, i can pcik up chicks and freak them in a night or a weekend, but id like sum tips on flirting anyway, anyone got any? and some opinions from the chicks over there! speciely the ones that i get, he hee,...

Ms. Jillson's "Ways to be a Great Flirt":


Use flattery
Say "Hello" with energy
Shake hands (depending on circumstances)
Make immediate, direct eye contact
Repeat the person's name
Ask "no one ever asked me that before!" questions
Ask for your new friend's life story
Have something to say by keeping up-to-date
Play with a piece of clothing (i.e. dangling your shoe, playing with an earring, stirring a drink, adjusting your hair, etc.)
Whisper
"Help someone get out of an old routine, and into a new one" (i.e. introduce them to some new activity or form of art or whatever)
"Leave them wanting more"
"Create and use nicknames"
"Drop Names" (i.e. show your connections to other people in your flirting partner's community)
"Wear, bring, or carry something unusual"
Limit the amount of time you flirt (to take the pressure off yourself if you haven't yet gotten to the point where flirting is just fun)
Set a numerical goal (i.e. "I will flirt with four people tonight, for my own good...")
Ms. Jillson's "5 Don'ts of Flirting":

Don't depend on others to make things happen
Don't tease (i.e. offering more than you intend to give)
Don't cling
Don't dwell on your performance
Don't fidget

She also recommends, when appropriate, (1) subtly mimicing the other person's gestures and (2) smiling.
Appropriate use of touch was discussed at length (psychological studies show that casual touching during a friendly conversation causes people to remember the conversation more fondly after the fact). Ms. Jillson mentioned brushing lint off someone's jacket, touching someone's hand as punctuation to making a point in the conversation, etc. "Accidental touch" (i.e. reaching for the saltshaker at the same time) was also mentioned favorably.

Ms. Jillson also had some gender-role specific advice. Here are a few examples: "Women are less likely to engage in conversation with a man sitting by himself if he is smoking; the [male] flirt who can sit still and do nothing - neither drink, smoke, nor fidget - is most likely to find someone cozying up to him" and "For women, hair is one of the great flirting props; playing with hair, not combing it, but pushing it, shaking it, twisting it are very sexy come-ons" and "As for makeup, women should chuck most of it (with the possible exception of mascara)."

Here's what Ms. Jillson has to say about eye contact: "While staring or holding a gaze a second longer than usual will succeed in attracting notice, so will other subtle and more tasteful eye contact; try this: Throw a glance to a person, and then, as soon as your flirting partner turns to meet your gaze, immediately lower your eyes. This is very effective for both men and women." She also says, "Another technique that successful male flirts use is the darting eye. Women have less luck with this because it is a bit aggressive and somehow has masculine connotations. Take a quick look at a woman once; then return your eyes to their normal position; take a second look, held much longer; and then a third look where you turn your head in her direction but do not direct your eyes at her. The third move makes you appear less intrusive, but still confronts her in a manageable way."

do any chicks have any responces?

White trash doesnt count, you know who you are

I love it when guys open up and talk about stuff thats really important to them or has affected them...like maybe thier child hood or why their parents want them to go to college so bad... The worst thing a guy can do is lie...i hate being lied to

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Originally posted by DieselGirly:
I love it when guys open up and talk about stuff thats really important to them or has affected them...like maybe thier child hood or why their parents want them to go to college so bad... The worst thing a guy can do is lie...i hate being lied to

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That'll change when you find out how boring most guys who do this really are.

Tips on flirting??

1. Smile, laugh and touch him as much as possible
2. Make up a cool nickname and use it all the time
3. Be yourself
4. Get along with others well, but let him know HE'S the one you're after
5. Stare at him from across the room and when he stares back, look away or smile shyly
6. Talk, be honest
7. Go out and just have fun
8. Be spontaneous, impulsive
9. Don't wear too much make-up or skimpy clothes
10. Don't hide your habits, eg. smoking, playing with things, speaking a certain way... Some guys find them adorable.

YAY!! I think most of those have been said but I was just confirming.

Tasty fish... Tasty fish... Poison Fish!!!

acually sometimes you should quit your habits, like smoking, its a real turn off, exept smoking weed, that depends on the person... some people are cool with it , others are bitchy about it. its a fine line

toeney you have just said something unusually educational and true. That is a rare thing in these boards. I'm so impressed with what you've said i'm gonna Copy Paste it onto my web site. It'll be there by the end of the week. PoisonFishGirl your contribution was good too. That'll be included too.

Everyone's been unusually inteligent in this post

Chris

I gotta update my web site and get rid of the shitty comet cursor thing so don't have a go at me cause of it
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*pats self on back*

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Originally posted by AcidTrooper:
acually sometimes you should quit your habits, like smoking, its a real turn off, exept smoking weed, that depends on the person... some people are cool with it , others are bitchy about it. its a fine line

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Yeh but if that person doesn't like your habits, then they probably won't go for you. You shouldn't quit something you enjoy because someone doesn't like it. And if you hide those habits, then are you really being you?? When do you let the person know that you have those habits? If you have a future together, when is the right time to admit you've been hiding the truth?

Tasty fish... Tasty fish... Poison Fish!!!

[QUOTE]Originally posted by PoisonFishGirl:

1. Smile, laugh and touch him as much as possible

touch him as much as possible, that I like, some agressive female action.

It also helps to not be ugly.

E, it also helps being a pimp.. like me he he