Is it considered cheating, or is it even wrong to be "seeing" not "going out". Is that rite, is there anything wrong with that except the fact that it makes every guy you know hate you cuz you get more than the average guy?
Because I (no lie) am seeing 4 girls rite now... 2 which whom i work with, and 2 whom I'v met through girls. they all like me, and I like all of them, but I obveosly dont want to settle down just yet, eventually one will be picked, and the rest dropped off.
BUT!!!!.... none of these girls know about each other, all they know is that I like them... and I did tell 2 that I didnt want to go out... so if they all eventually find out, or some.. about each other, do they have a rite to be mad?

[This message has been edited by Laflyer11 (edited 03-04-2002).]

Damn rights. What do you think you would do if you found out the woman that you liked was seeing four other guys? They'll catch you...

Yes laflayer you need to let them know otherwise you are are a cheating bastard. I'm seeing someone right now, yet I'm also looking for more, that's just the way this type of non-relationship works, all parties must be informed. Unless you like being a slimy sneaking around cunt that cheats on his nice lady friends, right guy?

[This message has been edited by tryptamine (edited 03-04-2002).]

Yeah, noone likes to know they're not your only concern.. better if you have that sort of arrangement (non-exclusivity) sorted out before if you're gonna do that..

Mind you, I don't get that.. the people I wanna be with are the ones I love, and I can only love one person at once.. if I don't love them, then there's no point in looking for a relationship, only thing I'd do is have a one night/multiple night stand with them.... relationships are for love, not just sex.. imo.

Fuck man, and i thought i was a casanova...(sarcasm).

Er, i think you already know the answer to your question, considering you said "they don't know about each other".

It's not cheating as such, it's just called screwing around. Nothing to be proud of, son. Just pick the girl with the biggest breasts.

Sorted.

If you haven't already talked to them and figured out that it's cool on both sides to be seeing other people, do it. It's the right thing to do, which is hopefully enough reason. It'll help keep them from potentially being infuriated with you (bad in and of itself, extremely bad if they find out numbers and team up with one, two, or all three of the others to make your life hell).

And, if those two together aren't enough, consider.. maybe you'll get lucky beyond belief and a couple of them might be curious about the others.

Oh yeah, didja get the book o Muted One?

ooh yeah, forgot to email you, got it, finished it already will be mailing it back in the next couple days.. v good, although not as edgy as his other stuff, imo

Was the book at all pornographic?

uhh, there's some sex in it I think..

There was a hooker, so I'm assuming there was sex, but I can't remember.. it might've only been flashback sex.