there is this girl i really like. there are is a problems one she is in year nine and im in year ten, in other words im 15(just) and she's nearly 14. what do i do? she doesnt act 14 (more like 16) and i like her but im scared that she's too young.

also i want to ask her ot but dont know what to do. any hints?

Ask her out, but stick to hand holding and kissing. Don't get anywhere near sex, and other than that things should be ok.. Have yourselves a nice boyfriend girlfriend relationship.. I bet she'll say yes.. (when you're in highschool it's always so much cooler to have an older boyfriend)

Ask her, dumbass!

It's only one school year, that's nothing really. There's about an 11 yr gap between my parents, and they've been together over 20 years.

I used to be going out with someone in yr10, and I am in lower sixth. That's a very rare occurrence tho, wudn't happen again, but some ppl look & act a lot older than they really are. Plus, if you think about it, she was 14, I was 16. Two years? Nothin.

Go ask her.

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I totally agree ... go for it dude! 2 years isnt a hole lot there were 4 years between me and my ex. S"all good .. if any of your friends say anything tell em to bugger off!

goockluck!

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yeah it's just a year sheesh go for it my girl friend is 15 and i'm 16 being older is a good thing ask her! ask her! ask her! ask her!

I tend to go for someone older, but yeah, why not? What harm could it do?

my bf and i are like 3 years apart its no big deal

Go for it son, shes only a year younger. Thats not nothing. Most teens go for a 2-3 year rule, which if very normal. One year is out of the question, go for it, if you dont go for anyone younger you will miss out on alot of hot ass girls, trust me-you will.
Now get some balls and ask her, the most she can say is no, and if she likes you you shouldnt have to worry about that. And just remeber, if she does say no-all girls like to be asked, so you dont have to feel like an ass later-Just keep all that in mind and youll be fine.

JUST GO OUT WITH HER CHILD!!!

Ps- Worst thing in the world - being cracked onto by a 70-something year old man. Your friend's grandfather. Making jokes about "if you don't look after her, I will!!", and other assorted comments regarding me being his "bed warmer". Eugh. Shudder.

A year is nothing.

Yeah, Poison is a year and a half older than me.

When i was 14 i went out with a 17 year old. She was almost 18 actually. That was a very strange relationship...i wouldn't recommend it to anyone.

I reckon you should go for it. As long as she's fine though...if she was ugly then that'd be a totally different matter/

(only joking).

Ill get a lot of stick for admiting this... butim 15 and when i was 14 i had a bit of a thing going with a 31 year old... thats 17 years!!!!

Anyway... when i was in year 9, ALL my friends and i mean ALL were going out with year 10/11/12+ guys.

I would never go out with soemone my own age or younger..... girls like older guys because girls mature quicker!

theres no way she is too young.

When I was 17 I dated a 40 year old, so who gives a shit?

Actually Winter, i give a shit.

and hannahmason, at 14 with a 31 year old (or whatever)??? Man, that's NOT FUCKING COOL. did you screw? did he slide his wrinkled, stinky, experienced pork into your dripping, tight, 14 year old snatch? (just trying to make it sound as revolting as poss...)

I think there's only so old/young you should go. It's not fucking cool if my (hypothetical) 16 year old daughter was messin around with a 78 year old. or whatever.

Mind you...i've had a few fantasies about much older women. That was probably when i was about 10, and they were my teachers. (seriously though, my teachers were FINE ...oh yeah...

[This message has been edited by Mojo Pin (edited 03-05-2002).]

Ask her out!!Age doesnt matter.when i was 17 i was dating a 27 year old.it doesnt really matter what anyone thinks,as long as go for what you want.


peace

WHY do you give a shit?.. at 17 I was doin what I wanted to, so who the hell cares?

eeeeeeeww jeebus guys in another post your saying how male bodys are not that nice to look at YET you go out with old farts who i might add look 10 times worse then any nude teen male......


dude i tells ya! ask her out it's only 2 years! it's not like these freaks that date people two times their age....

uhh, where'd I say I didn't like looking at guys?

Besides, that was a long time ago.. and just because a guy is 40 doesn't mean he's not hot..

meh

HELLA ask her, chicks like older guys, my freind is (15) is dating a 19 year old FUCK!