i'm still a virgin, (i'm 15)and part of the reason i am still one, is because i'm afraid i will really suck at it and then whoever the guy is will tell all of his friends how bad i was. Any pointers to help a scared- shitless girl out?

ok,
Hopefully, when you do decide to loose your virginity it will be with someone who cares about your feelings and is understanding. If they are a virgin as well then you will both probably be worried about how it is going to go, and each about their own performance. If you are with someone who is a bit more experienced than yourself, they will probably be mostly worried about making sure your first time enjoyable. But, bottom line is don't do it until you are ready and believe me, you will know when the time is right and hopefully things will just fall into place. No pun intended

Don't do it until you want to.

With most guys out in the world, it's doubtful you'll find one that will be able and willing to make your first time very enjoyable.

i wont talk just email me

seriously i dont think any guy your age gives a shit how good you are (i sure dont at this point). dont worry just have fun. the guy has more to worry about like premature ejacualtion. if it sucked and your done just relax and let im finish, i assure you he wont be disapointed.

just relax. guys like me only want to please, and he will go slow at first and make sure you are comfortable. the best reward that you can give a man is letting him know that you are enjoying it. that's all guys usually care about, at least me. i'm constanly making sure that i'm not doing anything wrong. But don't do it just because you're sick of being a virgin, do it with someone special; that you care about. Don't do it with nobody and fuck it up like i did.

urza

If i was still a virgin, i'd be the proudest 17 year old ever. I think loosing your virginity to someone you really love and careful is good advice but then again, i waited 5 months b4 having sex with her, we were together for another 3 months then she cheated on me, so now i just think, i wish i hadnt waasted it on her, so i wish i hadnt waited, got an earlier start and had more fun!! (ne one understand this?) doubt this post of mine has made me ne friends, lol- TC
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ok..... let's drag the cat out of the shack

you can't suck at sex..... not your first time..... if your a virgin and he's a virgin you'll both love every minute

he's gonna try not to cum to fast and you just have to relax..... might wanna lube up good tho....

*ahem* females to not have orgasms there first time IF the male does not (for lack of better words) eat out the female

so start the night with oral sex and you'll both do fine

[This message has been edited by Rogue dude (edited 02-23-2002).]

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Originally posted by 420hightime:
just relax. guys like me only want to please, and he will go slow at first and make sure you are comfortable. the best reward that you can give a man is letting him know that you are enjoying it. that's all guys usually care about, at least me. i'm constanly making sure that i'm not doing anything wrong. But don't do it just because you're sick of being a virgin, do it with someone special; that you care about. Don't do it with nobody and fuck it up like i did.

urza

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I agree ... Don't do it with just anyone .. and most guys are all about just having you enjoy it. My 1st time sucked majorly .. i did it with someone i didnt honestly care about, and i did it to get back at someone. It sucked lol .. do it when yur ready .. not a moment sooner

-Insert somewhere close, preferably moist
-Stroke
-Repeat

BE ACTIVE!!! show him you're enjoying it! Take the initiative! Don't make him do all the work!!

There's nothing more fucking annoying when a girl just lies there and does jack shit.