aight, here's what happened. Me and my b/f were screwin and the condom broke. we stopped like right away. his dick was maybe in there at most a second after it broke. he didn't come yet, but usually, when i give him head or whatever, there's always small drops of cum commin out way before he cums. I dont know if that was the case that night. but might have been. we only been goin at it for maybe 5- 10 mins. I'm thinking bout goin to the health depatment to get that morning after pill (which works 72 hours later), but im terrified of talkin to those peopel about it.
please help me, what do you think??

there's almost no chance that you'll get pregnant from that kind of contact. the drops you noticed are pre-cum, just your b/f's bodies way of warming up for the moneyshot. it contains almost no sperm at all, if any. chances are miniscule that you'd need it, but morning after pills are now also available now from any pharmicist over the counter without a prescription. at least in california they are. not certain about other states.
you could consider condoms with spermicidal lubricant to reduce the chance of getting pregnant should this happen in the future. the way i've always looked at contreception is, if you really don't want a kid, be prepared to do whatever it takes to put your mind at ease. in the event that incidental contact happens, the spermicide is a nice backup.

A couple questions..

How old are you? What country do you live in?

Alrighty, honestly, the risk is probably fairly low that you got pregnant.. But if I were you, I wouldn't take those kinda odds.

Go to the docs, say "the condom broke and I need the morning after pill"

Yeah, it's an embarrassing and horrid conversation to have to have, but trust me, they've heard it before. And just think how much more embarrasing a conversation it would be to tell your family and friends that you got pregnant by accident..

Emerican you are either uninformed or you are trying to fuck with this persons life either way shut up, precum does contain sperm people do get pregnant from it. Suze, wintermute, is right.

yep precum can do the trick so be weary. i wouldn�t worry too much if it was only a second. you have probability on your side but its your choice. i would recommend against abortion because i find it moraly wrong but its entirely your call.

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there's almost no chance that you'll get pregnant from that kind of contact.

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it contains almost no sperm at all, if any.

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i didn't say it was devoid. it can contain a miniscule amount compared to a normal ejaculation. chances of getting pregnant from a seconds worth of incidental contact without even being sure that any amount of precum (be it loaded or not) actually got into the danger zone are very small. yes the chance is there, small as it may be, and i did address a few options should she want to take further action. but the chance is small enough that its unlikely she needs to get freaked out. i at no time ever said "you aren't pregnant don't worry about it", i said the chances are very small. ask a doc before you act the asshole.

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either way shut up

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neither do i see anywhere suze made any statement contrary to anything i said thereby making suze "right". we both pointed out that chances are small, but if she is scared, she has options.

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in the event that incidental contact happens, the spermicide is a nice backup.

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personally i'd think that says i'm aware that precum can cause pregnancy, and offers something of a contraceptive piece of advice. i also pointed out to the girl that if she is scared of going to the health dept, she can go to her local pharmacy and get a pill without the ordeal she appears to view a doctor (suze's solution) as.
please don't take things out of context. i really don't enjoy explaining myself to people that don't even read the post completely to begin with.



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You can't get the pill over the counter anywhere in the US (unless you're right about CA).. only place I know of that you can do that is france.

that came word of mouth from my gf, so i asked her...
fitness magazine March 2002 pg 58-
"Pharmacists in California and Washington can now procide emergency contraception without a prescription."
i checked the website, i couldn't find a peep about it there, if you'd like to see it, mail me and i'll scan the page. i think its a good thing, but i don't know the potential health risks associated with taking a morning after pill everytime a couple happens to have incidental contact.

drink alot of booze, smoke some crack, and have your beau kick you in the belly repeatedly.

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Originally posted by Wintermute:
A couple questions..

How old are you? What country do you live in?

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I'm 15 and live in MD, USA.
I HATE kids! If i am pregnant... i would have an abortion faster than you can say Indiana Jones!

If this happens again, just stuff a vacuum cleaner hose up there and turn it on.

Seriously though, if you're gonna hump, you'd better be prepared for the consequences should contraceptives fail. If you feel you can't handle a kid and you're too damn horny to go without, then get a vibrator.

if you really hated kids youd keep it and torture it when it was born.


holy shit, that is worse than my abortion suggestion. i really dont mean any of it, i really like other peoples kids. i dont need any of my own, ever.

ok.... just a few posts ago you were talking about loosing your virginity.... as soon as you had done it you posted "it wasn't a big deal"

So go to the doctors get the morning after pill and you will walk out saying exctly the same thing

Anyway you shouldnt be taking any chances.... the morning after pill is a whole lot nicer than having to go through an abortion.

You may be embarrased about getting the pill but you would be more embarrased having to ask for an abortion (im not sure about america, but in england you cant have an abortion without parental consent which would also involve your parents finding out!!!)

Well... I did go and get the pill. It wasn't so bad. The doctors were really nice. Anyway, first they make you go pee in a cup (yay!) and then run a pregnancy test on you. If you're lucky like me it'll say NEGATIVE. If it's positive they won't give you the pill. After that, they pretty much give you the sucker, and then you gotta take another one 12 hours later. When I took the first one it was about 68 hours after intercourse. You can pregnant 72 hourse after sex. So after thinking about it, if I wasn't pregnant at 68 hours, I think my chances of getting pregnant at all w/out the pill was very low. But I'm glad I went. So that was it. I'm not pregnant. My period started today, so that's good. And when I walked out of the Health Department, the lady gave me a bag with about 20 condoms. That made my b/f VERY happy. But I don't think we're gonna use them for a lil while. I need some vacation.


I just wrote all that to inform everyone that I was doing fine... you must have all been worried sick about me. lol

Good fer you, at least your boyfriend didn't get drunk and hit you when he found out you had to take it..

now you should stay strictly anal. you cant get pregnant that way. i know you just got laid for the first time, so why not just get them all broken in at once? at least you wont need the morning after pill again.

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Originally posted by junglist:
now you should stay strictly anal. you cant get pregnant that way. i know you just got laid for the first time, so why not just get them all broken in at once? at least you wont need the morning after pill again.

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Okay... now where did that come from ?

Anal?
Ok... I don't think taking a dumb is much of an erotic experience, so i don't see how shoving something UP my ass would feel any better...