I made a bet with my boyfirend. I said that when a guy has sex and ejaculates, he doesen't necceassarily have to have an orgasm because the two are not the same thing. He said that when a guy ejaculates is the same thing as an orgasm. Who's right?

i think when a guy ejaculates he orgasms but there can be precum that comes up before the complete orgasm. but u dont have 2 ejaculate 2 get an orgasm

I had once ejactulated without orgasm, so yeah, it's possible. Not that it was all that exciting. Kinda pissed me off actually.

i dont think that is normal. sure there are exceptions but normaly they go together

That's happened to me a few times. Not usually, but when it does, your entire week seems worse.

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"God has not been proven not to exist, therefore he must exist."

One time i had one in Radio Shack, but i cummed, i woudl say that ur b'f is right.

Your boyfriend is wrong!! It's both a scientific fact and something proven by the accomplished. Studies and experience show they are independant, they coincide to increase the possibility of conception. A man can ejaculate and have his orgasm fizzle, and there are masters of several sexual arts(Taoist, Tantric) that can orgasm many times and (if they choose) ejaculate whenever they please during intercourse.

I like you tryptamine. You make me sound smart. For those of you that agree with my b/f... YOU SUCK!
I still love you all though!

yeh i have learn't to orgasm without ejaculating, its quite a trick to master but worth it, you need to tense the PC muscle that spasm's when you ejaculate, for about 15-30 seconds when you feel like your about to ejaculate. It don't feel good the first few times that you do it, but after a while its like a normal orgasm and you can keep going and have another and another and another. you need to build up the PC muscle by tensing it alot. (1000 reps per day, vary them too (start with 100 and work up from there))

when you first try you can probably hold the flow back for about 4 seconds then fail.

Hi, Syn" I agree. Him ejaculating and me orgasming is not like the same. Yhe guys are just miserable until they actually explode with ejaculation.....because that tiny instant of time is their whole world of pleasure. But the girl is getting pleasure all along, even while he is still miserable with unhappiness and working hard and wanting to go off. The organsm is just the high point for us, but lots of pleasure is being given by him to me, even when he is still miserable, while he is giving to me before his big one happens, And even if thr actual orgasm doesn't happen to me, I had a good time the whole time. But for him, if he doesn't explode he is miserable for all the rest of the night. Good for the girl. Sad for the guys until they go off. But, of course, they always do. Love, Venus.

I've had an orgasm without ejaculating before. Only once, but it was a surprise (when beating off).

Ya know Venus... you're right. Girls always have their share of fun wether the guy is or not. Sometimes, it's pretty damn good to be a girl. :-D

typically, ejaculation for me means orgasm, but there have been times that ive cum so many times that nite that any later orgasms cum up dry.

once however, whilst trippin mah balls off, i came without so much as even thinkin of sex. it felt orgasmic and i was trippin so it might have been but i still dont know.

i would say its a safe bet though that any time we cum, we are havin our orgasm.

i think so ejaculated wif out orgasming a few times and belive you me they all sucked ass