ok, there's this girl i really like, and i really wanna hook up with her. the problem is she's been with a LOT of guys, and im kinda unsure that i can make it fun for her...any tips? i know it's pathetic, but there must be someone with heart to help me.

just do it

Be yourself... it doesn't matter how many guys she's been with, she'll either like you or she won't.

Its up to you to find out.

Easy one, Chimera: Even a girl as busy as this one likes a radical change now and then. If she has been with a bunch of exciting guys, she is probably tired of that, and will be ready for you. I hope I have been able to help. Love, Venus.

Get AIDS and fall in line. Why do guys like sluts?

However many people a girl has been with isn't a turn-on or a turn-off for me. I don't care, and most guys I know don't either. If I'm gonna get involved with someone, as long as I can trust that she's not gonna fuck around, that's all I can rightfully ask for. No one can change their past, so I'm not likely to hold that against anyone.

If their past suggests future problems, though, then I'm more careful. I would definitely trust a girl who's had ten or fifteen one-night stands, but never cheated on anyone, more than one who's brazenly fucked around on the only two boyfriends she's had. Then, the only potential concern is an STD, and a quick test will take care of that.

Its great that you can look past how many guys she's been with. But you still need to be concerned with your health. Use protection when you do get to hit that.
Don't hype your sex up either...Because if you talk alot of shit and don't back it up you make yourself look like a real asshole!

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Originally posted by Defiant Exile:
Get AIDS and fall in line. Why do guys like sluts?

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Defiant.. maybe its comments like this that make people dislike you ?

Iknow you're always listening to others with an open mind so you can change your views and improve yourself... so I thought bring this to your attention.

No, usually comments that point to me knowing my identity and being secure with it do. People hate signs of strength more than anything.

The only sign of strength I've seen from you is the urge to terrorize a bulletin board with your inhuman views. While it is your choice to inflict these views upon us, it is certainly not a sign of strength or integrity in this electronic medium or real life.

bitches will always be bitches, so put a condom on, fuck untill your sick of her tireless rantings, then go find yourself a new bitch. if you really love her, put it in her star-hole.

[This message has been edited by massiveacid (edited 12-10-2001).]

magician, are you a defiant groupie or something?

[This message has been edited by eCHO (edited 12-12-2001).]