Here's my situation: My girlfriend has never french kissed a guy (or a girl for that matter) before. I am fairly experiened in that realm. She came over last night and we spent a good portion of it trying to make out. She keeps asking what to do and what makes it feel good. Now, in the past, I've been complemented for my kissing abilities. She doesn't quite know what to expect and is therefore not enjoying it. Being very very close friends above all else, we were talking about the "situation." She said that she didn't "enjoy" the kissing as much as she thought it should be enjoyed. What do I do? She asks the question "What about it is supposed to feel good?" How do I answer that? How do I make her enjoy it? She really means a lot to me and I want her to enjoy kissing. PLEASE HELP!

Tell her to stop fucking thinking.

It's possible to be a bad kisser, or a good kisser, which makes it a de facto art, but it really boils down to this- do you want to be kissing the other person? If yeah, then it's probably gonna be enjoyable, unless they're really bad. If not, then it's probably not gonna be enjoyable, unless they're really, really good.

Kissing is more of an emotional thing. There's obvious physical pleasure involved with sexual actions, but the connection between two people can be more vivid and real with a kiss than it can through even good sex. It sounds like she's trying to figure out the physical pleasure in it, in which case she's bound to end up sorely disappointed. Thus:

Tell her to stop fucking thinking.

Move to france?

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Souvent femme varie, bein fol est qui s'y fie

Leave it to Rob to fish out the easy answer.

I'm with Spiffy on this one...

just start feeling around.........2nd....base.....i think!

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`If I had a dime,
I'd spend it on the time it takes to flick you in the eye with it.'

its not supposed to be "enjoyable", like not in a pleasurable way, its supposed to usualy lead on to other things (wink wink) cuz it makes ya horny (if u ask me). I've never found it really....."enjoyable".

just tell her (besides the fact that shes a moron!) that its foreplay and if she doesnt like it you could just keep going, im tellin ya if she not ready to go all teh way shell start enjoying it whether she likes it or not lol

How old are you two?

Is she wierd?

Well I enjoy kissing for it's own sake, It just feels and tastes great :*

To get it right you just have to practice, take it slowly and not force the issuse. If you find yourself fighting each other before you've both enjoyed it then your doing it wrong. Remember there will be plenty of time to tickle each others tonsils later, start just as a little extention from regular kissing on the lips :)

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~Kameron
Carpe Aptenodytes!