ok, well i like this guy, and we are gonna hook up and fuck...well his best friend wants me too and thinks bc ill fuck his friend, ill fuck him..im not attracted to him at all, and even thinking about him naked makes me sick and im a really nice person..and haven't been successful at telling him no...anyone have any ideas on how i can make him leave me alone,cuz im about to fucking kill him...

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buRn

i'm surprised the guy you like hasn't told him.

or is there something he's not telling you.

even if he was attractive it would be fucked if u were with his friend and him at the same time, unless they were both okay with it.

Simply dont be wth him, thats simple enough isnt it!?

Just give him a knobber....That should be enuff....unless he`s greedy......

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State calmly and clearly that you're not interested.

If that doesn't work, be vicious.

Say "I heard from (x - any girl you know who's slept with him) that you're shit in bed, and you have a small dick"

he's never done ANYTHING with ANY girl..not even make out....and hes all like 'i want you to teach me, yadda yadda'...and i would never suck this guys dick..he makes me ill...*shudders* and the thing is..his friend acts like he's cool with it around the guy, but in private he's all like 'you're not gonna do anything with him are you???' and bullshit like that...arg...boys are such a pain in the ass

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buRn

Hey bitch, go find somebody to love.

No infact, fuck you.. do you know how much that kid prolly likes you? Dreams of you? Thinks of you? Wants to go on dates with you? Treat you like a real girlfriend. 'not so we can hook up 'n fuck'

Gr, fucking girls. You're all the same.

Go find some good sperm.

Fuck you. It's not my fault I'm not attracted to him! It's not like I'm mean to him, he's one of my friends and we talk all the time, I just DON'T want to do anything with him. God damn,lay off. It's like some girl you're pretty good friends with,but definately not attracted to saying she wants to 'go down on you' and fuck you. What the hell would you do??

You're asking a typical guy...

What Suz said. You never know how someone will react to what you say or do.. just control what you can, which is whether you're straightforward or not. It might hurt the dude some, but everyone's better off in the long run.

And, if he can't handle it and won't leave you alone, again, listen to Suz. Maybe try and get his friend to say something first, but if push comes to shove, fuck yeah, light into him.

*rolls eyes*

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buRn

are you posting from a rehab center? setup a three-some, that way everyone cums out a winner.

[This message has been edited by digital (edited 06-22-2001).]

Absolutely positively state clearly that you are not interested. That is the ONLY thing to do. I hate girls who don't tell a guy when they're not interested.. Causes all kinds of problems. If a guy doesn't get that no means no, then you have every right to tear into him in any way possible, even to the point of humiliation ie. "what on EARTH makes you think I'd EVER be interested in doing anything with a slug like you?"

May seem harsh, but if you don't do the former, and if necessary the latter, too many problems can occur. Be nice when you tell him the first time, if he still keeps pushing, then be rude. Don't ever let someone push you into something you don't want to do, just because you're afraid of seeming like a bitch, because the thing is, bitches get what they want, and don't have to put up with crap they don't want. I'd rather be a bitch than a doormat any day.

Yet another sad situation.

Diluted mate... I think I know where you coming from. Been there done that. You need to give it time and get over it. (Haha... yeah I know. Umm by time, it could be up to like umm... hows 10 years grab you ? Won't get over it for life ? Well make it 12 then, thats all life means now days anyway)... but its not your thread so I'll move on.

Whatchhowiburn... hm. What can I say. They're all right. On the down side, if he loves (apposed to like) you.. it won't matter HOW mean you are. And you won't be happy with your self for doing it I'm guessing.

1) tell him, do it gently. Tell him you'll let him know if you ever change your mind, but you don't think you will.
2) tell him to find someone else to go out with, if he want to go out with someone. Tell him you'll go on a double date (you and the other guy, him and another girl)if that make things easier for him.
3) Tell him while you don't like him like that, you enjoy the conversations you two have and don't want to lose that.
4) If you can't tell him, put it in a letter. EIther post it, or if you can't carry it around. Then if you get really mad... you can throw it at him (message delivered).

Alternativly you can post it US mail and it may or may not get there Umm... forget that idea. Just make sure he knows how you feel (or don't feel in this case). And if he insists tell him how it make you feel sick. HE may not care a whit for his reputation, appearance etc... but if he really does liek you and isn't just trying to you use... he'll care an awful if he finds out he's hurting out unintentionally.

Good luck

go up to him, look him strait in the eyes and be like, "I dont wanna fuck you. " it's the most effective way, tried and tested, to get a guy to leave you the fuck alone.

hmm....tell him to fuck off, your not intersested...=-)

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Liberals suk, anarki rules, any questions?I thought so...

if you guys are friends; you're just leading him on.

guys only have two kinds of 'girl friends'(not girlfriend); those we haven't fucked yet; and those who are friends with one we're trying to fuck.

tell him you're not interested convincingly and see how much of a friend you have then.

the guy you're with though sounds like a jackass; or he's up with the threesome and just asks if you're not going to do anything to keep you from blowing up in his face.

i think im gonna try to just set him up with one of my girl friends...

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buRn

That nice burn

And if he agrees, then he doesn't like you persay and if he keeps up then its safe to yell at him. Good luck !

[This message has been edited by magician (edited 06-28-2001).]

if this guy is repulsive to u, why the fuck would u set him up with one of your friends? No matter how kewl someone is, bottomline u gotta be physically attracted to them to like'em unless your in the weird 1% of this entire world that doesn't go by that rule. That's pretty mean screwing your friend just to get rid of a guy, get guts and tell him off sheesh.

Tell him your gay or something...

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When people fear the government, there is tyranny. When government fears the people, there is liberty. --Thomas Paine

DO NOT IN ANYWAY TELL HIM YOUR GAY!!!!!!!! ONE he would know your atleast BI since your going out with his friend and most mens BIGGEST fantasy is threesome with 2 women......

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Originally posted by Frey Grimrod:
DO NOT IN ANYWAY TELL HIM YOUR GAY!!!!!!!! ONE he would know your atleast BI since your going out with his friend and most mens BIGGEST fantasy is threesome with 2 women......

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lol ! Sorry, thats just funny. The whole shouting thing and all. It's like you're about to put your hand on the door knob, and Frey came in yelling don't touch that ! Then, when you stopped, carmly explains the house is on fire you would have burnt your hand if you'd touched it.

Well,he knows I'm bisexual....but the whole problem is solved, I'm not talking to either of them at the moment, they're not worth my time. *sigh*
And I didn't set my friend up with him. I just asked her if she would like to spend time with him, she said no, and that was the end of it.

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