I never orgasm during sex. As in sexual intercourse. The only way I can orgasm is through being fingered/masturbation/and once in a while through oral sex. Though I've only been able to cum through oral sex twice.

Is there something wrong with me? I mean, do most women orgasm during intercourse or is this totally normal.

Cheers,
Lost

Have you ever just sat in the bath tub and let the faucet run between your legs?

Yea. I've tried that. It never worked. It was always really uncomfortable having my legs all bent up against the cold tile wall, and besides, I wouldn't be able to lay down or get comfortable because all the water would drown me.

Cheers,
Lost

Yes there is. Many women have the same problem, though.

That's what I hear, anyway. I wouldn't know about that.

It's all to do with a physical measurement. The distance between your clitoris and your vagina basically.. ie the closer it is, the more likely you are to get the big o during intercourse.. Simple as that..

Maybe you just need a better class of lover...?

wow

may be.

My pop thinks Roy Orbison is The Big O. I felt too weird to tell him otherwise.

Cheers,
Lost

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I can never orgasm when i masterbate I can during oral and sex tho...woot!

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hey lost, have you got time for this?

hmmm.

some shit that may give you some things to consider is a thing i have done & doo, with all my subjects(hehe)

tweaking the orgasim. through its chemical signals and degress of tension build up, through elements of well being.

okay so now your confused , or interested, and or worried, or thinking what the fuck is this shit man.

see to determind the power of the orgasim, is the tension build up, then RELEASE, ohhhhh yeah.

it may not last that long, with woman, but when it happens it goes depending on some factors.

tension build, attributed,to you your thoughts and atmosphere of the cituation you are in, so if you are really really comfy, and have a whole lot of satisfaction in your state of mind , either by SUBSTANCE?, or excitment, by the facination of the guy(phisical, mind etc) the guy could be like me-lol, yes im joking, ahem, i cant lie though

or have a long induced build up from time
(not the best one babe -lol)

you know the act of it is there with you,and works, you can experience this huge sensation.. its just when you are doing it,

you dont have alot of consentration of ANY OF the energies of the above,

you may do, but not ENOUGH.

first thing to do, is relax.
THEN CALL ME(JOKING)

3391 1580-ahem sorry.

see if i did make you laugh that state of mind, and that negativity, has been put aside and DELT WITH, therefore you can FOCUSS, on your state of mind in the zone, and that will produce the desired effects.

i wish i could show you, but we are friends, i hope, and i value that more than some phisical act.

loyalty and respect.

sex can be used as a bond to strengthen this, but, thats not what the thread is about.

okay, hmmmmm.

alright i only said that so watch how i burn would be interested and want me, okay so now i am being an arse, and will quitely, TIPP TOE OFF.

watch, hehehehhe...ahem.
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nihilism, i can accept

LOL! Nihil, you are so funny! You're right, though. But, it doesn't matter because I broke up with my boyfriend yesterday. So, it's just me and my hand for a while...

Cheers,
Lost

as usuall nilistic does not know what the fuck he is talking about , its kinda hard when the only experience you have had is with a gerbil up your ass ,

as for you sweets , there is a name for your condition its called being FRIGID , yup thats right , or maybe your a closet lesbian , hey thats okay love who ya love , but shit go out and get a book on sex , you know dick bangs jane and makes her give head or something

hey lost, i am gonna tell you some thing that no ones knows about me.

i have to becasue you and i are the same.

'they' think that you are clinically insane right?

the government thinks this also about me,
see they class me as insane, and put me on a disability pension.

muuhhaaaar.

so when we bang heads, we are truly maniacs.

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totally nihilistic

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Originally posted by WatChHoWiBurN:
I can never orgasm when i masterbate I can during oral and sex tho...woot!

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That's.. different..

Just an idea I've heard, for your next boyfriend/random fuck: get on top and lean back some. Maybe you've tried this, though.. the leaning back is important, so if you never did that, then give it a shot.

X Files? Talk about calling the kettle black!

Really? You're crazy, too, Nihil?! Kick ass! I had a feeling we were kindred in that sort of way.

Cheers,
Lost

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Originally posted by nihilistic:


the government thinks this also about me,
see they class me as insane, and put me on a disability pension.

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You mean I can get paid for being a total maniac???



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