a buddy from work is having a problem. he and this girl have been really flirting big time, everytime they work together, and even sometimes she'll stop in or he will stop in when the other is working. anyway, he says that they have talked about getting together just to see what's up and all, and she told him she was thinking about it. but that was weeks ago. and he asked her again and she said she was still thinking about it. in the meantime, they're still flirting big time and he's givin her a shitload of attention. so here's the thing, me and most of the other people there think she's just playing with him becasue she likes the attention. i asked another girl at work and she said she's done it before, just dragged some poor sucker by the balls becasue she likes the attention and knows the guy will continue with the attention as long as she says she's still considering it. so females, what do you think of this situation and have you ever done the same thing and how's it turned out. and one last thing, another guy thinks if this sucker suddenly stops with all the attention but is still nice and everything without all the flirting, then she'll want his attention back and come running. any truth to that? thnx for any helpful info.

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...ever since, I've been The Champ.

ok, and for all the doubters, this may be the first time in recorded history but this actually IS for someone else and not me.

(i mean, i may pick up a few pointers for later, but the general topic isn't my idea)

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...ever since, I've been The Champ.

She might come back looking for attention if he will stop giving it to her. Or she could find someone else. But if thats the case then he should stop with all the attention he is giving her, it will only hurt him.

sorry range, i cant help man-lol

i do that to chicks,

i even go out with ugly ones just so i can treat them like shit and they never leave.

*ahem*

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totally nihilistic

sounds like a tease...
just stop the attention , and just treat her like someone off the street...

and only give her half the attention when u go out with her then gradualy work it up.. then she realizes that she has workd for that attention and dosnt wanna loose it...

unlesss she is a big slut..she will get it somewere elce..then just forget about it..

or u could get a other girlfrend make her jelous.. and give ur new girlfrend all attention..... its ur choice..

If she drags guys along by the balls with maybes, ask for a yes or no. If she won't give it, assume no, and move along.

that's what everyone around me keeps saying... er, i mean him. that's fuckin cruel though, this guy is trying anything and everything and she just plays along.

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...ever since, I've been The Champ.

Yes you must relize most, well lets not say women so I dont get killed in here, most people are evil sonofabitches.

why not , when ur both alone , grab her ass and squeez... then lick her nipples...


then see what she says about that

Sorry dude, was in a very simular circumstance myself and let it go on for way too long. Probably best to just move on.

there's nothing wrong with pursuing this relationship as long as it's not the only one you pursue.

some chicks just string you along to see how serious you are and willing to stay along.

once you move on;

so will she.

i reckon that this guy needs a serious slap upside the head!
tell him to find someone else coz this bitch is only in it for the attention.
tell him to go find a slut. he'll have a better time and it's cheaper in the long run!


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