 Re: A question for all(girls especially!!!!)
Since you're a girl it should come rather naturally, and although all vaginas are different, everything is still generally in the same place.
The most important thing to find is the clitoris. The clitoris is pretty hard to find if you've never looked for it before. It's this really little muscle that's inside the hood and you can see it if you spread the lips. But, you should try to avoid having too much direct contact with it because it can be very sensitive and with some girls it hurts. Most activity should be on the hood, over the clitoris. You can tell if you're on the clitoris because it will feel harder and stiff. You can usually feel where it ends.
You don't want to concentrate all your attention to that, though. On the side of the vagina (between the vagina and the leg) right in that corner, it can be very sensitive. Kissing, licking, breathing on those spots not only create a diversion from working continuously on the clit (which can get boring for you and her if you go too long with it) and it's also a very sensitive erogenous area, and usually gets the girl really excited, if she's not too ticklish.
Sucking on the lips individually is good move, too. Because the warmth of your mouth helps relax them. But, be carefull with the saliva, because there will already be juices and if there's too much saliva it will get really really messy and then she probably won't want to kiss you afterwards.
Now, you wouldn't think so, but biting is often very effective. But, you can't bite the clit. I repeat: Do Not Bite The Clit. If you're going to bite, bite the whole thing, and not too hard. I mean, get all the lips in your mouth so that your teeth sort of rub against the corners between the legs and the vagina. This can be tricky because it gets a little slippery, so to make it easier you can hold the hips still or wrap an arm around the small of her back.
It's important to to hold the hips, though, over all, because there's a lot of squirming and a lot of girls need a certain part to be concentrated on but can't help moving, which can effect the process. So if you apply gentle pressure to the hips it helps to control your movements.
Sucking on the clit is good, too. Long sucks, though followed by quick licks. Like a cat lapping. (Remember: clits or the hood over the clit varies in length. Some girls are completely hidden between the lips and other girls have very very long ones.) The sucking should be gentle and will bring the blood to the clit and the quick licks will stimulate it very effectively with the fresh blood there.
One very effective way is to hum. While you have her clit in your mouth, gently hold it between your front teeth and hum. The vibration will come through you teeth and act like a personally sized vibrator. But, don't start humming Mary Had A Little Lamb or anything. Make like you're moaning in pleasure. It's really important that the girl feel relaxed and know that you're enjoying it more than finding it a task.
Also, make sure all the hair is out of the way because it can chaf sometimes.
Cheers,
Lost
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2001-04-28, 09:45
