It seems like this is something most guys are into: female bisexuality. Women seem to be a lot more open to experimentation and variations on ordinary sex. Better yet, lesbianism fights uncontrolled population explosion.

Admit it, guys, wouldn't you enjoy being in the position of a Sultan with a harem of wives and consorts? Think of the possibilities.

Girls: is the idea of making it with another girl appealing to you? Would it bother you if your boyfriend or husband wanted to experience such a thing? Or would you have your own collection of men to satisfy your longings (do women fantasize the same thing about guys?).

For those who have enjoyed this forbidden fun, how did it happen and what effects did it have on your love life? Are there ways of getting into such situations without hitting the swingers' bars?

I work in an occupation that deals with sexuality, and I can say there are plenty of women that are into lesbianism....and also plenty of guys that enjoy it too... ..Swingers bars or clubs are one way to get into the fun, but there are also plenty of swinger mags that you can advertise in, if your serious.....You`ll get plenty of responses, just respond to the ones you feel are sincere...Then enjoy the fun...

what is your occupation BiggCatt ?

Thanx Sum,,,this is a topic that i also find a lot of interest in. Woman that iu have talked to say..NO WAY, and yet others say,,MAYBE, yet, in thet eyes of the NO WAY, i c more interest in this arena. I know that most men however are not interested, and yet you get a lot that are. We just dont c them that often. Is there a balance between the male and female lust to cross the barrier between sexes for experimental purposes, or is the main title held by woman.

Mention a female bisexual encounter, and almost any man will say "where, when"...how about if those were ur own woman.? would it make a differance..? i for one would love it..just dont bring another guy home..
but thats my view,,maybe u all have different ones...
tell us..

As long as there's at least as many chicks as guys there, it's all good.

I don't know that I would want a harem, though.. well, maybe a small one, if they were all smart.. can't imagine having a bunch of dumb chicks following me around, no matter why they were there..

I'm sure girls are more accepting of the idea of being with another girl than guys are of being with another guy because it's become, not tolerated, but downright cool and popular. However.. let's face it.. on the whole, chicks are hot, and guys are goofy lookin' bastards. That's probably a big reason why it became popular.. and it's definitely why I like to see it..

I work at an adult store...So trust me, I`ve known quite a few lesbians, among other things....

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Well BiggCatt, now i understand your intimate relations occupatoin.."grin"

Has your job ever lead you into temptation..?

Well, I think that it can be a highly erotically charged adventure to cross such boundaries. To name just one example, it would be edifying to watch women make love to each other because women know their own bodies and have a concrete notion of what feels good and right. For a man, it would be wonderful to observe this and pick up pointers. While I do have my boundaries (I don't find men attractive at all), I am mostly an experimental lover. I think that this approach keeps things lively and new rather than habitual or thoughtless. It's sort of like an ongoing dialogue.

Re: Harems; if one has a primary lover or wife, this is an opportunity for her to explore a new side of intimacy without fear (if her male lover/ spouse can deal with jealousy issues). Sex can be an art, it can be playful, it can be mystical, it can serve many roles to those who are awake to their desires and who feel that love is open and expansive as opposed to tightly bound by ethics or culture. Live and let live.

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Originally posted by Cat:
Thanx Sum,,,this is a topic that i also find a lot of interest in. Woman that iu have talked to say..NO WAY, and yet others say,,MAYBE, yet, in thet eyes of the NO WAY, i c more interest in this arena. I know that most men however are not interested, and yet you get a lot that are. We just dont c them that often. Is there a balance between the male and female lust to cross the barrier between sexes for experimental purposes, or is the main title held by woman.

Mention a female bisexual encounter, and almost any man will say "where, when"...how about if those were ur own woman.? would it make a differance..? i for one would love it..just dont bring another guy home..
but thats my view,,maybe u all have different ones...
tell us..

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......my girlfriend told me she used to be a bisexual..........

what do y ou think would be the right thing to say to a girl that confessed she used to be a bisexual, and then confessed that she really didnt mind having just you know?

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A woman is there to be given pleasure...the best way to learn is by watching isnt it..?
So..why do men like watching...? well, we want to learn dont we.. or at least thats why i like to watch...being alone with a woman can be very much the same..if you're good enough to make a woman feel comfortable, then you can easily get her to touch herself in only ur presence..waqtch and learn...keep your hand on hers, and feel what she does...every woman differs in a million ways, and the only way you'll ever know, is by paying lots of attention to her movement, and reaction when u touch her, or the best way,,let her touch herself, and observe...

works for me...well,,i'm a guy that gets more pleasure out of giving pleasure than getting pleasure..so maybe my opinion will differ from yours...

*naughty is nice*

Noone USED to be bisexual. You either are or you aren't. You may have been curious about it and tried and found it wasn't for you, but you can't change that kind of fundamental desire. It's just too basic.

true..

Ahh. The Spiffy has it aright methinks.

In this day and age, there is a large emphasis on the female figure as being an object of desire. Well, not like it wasn't before, but now even more so with the proliferation of the media.

Our culture creates a concept of the female body being a work of art, something that I happen to wholeheartedly agree with. Our commercial media perpetuates the ideology of women=beauty. This impresssion is not just levied upon the men, who seemed to already know it, but women as well.

Men, on the other hand, are not widely portrayed as just objects. The "uber-man" of the media is smart, handsome, successful, wise, sensitive, dangerous and funny. It's a whole package thing.

Summing up: women=art, men=nearly unattainable expectations which naturally occur in other women anyway.

Is it so hard to believe that women are seeing other women as beautiful and desirable? With how much stress our society places on physical apperance, thus how much effort women put into that appearance, I don't think it's such a surprising thing.


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My wife is bi and has a hot girlfriend. However, I am stuck here, packing and moving, instead of going to Texas with her to meet up with Jenny again. Fate sucks.

*sulk*

what happened to the women's movement where they didn't want to look like sex objects.

now it's ugly women who seem to have this feeling(when it doesn't apply)

whereas hot women take advantage of it.

I don't know too many women who want to be seen *only* as sex objects; but the advantage is still there, and as long as they're appreciated for what else they're about, as long as their sex appeal is only part of the package.. hey, use it.

Its an honour to be a sex object..take it as you will!

how do you make a women orgasm??

answer=who fucking cares.