the second one of them says hi, want to come back to my place i literally have to say no, and then i go and throw up, what the fuck is wrong with me!!!!!!

it is so frustrating... can anyone help me

There aint much to worry about pigg i have exactly the same problem. I have wanted to speak to this girl for months now and i just cant its to hard. Its nerves i think and i havent got nerves of steel.

Peace Renegade,

It's only pussy don't be SKURRED...

Take it one step at a time. If she offers to invite you in then go. Once you're inside then you can start to throw up.

i agree. drink a bottle of the good ole JD.
get whiskey dick and fuck her all night long.

Damn, that same shit has happenned to me before. I just thought I was a freak. I guess we both know it's hard to be sexy with vomit on your lips. I have kind of a finicky stomach in the first place so for the past year or so I've just been buying a shitload of pepto chewable tablets. It's only a few bucks for a box of 48 and the tablets are in little plastic sheets of six that fold up and easily and unobtrusively fit in a pocket. Greatest stuff ever; doesn't really taste bad either. As far as nerves go, I'd agree with the previous posters. Liquid courage is the way to go.

I used to be shite with the ladies but discovered that you have to love yourself before you start lovin' them.

Keep in mind that Hot Chicks are people too...they're just like you...they arnt of some super-species....just keep you're cool. Chicks arnt anything special (although you should treat them like they are)

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That's because you think she is superior to you. I can't blame you with the shit they show on tv. Just remember, she is no better than you.

if im getting really nervous, I'll usually smoke a joint, or just a few tokes to mellow out, helps me out alot sometimes, if im too baked though it's almost as bad

Wait, did I run into you at Brainwash cafe once?

Cheers,
Lost

Join the club. Welcome to my life, I just try to not think of them as 'girls' or 'women' or whatever, just people, so that I can talk to them naturally. But as soon as you see two big tits looking at me, and it's like, whoa!

hey used to be like that i never puked or anything but i was real nervous the first time i asked a chick out i was pretty much breaking a sweat and shacken in me boots but now i have realized that you like who you like and you should just be yourself walk up to them and ask them how they are doing and what they did today and be like hey i ain't doing much this weekend do you wanna go to a movie or somthing i dunno just be yourslef and be kind you will never win if you act as some on you are not and try to really get to know the person before you make any moves because you may just be asking out a chick who is really scared or really into the church and sure it may work for a while but it won't last (speaking from personal experiance) unless you can make her feel good about herself be calm and be your self and get to know who your talking to don't rush anything thats my advice

i agree with some of these guys, just go with the flow man and keep it simple, dont over-examine everything youll be fine.

Oxycodone. Ask for it by name.

One hit of that and you'll demand she bring her mother.

Practice with ugly girls. Learn as much as you can. Then use your knowledge to seduce the hot ones. It works for real, just watch your reputation around the school.

I'd bet you have panic attacks and also suffer from other anxiety issues.

see a doctor.

ok then, here is how it went.

went out last night to a place in the middle of nowhere, alot of people. and fuck all happened. now it is more frustration.

god fucking dammit. thank you for all your imput tho guys, i really appreciate it, thanks

When i go out to a party i make a fool of myself. I usually get drunk and fall into a hard slumber or hug the toilet. Either that im stoned so i dont want to get jiggy. Not that i have got jiggy ha ha ha.

Peace Renegade,

Dude, what you gotta realize is that if she asks you back to her place, she likes you. With that simple realization - and some times you gotta work a little to get your mind around it - you can build the necessary level of confidence.

Theres only one answer, turn gay.

i'm always afriad of what girls will think of me i hate that i always think that they think i am stupid or something