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Old 2002-08-12, 16:03
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Default Psychology - Controling people

How would you control, or get absolute trust in you from a person who likes you much. Your goal is get things from her/him or making her/him do things?
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Old 2002-08-12, 16:58
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There are entire text books on the subject (kinda), read one of them.
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Old 2002-08-12, 18:00
CuriousMonky CuriousMonky is offline
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With your name I should think you would already know.
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Old 2002-08-12, 21:51
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The fine line between genius and madness
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Take a psych class. But only a manipulative control freak would mess with someone's mind for kicks. People who do that should be shot.
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Old 2002-08-12, 22:51
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I was trying to find stuff on this a while back.
A lot of the files on the net seem to be composed of crap, I suppose the best way to to it would be get a good book on it.
I believe a good one is
"How to Win Friends and Influence People"
Cant remember who its author is though.
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Old 2002-08-13, 01:16
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You want my copy? I don't want it anymore.
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Old 2002-08-13, 01:18
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Read, The Silence of the Lambs and Hannibal, then imitate Dr. Lecter's charm.
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Old 2002-08-13, 03:20
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quote:
Originally posted by kefak:
I was trying to find stuff on this a while back.
A lot of the files on the net seem to be composed of crap, I suppose the best way to to it would be get a good book on it.
I believe a good one is
"How to Win Friends and Influence People"
Cant remember who its author is though.



Dale carnigie. He was a sales man.

The key element to gaining trust with people is to be (or pretend to be) similar to them or similiar ideas, interests and beliefs. People like and trust people similiar to themselves or with similiar convictions.


For more detailed information on how to control people is read anti-cult books and material. In anti-cult material, they will tell you what to avoid and look out for when involved with a cult. In other words telling you how to control people.

Speaking of cults, read a little into the books of sciencetology's founder's books to learn how to gain authority. I forget his name.

Another thing you could look into is neurolinguistic programing or nlp that tells you how to get people to like you subconsiuosly. A good book I own is Instant Rapport written by Michael Brooks.

Or you could get into a good sales program offered by many companies to learn the basics of persuasion.

Remember, Dale carnigie was a sales man and he wrote a book on how to influence people, so sales is a good place to start.



[This message has been edited by gombowlzombie (edited 08-13-2002).]
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Old 2002-08-13, 16:23
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L Ron Hubbard created Scientology. Bigest bullshit 'religion' sence the Hare Krishnas.
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Old 2002-08-13, 17:54
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quote:
Originally posted by Prometheus:
But only a manipulative control freak would mess with someone's mind for kicks. People who do that should be shot.


It's the only way I know how to relate to someome. Enter a command, wait for reaction.
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Old 2002-08-13, 19:49
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quote:
Originally posted by Prometheus:
L Ron Hubbard created Scientology. Bigest bullshit 'religion' sence the Hare Krishnas.


who are the hare krishnas?
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Old 2002-08-13, 22:54
TheSellOut TheSellOut is offline
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I wrote a basic text on this, mostly seething with my own philosphy and shit.
Check out my other newer topic where I gloat over being in the Literary Dipshit's catagory.
Anyway, alot of people should be controlled, because they are sheep.
Alot of us feel we've been run over alot, its time to act- we could be rich sons of bitches and politic around like our oppressors. We all know money has power over the feeble minds of human beings.
Feed on peoples weakness don't create weaknessess of your own. Thats the golden rule.
Money grubbing bastards who steal and kill for greed are creating weaknesses of their own. If their money gets destroyed, stolen or thrown away they'll cry like a scalded baby.
 
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