Small gestures of affection

What are the little things that guys like me are supposed to do to show we care about our babes? Things like leaving notes and stuff... suggestions?

Oral.

There is one that i've always wanted to do.
I shall tell you but if you steal it im going to T-bag you untill death.

Cover my gf's room with post it notes while she's away.
And have all the post it notes say every special thing we've done, All her "best" parts, why she's great etc.
And have loads signed by all her friends but collected by me.



Im such a heart-throb lol

But back to what you originally attempted to ask even through your poor grammer.
Flowers never go amiss with most women.
Jewellery is good but keep it plain and sweet therefore she doesn't feel bad if she grows out of it or changes her mind but is still a piece she could wear forever.

I have never found chocolates particularly good.

If her tastes are more sophisticated then a good liquer or smoke may be her tastes.

And finally if it boils down to her not feeling sexy then go with her to get "interesting" lingerie.
Always a classic

It's the little things that make up life. Just do what feels natural; indulge yourself.

put it in her butt......

[ArmsMerchant]

Originally Posted by Convey

What are the little things that guys like me are supposed to do to show we care about our babes? Things like leaving notes and stuff... suggestions?

First, ignore posts #2 and #5.

Pay attention to her. That is, actually listen when she talks to you. If she talks about a problem, don't jump in and try to solve it--just listen. Maybe she just wants to talk it out.

Respect her wishes and desires, within reason. If she wants to see a movie that seems boring to you--man up and go--it won't hurt you. If she wants to get drunk and rob a bank, find another girl.

Hugs are always good.

If you screw up in any way, admit it ASAP.

Never, ever lie to her.

[Chichi]

The post-it notes thing sounds a little fucking creepy.

If my girlfriend did that for me I'd probably shit bricks when I found it. In a bad way.

Originally Posted by ArmsMerchant

First, ignore posts #2 and #5.

Pay attention to her. That is, actually listen when she talks to you. If she talks about a problem, don't jump in and try to solve it--just listen. Maybe she just wants to talk it out.

Respect her wishes and desires, within reason. If she wants to see a movie that seems boring to you--man up and go--it won't hurt you. If she wants to get drunk and rob a bank, find another girl.

Hugs are always good.

If you screw up in any way, admit it ASAP.

Never, ever lie to her.

Word.

It depends entirely on the girl. I would think my SO was fucking retarded if they went out and bought me a $50 bouquet of flowers that were going to die in a week.

Going out and picking me flowers, that's way cuter.

Do something with her you know she likes to do, but you don't like to do so much. And don't bitch about it. She'll recognize the sacrifice you're making and it'll be appreciated.

You can start by ceasing to refer to your girlfriend, or any other woman for that matter, as a "babe".

Do you live on the set of Saved by the Bell?

Just being their is something they really seem to appreciate.
If they're bitching about this guy at work listen and don't make suggestions unless they ask what you think they should do about it.
Getting doors for them, car, house, restaurant, etc.
Back rubs. nuff said.
Dinner, movies that suck, a little stuffed cat, whatever they think of how ugly that cat is, they'll still love the fact that you got it for them.

annilingus

seriously though, kiss her bum, tummy, belly button, everything

Good thread.

Flowers, yes. I once bought flowers for my ex but when I got to her place, she was asleep. I didn't wanna wake her up, but took this pink heart shaped piece of paper, wrote something like "To my sleeping beauty" or whatever on it and put it on the table, so it was the first thing she saw when she woke up. That made her happy and her being happy mae me even happier.

Also, maybe a poem? Like I wrote the shitties poem this one time, but it was sincere and slightly romantic, she loved it. Fuck my ex girlfriend was the sweetest thing ever

My next girlfriend is so fucking getting that post it thing though, that is fucking brilliant.

Edit: Also what the last poster said. Kiss her everywhere, worship ever little thing about her. Fuck I miss having a girlfriend, making her feel like a princess