Having a crush on your girlfriends best friend

Well, it has come to this, I have known her for exactly the length i have known my girlfriend, down to the last second,

The best friend shall be referred to as "M" From hereon in.

Me and "M" are Pretty good friends, we get along great, talk alot, have lots in common, Now, after my LATEST argument with my girlfriend (these are pretty regular), I went around for a day or so in a Crazy unknown mood, Talked to my girlfriend the next day, then went home, Now, just before i got a text from "M" Then i realized... i had a crush on her, My reasons to this

she's on my mind alot, i'm always expecting her, I'm happy as when i get a text from her, i actually remember her face, we get along like really well, i get pissed off bad when someone tries to hit on her/ask me if she is single, She is Usually the second most frequent person to text me.

and, i realized i had a crush on her since new years, i have had crushes on her previous, but they went away as the relationship with my girlfriend went back up

now i have no idea what to do, i love my girlfriend to death, we are still Together, and talking, Even though we argue alot, and she is immature, and really stresses me out to no end, But at the same time, i really like "M", i know she is already a good friend, but. that just makes it worse kinda, and she is one of the friends who i think would still be my friend if me and my girlfriend ever broke up.

TL/DR, Have a crush on my Good friend, Who ironically enough Is my girlfriends best friend, and i am wondering if this is partly because of the Constant arguments with my girlfriend.

Mmm, i'm sure there is something encoded in the brain that when a relationship is failing - it looks for other prospects. It's most likely a sign that your relationship is on the ropes at the moment as you can probably tell? (just think, if your mind is wandering, perhaps hers is too? Unfortunately, if nothing is done this will just get more severe =[ ..) I wish I was more experienced in life to help you out more, good luck.

[Abyssal Kink]

Sadly, this is area of expertise. I'd make a few comments to "M" about the past and how her best friend is really starting to tear you up on the inside. This could have several different effects depending on how you and her react.

You could use her to talk to your female companion and try to help you get back on track with her.

You could play around for a bit and stream line it so your g/f breaks up with you so you can fall for her friend or her friend fall for you.

You could take very direct route of "I never really liked/loved her as much as I have for you(M) secretly all this time... yada yada yada..."

I'm going to stop here because your options are infinite. It just depends on the varying degree of how much she likes you and the state(intox/sober) you are in at the time.

To be blatantly honest(and to explain why I wrote my post like this), you wouldn't be looking if you didn't want to get rid of your current model.

No matter how you decide to play this, always use your head and do your best to play it by ear .

Sounds like you have your self in a little tizzy. Hmm it sounds like either way its not going to be pretty either. If you dump your girl for this "m" then yea thats going to cause a lot of drama on both sides. If you think your really "falling" for this chick then it sounds like your relationship is doomed. Get out of it fast..dump the chick if you have feelings for someone else but going after "m" might not be a good idea.

and yea the fights I am sure bring feelings into it you thought you did not have so try to work shit out or end it so you are not stringing her along

im in a similar situation, i'd give my gfs friend all teh sex ever.....

But I am a decent person and wouldn't do something like that.

[Agent 008]

Wasn't there a guy on Totse who started living with 2 girls, in a kind of three-way relationship?

If your girls are open-minded enough, this could be the best way forward. You love them both, they obviously like each other, being friends, and they both like you.

Giggidy.

[Chichi]

Well, do you want to stop having feelings for her, or do you want to act on it?

It sounds like you could potentially cheat with this girl. Considering you always fight with your girlfriend, who you say you "love" (lol yea rite), and because her best friend obviously has a crush on you (because she's the second most frequent person to text you.)

I think you should tell her to stop texting, you should stop talking to her after you and you girlfriend have had a fight and you should stop getting all protective when other guys hitting on her.

Seriously, it's not like she's yours. Let her get a boyfriend of her own, that will probably help your feelings go away.

It's obvious that you don't want her to get a boyfriend, because you see her as a potential girlfriend for yourself, at least on a subconscious level.