Some dude needs advice.. stupid situation.

hey totse:
i'm gonna try to make this as quick as possible.. basically, there's this girl i really liked, i did a *ton* for her, we had a bunch of shit in common, everything seemed to be going great, then she turns around and avoids me, changes her facebook status to "married" to some loser, and whatever might've been between us is pretty much over.
now i can't find myself getting over.. and i feel like i kind of lost, so i want to make her jealous now. i'm thinking of defaulting a picture of me making out with this other girl, then just bagging some random chick and hanging out with her as much as possible around that bitch.. hopefully that won't make her feel like she crushed me to the ground (!) and it'll help me get over her.

ideas? thanks..

EDIT: I don't want to ruin any small chances of anything happening between us after her and said guy break up..said guy won't do half the shit for/with her I did.

Rape her.
Nothing as good as a good ol' fashioned rape off.


No, but seriously even if you did do the whole random rebound chick thing it wouldn't make you any happier.
Leave it until someone better comes along.

And if she is just ignoring you then just ignore her.
Maybe part of her game is to get you to follow her or want her.
Don't give in man.

And for the future don't do lots of stuff for someone that doesn't give you the mutual eqvuilent.
They may just be freeloading off of you.

So to round up.
Ignore her.
Don't "try"and make her jealous this will end in more problems.
Be on the look out for someone or something better.

Maybe take up a new hobby to clear your mind? or even to meet new friends.



Oh, don't bother with "small chances" you want mutual reciprocation and if you don't get it then don't bother mate.
Too many girls to be bothering with small chances.

Thanks for the help man, your response should be like stickied.. lol.

-a

No problem, always happy to help.

Originally Posted by somedude91

hey totse:
i'm gonna try to make this as quick as possible.. basically, there's this girl i really liked, i did a *ton* for her, we had a bunch of shit in common, everything seemed to be going great, then she turns around and avoids me, changes her facebook status to "married" to some loser, and whatever might've been between us is pretty much over.
now i can't find myself getting over.. and i feel like i kind of lost, so i want to make her jealous now. i'm thinking of defaulting a picture of me making out with this other girl, then just bagging some random chick and hanging out with her as much as possible around that bitch.. hopefully that won't make her feel like she crushed me to the ground (!) and it'll help me get over her.

ideas? thanks..

EDIT: I don't want to ruin any small chances of anything happening between us after her and said guy break up..said guy won't do half the shit for/with her I did.

So you want to default a pic of you mashing lips with some hottie and then basically shove your flavor of the week in her face, all in the hopes that she'll be pissed off and jealous, but will eventually break up with her boyfriend and not hate you enough to stop herself from dating you?

That's fucking retarded. How about you just man up and get over her? She's obviously not worth your time and if she chose someone else, so be it. Why would you still want there to be chances between you two further down the road?

[Abyssal Kink]

Originally Posted by Anechka

So you want to default a pic of you mashing lips with some hottie and then basically shove your flavor of the week in her face, all in the hopes that she'll be pissed off and jealous, but will eventually break up with her boyfriend and not hate you enough to stop herself from dating you?

That's fucking retarded. How about you just man up and get over her? She's obviously not worth your time and if she chose someone else, so be it. Why would you still want there to be chances between you two further down the road?

Lying to yourself when you're hurt is so much easier than ever accepting any part of the truth. Denial is a bitch.

There is obviously only one method of dealing with this, the most difficult position any human has ever faced... suicide.

I know it sounds harsh, but its honestly the only way. Write a suicide note out of your own blood, telling everyone how life is not worth living without her, then just let yourself bleed out.

[Abyssal Kink]

Originally Posted by Docta?

There is obviously only one method of dealing with this, the most difficult position any human has ever faced... suicide.

I know it sounds harsh, but its honestly the only way. Write a suicide note out of your own blood, telling everyone how life is not worth living without her, then just let yourself bleed out.

If you add a noose in there, it'll go much faster with less chance of recovery at the hospital.

Originally Posted by Anechka

So you want to default a pic of you mashing lips with some hottie and then basically shove your flavor of the week in her face, all in the hopes that she'll be pissed off and jealous, but will eventually break up with her boyfriend and not hate you enough to stop herself from dating you?

That's fucking retarded. How about you just man up and get over her? She's obviously not worth your time and if she chose someone else, so be it. Why would you still want there to be chances between you two further down the road?

So basically you re-wrote my response?
Well done.
It seems another einstein is in the mist.

Nob

Its already been said, just try to get over her without fucking with with her head.
That wont help you, that probably wont even make her jealous.
Just chill and take a few big hits.

Originally Posted by Afromonk

So basically you re-wrote my response?
Well done.
It seems another einstein is in the mist.

Nob

No. I never mentioned rape (even if it was a joke, you're so fucking original by the way ), rebounding with other chicks, freeloading, getting new hobbies, etc. in my post. I only told him it would be stupid to mess with her than try to date her. But nice try on attempting to make yourself sound important, you fucking tard. If you're going to try and call me out on something, check your sources and make sure it's valid first.

Thanks for the help everyone. Shit like that is what happens when you write when you're pissed off. SWIM might just be picking up a bag later , and all will be just fine..

Kinda sad this was one of the last posts on totse. But good advice

AHAH
your hilarious.
The rape part wasn't original yes but funnier than anything you could come up with.
ALso i elaborated on my points unlike you.

Also the very thesis of my post was completely ripped off by you.
This wasn't a hype for self-importance but rather a reminded to propably a pre-teen acolyte that he should think about original posting in future ( even though that is about three hours )

And they are all valid points as i read your post at least three times befor commenting so maybe you should check what your writing?
Instead of getting so defensive all of a sudden maybe you should calm your preteen juices and think clearly.


Tard