I have recently stopped fucking sluts and I've been trying to find relationship quality girls, any ideas on where I can find girls like this, (All of my attempts at relationships end up leading to me either dumping them or pumping and dumping them, I can't seem to find intelligent women).

Where are all the smart women?

Above all you should consider looking in places other than the local brothel ;)

Learn to just be friends and stock up on acquaintances. It really takes some pressure off if you friend zone yourself. Plus you can hang with them and maybe meet another girl through them. Eventually one will come. Potential girlfriends might call you a manwhore but they won't reject you, you'll have to work for them, and that's ok. Just don't be manwhoring around when you are trying to get with them.

I totally agree with minority deport.. just put yourself out there be like jim carey in yes man, except not that extreme. If you hang out with more people and you befriend more girls (even the stupid ones) you will eventually find the girl that you will like.

Speaking of yes man, wasnt that girl like perfect? she had that cute hippie look going on and she was smart and just adorable.

The best relationships are built on an existing foundation made of friendship.

Speaking of yes man, wasnt that girl like perfect? she had that cute hippie look going on and she was smart and just adorable.

She was quite fit/cute but she reminded me of 'katy perry' (annoying as fuck) too much :-/.

What are you looking for in a relationship? It might not be realistic.

Speaking of yes man, wasnt that girl like perfect? she had that cute hippie look going on and she was smart and just adorable.

Zooey Deschanel, man. Only celebrity crush I've ever had.

http://www.celebritywonder.com/event2/pic/Zooey_Deschanel/ZooeyDeschanel_071106.jpg

http://scifipedia.scifi.com/images/thumb/7/78/Zooey-Deschanel-1.jpg/300px-Zooey-Deschanel-1.jpg

http://blogs.sfweekly.com/shookdown/zooey-deschanel.jpg

http://trainersinnightclubs.files.wordpress.com/2008/07/zooey-deschanel-0g1.jpg


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somebody like me, as nerdy as I am academically yet still athletic.

Maybe a gym, but that's the guido approach. The best advice i could give is just talk to girls at college and just swing the conversation towards athletic stuff. Ask them to play tennis or something, tennis girls are hot.

Ask them to do an activity, dates are boring and dates imply you want to try to get in their pants eventually. Find something that you like to do that only a girl that could have potential would do. Tell her "Yo you should come to my house and play backgammon." If she doesn't want to play with you then forget about her, backgammon is your life and you don't want to share your life with someone who isn't into it. If she does want to play then at least you'll have fun playing your favorite game with some girl and then take it from there.

I like tennis, i might not be that into it, but i have fun playing. So i would ask some girl "yo we should play tennis sometime. I like fit girls who exercise too, I feel like they have more worth and more fun and willing to do activities with, as well as being more independent.

This is incredibly true.

I wish I knew where all the relationship quality guys were. Is it just me or are majority of people either insane or just completely lacking in personality? Maybe it's just people from my area but it's becoming ridiculous. Everyone is either boring or carrying mass amounts of emotional baggage. I've realised that I just need to chill about finding someone. It'll happen.

i find that the majority of girls especially where i live all try to fit into this stereotypical image of girl (with a fuckin tna purse, uggs, big sunglasses, tna coat, or a peacoat, i dont know if i painted this image properly, hopefully you get what i mean) and all act very 'girly' for lack of a better word. in short, all these girls are very generic. (but i must admit very attractive)

but once u get to know them, then you can find out if they are intelligent/interesting/worthwhile when you can peel away all the bullshit. once in awhile ull come across a completely down to earth normal person of a girl.

haha zoeey deschanel was adorable in hitchhikers guide to the galaxy.

lololololol superspeedz.

I told you this would happen.

What are you saying? What is realistic?

not always i think cause if a frienship is too extensive after a while the couple will be more like firnds than lovers

This is what I do, the gym, library, coffee shops, lines, etc, I always end up with sluts.

By nerdy I meant, academically i.e. very smart in her field.