My boyfriend and I had been talking about anal since around December 20th (was going to be a Christmas present) but really didn't get around to it until last night, our 6th month anniversary. I'd say we did pretty good for our first time, we used lots of lube, (baby oil gel.. we didn't have anything else) he went slow and there was no pain except for when he stuck the head in the first time.

Now here's my question, it didn't really feel great, it didn't hurt, it was just a very strange sensation similar to... taking a shit. I felt like every time he pulled out I was just going to dump a fat load onto the bed. (Thankfully I, ya know, cleared my shit up. It was a pretty clean process.) I loved the full feeling once his dick was all the way in, but when he pulls out, that feeling distracts me from the potential pleasure. I mean I really really really want to love anal.

I am just wondering, for you ladies who love anal, did you learn to enjoy the shitting feeling, am I doing it wrong, or does it go away?

If your boyfriend is too pussy to get shit on his penis then he shouldn't be sticking his penis in your shithole.

inb4ripstick

I don't think this was an issue in the OP post?...

I don't know, personally, I've got the same problem as you-I want to enjoy it, but it's hard for me and I'm still trying to learn how to be more comfortable with it. I think it might just take time, but not everyone loves anal, you might just be one of them.

inb4xilikeeggs0

chichi, STOP POSTING LIKE A RETARD.
you post loads of post lately wich make no sense, i realise your a 15 year old without a clue and much of a life, but.. please, only post when you have something to add

And they dont have to sticky your posts for you to just post your newest bladiebla story in your old topic

This again, is proof of you having no clue. Specially since you shouldn't get shit on your dick but use a condom cause the things that live in a girls ass you don't want to get on your dick

One position I found I liked was with girl on top doing a backward arch. You know where your stomach is pointing up, feet planted with knees bent and hands and arms supporting you backwards. Guy is underneath you. If you only insert the first 2inches or even just the head it feels fantastic. I think it might be the feeling of 6-8 inches of cocking sliding out of you that gives off that 'shitting feeling'. Dont' let him insert so much.

Haha if my boyfriend was too pussy to get shit on his cock he wouldn't take the risk at all... it's not about actual shit, it's the feeling of taking a shit which I find unpleasant. As long as I've cleared my bowels and stuff I'm not worried about shitting on him, just not being able to enjoy it because of the way it feels when he pulls out.

Ah, I probably should have thought about different positions. Doggy style was just the first thing that came to mind, I don't think either of us really took anything into consideration except for "dick in ass" while in that moment. I also thought that maybe if I pleasure myself during, it might take away from the unpleasant feeling but I haven't had the opportunity to really put this to the test. I am determined to do it til I love it.

When I did it I found stimulating yourself while he is doing it, either you finger yourself or rub yourself, whatever you prefer, makes it feel that much better.

The shitting feeling is normal. No, it doesn't go away, and learning to enjoy it is part of the experience. You need to develop some sphincter control, learning to grip his penis with your muscles. It will make it very pleasurable for you.

Learning to pleasure yourself while at it does help, however, in an ideal case, you should be able to cum just from anal.
Reverse cowgirl is one of my favourite positions for it. Having the girl lie flat down on the bed, facedown, resting her pubic area on a pillow beneath her open legs, while the man thrusts into her, seems to do great things too.

Squatting on the edge of the bed while he does it up you is also good.

But mainly, you have to learn to enjoy the withdrawals and thrusts, and learn to develop a gripping rythm accordingly. I'm glad you got the first part alright, because it is the hardest.

If you aim to develop better sphincter control, try this excercise (properly lubed beforehand): You both squat, and you push out with your rectum while he starts to put it inside. Then, as he applies inward pressure, you rythmically pull out and push with your sphicters, "swallowing" his penis inside. This will help you both develop a rythm together, as well as teach you to enjoy the different sensations. and each other.

Did I mention that physical contact (i.e. caresses, kisses, etc.) is as important as in any other form of sex?

Anyways, good luck and happy anal.

Perhaps, of course, you could have him warm you up with short deep thrusts for a while. By the time you're quite worked up, perhaps the sensation gained from longer thrusts will not be such an issue.

Why are you so determined to like this? My girlfriend and I have talked a little bit, but I dont think we will do anything for quite some time. But still, this has become interesting to me.

Is it because he likes it so much, or just because he talked about it alot before you did it. Or even just because you've heard guys love it.

[edit] When I read this again, I realize that it sounded kinda condescending. I didnt not mean to, I am just intrigued.

I've tried anal a good amount of times with a few different people. The only time I've actually enjoyed it was with the current boyfriend. We did it in spooning position and I fingered myself to orgasm at the same time.
This is the ONLY time I've ever enjoyed it. Some people like it, some people don't. Try it in a few different positions before you decide you like it or not.

Actually, I was the one who brought it up because 1. I find it ridiculously hot 2. why have a hole there if it's not being put to use? 3. I guess it's a matter of closeness and comfortableness, it was our 6 months, we should be able to go there.


So it looks like the best pieces of advice are, switch up the positions, start with shallow thrusts until I'm begging for him to go deeper, and maintain control over my muscles by rhythmically clenching and backing my ass up. Thanks so much guys, I don't know the next time we're going to be trying anal but these suggestions are pretty good and hopefully they work.

Anal. Tee-hee. :D

Anal. Tee-hee. :D

That's what I thought... until I realized that it's not so funny and awkward in a long term relationship. ;)

haha what can i say, i enjoyed reading this thread

Actually, I was the one who brought it up because 1. I find it ridiculously hot 2. why have a hole there if it's not being put to use? 3. I guess it's a matter of closeness and comfortableness, it was our 6 months, we should be able to go there.


So it looks like the best pieces of advice are, switch up the positions, start with shallow thrusts until I'm begging for him to go deeper, and maintain control over my muscles by rhythmically clenching and backing my ass up. Thanks so much guys, I don't know the next time we're going to be trying anal but these suggestions are pretty good and hopefully they work.

i put mine to good use by shitting out of it. do you not have that feature?

i put mine to good use by shitting out of it. do you not have that feature?

You know, I thought about that when I was writing the reply. What I meant was, if there's an entrance why not pleasure it? I'm all about exploration and I figure why not explore my own body.

You know, I thought about that when I was writing the reply. What I meant was, if there's an entrance why not pleasure it? I'm all about exploration and I figure why not explore my own body.

fair play :) just as a side comment i am hoping that you next post a thread titled 'a question for the nostrally experienced women'.

fair play :) just as a side comment i am hoping that you next post a thread titled 'a question for the nostrally experienced women'.

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